Ib qho ntau dua lossis tsawg tus neeg muaj lub siab nyiam yuav pom zoo nrog cov lus hais tias kev tu cev qhov ncauj yog tus yuam sij rau kev noj qab haus huv thiab ua tiav hauv zej zog. Raws li, nws yog qhov tsim nyog rau tus neeg txhuam nws cov hniav tsawg kawg thaum sawv ntxov thiab yav tsaus ntuj kom pom meej npaum li haus dej huv thiab ua pa huv. Tab sis yuav piav li cas qhov no rau cov me nyuam? Yuav ua li cas qhia tus me nyuam txhuam lawv cov hniav?
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Yog tias koj xav qhia ib yam dab tsi hauv koj tus menyuam, ces pib ua nrog nws. Lub hauv paus ntsiab lus no tseem muaj feem xyuam hauv qhov no. Koj tsis txhob qhia tus menyuam yaus ntau zaug kom nws mus thiab txhuam nws cov hniav. Zoo dua thaum sawv ntxov, caw nws mus rau chav dej nrog koj txhuam nws cov hniav ua ke. Lub sijhawm ua cov txheej txheem no, tsis txhob cia tus menyuam mus ua si ntau, tab sis koj tuaj yeem tso dag thiab luag me ntsis kom thaum kawg txhuam nws cov hniav nws yuav nyob hauv lub siab zoo. Yog li, txheej txheem ua haujlwm dhau los ua kev hloov pauv mus ua kev lom zem.
Kauj ruam 2
Lwm zaus koj tuaj yeem rov ua dua no maneuver, tsuas yog tsis muaj ntaub qhwv, tab sis tsuas yog txhuam koj cov hniav ua ke. Feem ntau, tus menyuam yuav hu koj zaum peb. Tom qab ntawd xa nws mus rau chav dej ua ntej, thiab cog lus tias nws yuav rov qab los tom ntej. Tsuas yog nco ntsoov ua raws li koj cov lus cog tseg.
Kauj ruam 3
Lub sijhawm tom qab tus menyuam tuaj yeem raug xa mus nyob ib leeg los txhuam nws cov hniav. Nws yuav tsis kam tiv thaiv nws, vim tias txhuam nws cov hniav yuav ua rau nws muaj tus cwj pwm zoo nrog rau qhov nco txog ntawm cov txheej txheem yav dhau los. Tsuas yog tsis txhob hnov qab tswj xyuas seb tus menyuam txhuam nws cov hniav li cas, seb nws puas ua nws puas yog.
Kauj ruam 4
Yog koj pom tias tus me nyuam tawm tsam kev txhuam nws cov hniav lossis nws pheej “ntxhov siab nyob ib puag ncig” (mus rau chav dej thiab mus hauv nws es tsis txhuam nws cov hniav), nrog nws tham. Nco ntsoov piav tias vim li cas koj thiaj xav ua qhov no, vim li cas koj yuav tsum txhuam hniav txhua hnub thiab ntau dua ib zaug. Qhia peb txog tej zaum yuav tshwm sim vim tias tsis muaj qhov ncauj tu cev. Yog lawm, cov lus "tu cev qhov ncauj" thiab cov zoo li yuav tsis muaj qhov xav tau yam xav ua rau tus menyuam yaus. Sim piav kom muaj nuj nqis, tsuas yog tsis txhob ua nws dhau! Ntxiv mus, nws muaj peev xwm ua kom txaj muag me nyuam yaus, qhia rau nws paub tias nws tsuas yog tsis zoo ua rau pom nws tus kheej rau cov neeg nrog cov hniav tsis huv.
Kauj ruam 5
Ib qho ntxiv, sim ua piv txwv rau tus menyuam hauv txhua yam. Hais meej meej rau koj tus menyuam txoj kev mloog mus rau qhov yog thiab qhov yuav tsum tau ua. Hauv qhov no, qhov no zoo tshaj plaws kev ntseeg rau nws. Thiab tsis txhob hnov qab txog lub tacit, tswj kev tswj hwm. Yog tias koj ua ntau yam kev qhia thoob plaws txhua qhov kev pom zoo, tom qab ntawv nws yuav tsis nyuaj qhia menyuam yaus txhuam nws cov hniav.
