Mastering lub lauj kaub tsis yog ib qho yooj yim, tab sis theem tseem ceeb hauv kev loj hlob ntawm ib tus menyuam yaus. Txhawm rau kom tus menyuam tuaj yeem kawm tau sai thiab raug siv qhov potty, niam txiv, thawj zaug, yuav tsum kawm paub kho tus menyuam qhov peev xwm li cas nrog nws lub hnub nyoog.
Thaum muaj hnub nyoog li cas nws puas tau hais qhia kom potty qhia menyuam?
Muaj ib lub tswv yim ntawm cov niam txiv hais tias nws yog qhov tsim nyog los potty qhia menyuam sai li sai tau thaum nws pib zaum, thiab qhov no yog li 6-8 lub hlis. Qhov kev koom tes no yog qhov tsis raug, txij li ntawm 1 xyoo thiab 3 hlis, tus menyuam nyuam qhuav pib paub thiab hnov qhov zais zis ntawm lub zais zis. Yog li ntawd, txhua qhov kev sim ua kom nws nyiam ua ntej tus me nyuam yuav tsis zoo.
Qee cov niam txiv tswj hwm qhia lawv cov menyuam ua ntej. Qhov no yog vim qhov tseeb tias cov menyuam yaus pib sib txawv, thiab qee tus menyuam me yuav pib nco qab mus rau qhov potty ua ntej. Tab sis feem ntau, nrog kev ib txwm paub ua ntej, tus menyuam siv lub lauj kaub tsis nco qab, thiab thaum nws loj tuaj, nws yuav dheev "tsis nco qab" yuav ua li cas thiab thaum twg. Tus kws kho mob muaj npe hu ua Komarovsky ntseeg hais tias ua ntej 18 lub hlis koj yuav tsum tsis txhob sim qhia tus menyuam kom siv lub laujkaub ntxiv kom tsis txhob muaj qhov tsis tsim nyog rov tshwm sim hauv menyuam.
Cov txuj ci ruaj khov nyob rau hauv qhov tsim ntawm kev tso zis tswj tau tsim nyob rau hauv tus menyuam ntawm 22-30 lub hlis. Nws yog lub sijhawm no, raws li Komarovsky, uas yog qhov zoo tshaj rau kev qhia potty.
Cov cim tseem ceeb tias me nyuam npaj siab
Ua ntej koj pib pib potty kev cob qhia, koj yuav tsum paub tseeb tias nws theem ntawm txoj kev loj hlob tso cai rau koj ua qhov no. Cov cim tseem ceeb ntawm kev npaj txhij rau kev kawm muaj:
- Lub hnub nyoog ntawm tus menyuam (nws yuav tsum dhau 15-18 hlis);
- Tus me nyuam pib tswj nws lub zais zis (thaum nruab hnub pw tsaug zog thiab 2 teev tom qab nws, tus menyuam daim pawj los yog panties tseem nyob qhuav);
- Tus me nyuam pib xav ua ntej tias nws xav tau lub plab (piv txwv li, nws yuav nyob ntsiag to thiab zoo li ua rau pom);
- Cov menyuam yaus muaj peev xwm nkag siab thiab ua raws cov lus qhia yooj yim (piv txwv, nqa lossis nqa ib yam dab tsi);
- Cov menyuam yaus muaj kev txawj ntse ntawm kev pabcuam tus kheej thaum yau (tuaj yeem hnav thiab hle ris tsho, ris ntev) thiab npaj txhij los ua cov haujlwm ntawm kev thov ntawm cov neeg laus;
- Tus menyuam tuaj yeem zaum twj ywm li ntawm 10 feeb;
- Tus me nyuam paub lub npe ntawm seem ntawm cov zaub mov thiab tuaj yeem qhia lawv.
Yog hais tias tus menyuam tsis muaj cov paib hais saum toj no, ces nws yuav dhau mus ua potty kev cob qhia nws.
Cov lus qhia yooj yim rau kev cob qhia potty
Ua ntej pib kev cob qhia, cov niam txiv yuav tsum nkag siab tias txhua tus menyuam yog tus neeg ib leeg, thiab dab tsi ua haujlwm nrog ib tus menyuam tsis ua haujlwm nrog lwm tus. Tab sis muaj cov lus pom zoo tsim los ntawm cov kws kho kev puas siab ntsws thiab kws kho mob kev xav, hauv qab no uas koj tuaj yeem ua tiav potty kev cob qhia menyuam yaus:
- Xaiv cov khaub ncaws zoo uas tus menyuam tuaj yeem hnav ntawm nws tus kheej. Cov no yuav tsum yog panties thiab ris ntev tsis muaj cov khawm ris thiab khawm, kom tus menyuam, yog tias tsim nyog, tuaj yeem rub lawv tawm ntawm nws tus kheej.
- Zoo tab sis xis lauj kaub. Lub lauj kaub menyuam yuav tsum yog qhov txaus siab rau tus menyuam, tsis tas yuav ntshai thiab tsis xis nyob. Koj tuaj yeem mus tom khw nrog koj tus menyuam thiab xaiv lub lauj kaub uas nws nyiam. Nws tuaj yeem piav qhia txog cov koj nyiam tshaj plaws lossis cov tsiaj txhu ntawm tus menyuam.
- Cia tus me nyuam xaiv qhov chaw zoo rau kev tso quav tso zis. Tsis txhob yuam koj tus menyuam zaum saum lub potty tsuas yog hauv chav dej lossis chav dej. Xws li qhov yuav tsum ua rau tus menyuam tsis xav siv lub laujkaub. Thiab koj yuav tsum tsis txhob txwv nws ua si lossis nplooj los ntawm phau ntawv thaum lub sijhawm "sib sau ua ke" ntawm lub lauj kaub.
- Muab cov lus qhia raws sij hawm thiab nkag siab. Nyob rau lub sij hawm kawm potty, nws yog ib qho tsim nyog kom rov qab qhia tus me nyuam ntau dua vim li cas thiab yuav siv nws li cas. Hauv qhov no, koj tuaj yeem siv cov khoom ua si coj los ua qauv qhia.
- Saib xyuas cov cim kom zoo. Txhua tus me nyuam, ua ntej mus tso zis tso quav, ua yeeb yam ntawm tus yam ntxwv, piv txwv li, khov lossis thawb. Txhawm rau pom cov cim no, nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom muab tus menyuam tso rau lub potty sai li sai tau.
- Raws li qhov ua tau, nug tus me nyuam kom qhia seb nws xav siv chav dej.
Tseem yog qhov tseem ceeb los khaws cov kev mob siab rau hauv lub siab. Tsis txhob thuam koj tus menyuam rau "ris ntub". Tus me nyuam yuav ua tau zoo dua hauv kev qhia potty yog tias nws raug qhuas thiab qhuas txog nws txoj kev vam meej. Thiab txhua yam kev hem thawj thiab kev siv dag zog tsis yog yuav cuam tshuam txog kev sib raug zoo ntawm niam txiv-menyuam, tab sis tseem ua rau kev txhim kho ntawm ntau yam teeb meem kev xav hauv menyuam yaus.
