Qee zaum kev tshaj tawm ua lub hauv paus ntawm kev tsim ntawm tib neeg xav tau. Cov neeg tsim khoom mus rau qhov ntev ntev los ua cov khoom lag luam lossis cov kev pabcuam zoo nkauj nyob rau hauv lub qhov muag ntawm tus neeg yuav khoom thiab txhim kho tib neeg cov kev xav tau.
Yog tias koj tau puas tau yuav qee yam uas tsis tseem ceeb kiag li tsis tsim nyog rau koj tsuas yog vim nws tau tshaj tawm zoo, koj yuav tuaj yeem xav paub txog yuav ua li cas tshaj tawm kev lag luam cuam tshuam rau koj lub subconscious. Kev tshaj tawm xov xwm ntau dhau los ua kom tiav ib qho kev xav tau ntawm ib tus neeg, tab sis yog tias koj paub meej tias nws ua haujlwm li cas, koj tuaj yeem tiv thaiv ntau yam kev dag ntawm cov neeg muag khoom hauv lub neej yav tom ntej.
Saib xyuas kev tswj hwm
Cov cawv ntawm kev tshaj tawm ntawm kev nco qab ntawm cov pej xeem tshwm sim hauv ntau txoj kev. Ib qho ntawm cov tswv yim yog kev tswj hwm cov neeg siv khoom. Nws tsis tuaj yeem hais ncaj qha tias tus tshaj tawm cov neeg dag ntxias koj, tab sis nws coj koj txoj kev xav hauv qhov kev coj nws xav tau. Piv txwv li, tus muag khoom tuaj yeem siv kev tshaj tawm los saib xyuas koj txoj kev xav txog cov yam ntxwv ntawm cov khoom lag luam uas tsis muaj kev paub tseem ceeb rau nws siv - piv txwv li, yeej qhov kev nyiam ntawm cov neeg siv khoom los ntawm kev tsim cov khoom siv hauv tsev. Ua li no, cov chaw tsim khoom lag luam tuaj yeem nqa cov neeg yuav khoom ntawm cov neeg sib tw muab cov khoom zoo sib xws ntawm tus nqi ntau dua.
Feem ntau, nyob rau hauv kev cuam tshuam ntawm kev tshaj tawm, cov neeg siv khoom them nyiaj ntau dhau yam tsis muaj kev ceeb toom.
Cuam tshuam los ntawm kev ntshai
Kev tshaj tawm tuaj yeem ua txoj hauv kev txiav txim siab hauv kev yuav khoom ntawm ib qho khoom lag luam tshwj xeeb, yog tias cov chaw tsim khoom tawm suab teeb meem, thiab tom qab ntawv tshaj tawm txog kev daws teeb meem nrog kev pab ntawm nws cov khoom. Cov kev quab yuam no yuam cov neeg yuav khoom xav txog tej yam uas tsis tau tshwm sim dhau los rau lawv dhau los. Tab sis cov teeb meem sib txawv tau yooj yim daws teeb meem los ntawm kev yuav khoom qhov txuj ci tseem ceeb tshiab, raws li kev cog lus ntawm cov tshaj tawm.
Qee zaum cov lus nug uas yuav khoom ntawm ib qho khoom txiav txim siab yog qhov cuam tshuam rau cov pejxeem. Txawm li cas los xij, cov tuam ntxhab tau nce ntxiv qhov yuav tsum tau yuav nws, txhim kho cov ncauj lus ntawm qhov yuav muaj kev cuam tshuam rau ib tus neeg uas tsis yuav lawv cov khoom.
Ua si ntawm tib neeg qhov kev ntshai, cov neeg muag khoom muab lawv cov khoom ua tib txoj kev daws teeb meem ntawm qhov teeb meem no.
Coob rau cov kev xav
Qee tus tshaj tawm, paub tseeb tias cov khoom lag luam tsis muaj peev xwm nqa cov txiaj ntsig tshwj xeeb rau tus neeg siv khoom, thiab tej zaum tseem ua rau nws raug mob, siv cov duab zoo nkauj hauv cov vis dis aus thiab cov duab, kho kom zoo, vivid, nco, caw. Koj tuaj yeem pom cov tactic no, piv txwv, hauv kev tshaj tawm rau haus dej haus cawv. Yog tias tus neeg muag khoom hais txog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm nws cov khoom, ib tus neeg yuav xav tias nws puas tsim nyog siv nws cov nyiaj thiab kev noj qab haus huv rau nws. Yog li ntawd, lub hom phiaj ntawm cov neeg tshaj tawm hauv qhov xwm txheej no yog ua rau tib neeg tsis xav, tab sis succumb mus rau kev xav, yuav mus rau hauv cov duab zoo nkauj thiab cov lus dag dag.
Lwm cov lag luam tawm tau tsim nrog cov duab zoo heev. Tus neeg siv khoom siv cuam tshuam nrog lawv thiab rov ua dua rau qhov kev txiav txim ntawm lub siab ntsws, zoo li yog rov qab mus rau thaum yau. Yog tias koj tsis xav ua cov kev xav tsis txaus siab nyob rau hauv kev cuam tshuam ntawm kev tshaj tawm, suav nrog kev xav thiab qhov tseeb ntsuas seb koj puas xav tau cov khoom no.
Kev siv qhov tseem ceeb
Tej zaum koj yuav xav tsis thoob los kawm paub tias qee qhov koj qhov txiaj ntsig yuav raug tswj hwm los ntawm kev tshaj tawm. Txaus nyiam cov neeg yuav khoom, cov tsim khoom lag luam tsom rau qhov tseeb tias nrog cov khoom no koj yuav yog ib tus neeg nyiam, niaj hnub. Tsis tas li, cov ntawv tshaj tawm kuj yuav muaj cov kab lus uas nrov tshaj tawm cov neeg thiab cov hnub qub siv cov khoom no.
Tsis tas li, kev siv dag zog rau ntawm koj lub siab nyiam tshaj plaws ua qauv thiab txias, lossis tsawg kawg khaws nrog kev txhim kho hauv lub ntsiab ntawm cov tib neeg, tuaj yeem ua raws cov lus nug-cov lus qhia uas ua rau muaj kev xav ua txhaum rau lawv rov qab thiab tsis tau txais txiaj ntsig. Tom ntej no, cov tshaj tawm tham txog cov kev coj ua zoo tshaj plaws ntawm lwm tus neeg, cov neeg zoo tib yam lossis cov neeg muaj npe nrov, thiab muab koj yuav cov khoom lag luam tshiab uas yuav zoo li muab koj daim ntawv hla mus rau qee lub koom haum ntawm cov pa. Yog lawm, hauv kev muaj tiag, cov txiaj ntsig ntawm kev yuav khoom yog tsis muaj txiaj ntsig tsawg dua li cov tau cog lus hauv kev tshaj tawm.
