Rau ntau qhov laj thawj, niam txiv raug yuam kom mus rau kev pab ntawm lawv pog. Nws tuaj yeem ua lag luam tom chaw haujlwm, mus ncig rau tus kws kho mob, lossis tsuas yog npau suav kev npau suav ib leeg nrog koj tus txij nkawm. Qhov tseeb, cov niam tais yawm txiv zoo siab pom zoo los pab thiab zaum nrog lawv cov xeeb ntxwv, vim lawv kuj xav nrog cov menyuam sib txuas lus. Ua ntej yuav muab tus me nyuam rau koj pog, nco ntsoov koj xav txog txhua qhov tseem ceeb.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Muab cov lus qhia tsim nyog rau kev saib xyuas thiab khoom noj muaj txiaj ntsig ntawm tus menyuam. Tsis txhob muab los hais qhov uas koj pog tau tsa koj (lossis koj tus txij nkawm), yog li nws yuav tiv nrog cov xeeb ntxwv zoo tag nrho. Nws tau ntev ntev los lawm, thiab txhua tus muaj cov tswv yim sib txawv txog kev tu menyuam. Yog li ntawd, hais qhia kom meej meej rau koj niam pog txog tag nrho cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb thiab nuances, lossis tseem zoo dua, sau lawv hauv ntawv.
Kauj ruam 2
Muab txhua yam koj xav tau thaum koj tus menyuam tuaj ncig xyuas. Cov khoom seem, cov zaub mov nyiam thiab khoom ua si yuav tsum muaj thiab, yog tias tsim nyog, tus pog tuaj yeem hloov khaub ncaws yooj yim thiab pub mis rau tus menyuam. Xav txog ntawm tus me nyuam lub sijhawm so. Cov ntawv nyeem ntawv, thas xim rau ntawv thiab kev kawm ua si yuav pab tus pog ua kev lom zem rau nws tus tub xeeb ntxwv.
Kauj ruam 3
Yog tias tus menyuam yaus me, tsis txhob cia nws ntev. Granny, ntawm chav kawm, tsis yog neeg txawv, tab sis yog tsis muaj leej niam, tom qab ib pliag nws yuav pib yuav pib plhaw thiab capricious. Thaum lub hnub nyoog yau, cov menyuam mos xav tau leej niam thiab leej txiv ntau yam.
Kauj ruam 4
Yog tias tus niam pog yuav nrog nws tus tub xeeb ntxwv nyob hauv koj lub tsev, tsis txhob ris nws nrog ua hauj lwm hauv tsev ntxiv. Hais kom ib tus neeg nquag dhau mus tsis txhob "ntxuav koj pob zeb tawg", cia nws zoo dua rau nws saib xyuas tus menyuam. Ob peb lub tais ua qias neeg thiab hmoov av ntawm lub txee dai khaub ncaws yuav tsis vau koj chav tsev, tab sis kev ua haujlwm hauv tsev tuaj yeem cuam tshuam koj pog ntawm nws tus tub xeeb ntxwv.
Kauj ruam 5
Yog tias koj tus menyuam muaj mob, qhia cov lus qhia meej tias yuav noj cov tshuaj li cas. Nug koj pog kom ua raws li kws kho mob cov lus qhia thiab kho mob uas nws tau hais tseg, thiab tsis txhob sim ua cov zaub mov txawv li koj tsis tau ua. Kev noj qab haus huv ntawm tus menyuam yog qhov tseem ceeb heev thiab koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ua rau nws tsis saib xyuas.
Kauj Ruam 6
Nco ntsoov thov ua tsaug rau koj niam loj txoj kev pab. Tsis txhob ua phem rau nws txoj kev cia siab, txawm hais tias tus pog yog ib tus neeg hlub rau koj, nws kuj muaj nws lub neej thiab kev ua haujlwm. Ntxiv mus, nws tsis tas yuav tu koj cov menyuam. Hais kom nws pab tsuas yog thaum tsim nyog nkaus xwb. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog tsis pub kom muaj kev sib txuas lus zoo nrog koj tus tub xeeb ntxwv kom tig mus ua qhov haujlwm tsis txaus ntseeg.
