Txhua tus menyuam yaus sib txawv, feem ntau, zoo ib yam li cov laus. Thiab qhov ceev ntawm cov txheej txheem ntawm lub paj hlwb nws txawv rau txhua tus neeg. Cov menyuam yaus lub cev tsis zoo ntawm lub paj hlwb tau hu ua qeeb qeeb. Lawv kwv yees li 20% ntawm tag nrho cov me nyuam, qhov no yog ntau heev, thib tsib. Dab tsi ua niam txiv ntawm cov menyuam yaus thiab cov kws qhia ntawv no yuav tsum paub kom tsis txhob ua rau menyuam mob?
Tus me nyuam txav mus, hais lus thiab xav qeeb dua nws tus phooj ywg. Qhov no tsis yog sib txawv. Qhov no yog hom mob hlwb.
Ib tus menyuam twg tuaj yeem ua rau qeeb vim muaj mob lossis ntxhov siab. Tab sis tus kabmob ploj mus, kev txhim kho kev mob hlwb zoo dua qub thiab nws pib zoo li nws. Tus menyuam qeeb yuav yeej ib txwm zoo li ntawd. Nws tsuas yog xav pab hloov mus rau lwm tus uas sib txawv ntawm nws.
Hauv cov menyuam yaus thaum ntxov, cov menyuam qeeb yuav yooj yim rau cov niam txiv - lawv tsaug zog ntau, tsis ua ub ua no. Cov lus nug tshwm sim thaum me nyuam yaus mus rau hauv lub ntiaj teb. Txog rau kindergarten lossis tsev kawm ntawv. Thiab yog tias nws muaj niam txiv siab luv, tom qab ntawd txawm tias ntxov dua. Cov menyuam tsis muaj sijhawm ua tiav cov haujlwm nyob rau tib lub sijhawm uas yog pab pawg lossis chav kawm, tsis muaj sijhawm hloov mus ua kev kawm paub lub cev, tsis muaj sijhawm noj mov.
Thiab yog tias ib tus neeg laus - niam txiv lossis tus kws qhia ntawv tsis them nyiaj rau qhov teeb meem no, tus menyuam yuav tau txais kev mob siab ntsws. Hauv kev ua raws li chav kawm, nws yuav dhau haujlwm, poob siab. Nws yuav mob taub hau, poob siab. Thiab nyob rau qhov zoo tshaj plaws - kev ntshai ntawm tsev kawm, thiab qhov phem tshaj - kev ntxhov siab thiab mob neurosis.
Tab sis cov teeb meem tseem ceeb pib hauv qib nruab nrab ntawm tsev kawm, tom qab qib 4. Tus naj npawb ntawm cov ncauj lus thiab cov kws qhia tau nce siab ntxiv, cov haujlwm ntau ntxiv.
Peb twb paub lawm tias qhov qeeb yuav tsis ploj nrog lub hnub nyoog. Yuav ua li cas? Koj tuaj yeem pab tus menyuam qeeb li cas?
1. Tsis tas yuav tsum ua kom nrawm rau tus menyuam, nws yuav tsis ua haujlwm nrawm dua ntxiv - nws yuav tshee. Cia nws ua haujlwm nrawm uas nws nyiam rau nws, tsis yog rau koj.
2. Qhov zoo ntawm kev ua haujlwm yuav ua raws li kev sib cav ntawm cov xwm txheej. Kev teeb tsa thiab txheej txheem yuav tsum paub. Kev hloov pauv yog qhov tsis tseem ceeb.
3. Tus menyuam tsis tuaj yeem hloov pauv ntawm ib hom haujlwm mus rau lwm qhov, yuav tsum muaj kev sib tawg. Tsis tas li, thaum ua tiav txoj haujlwm, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob nug cov lus nug ntxiv.
4. Koj yuav tsum ua tiav qee cov haujlwm hauv tsev nyob hauv tsev, npaj rau qhov no. Kev paub me ntsis tuaj yeem pab txhim kho koj tus menyuam txoj kev xav thiab kev ntseeg siab nyob hauv chav kawm thaum koj tham txog cov ncauj lus uas yuav tsum tau kawm.
5. Txiav txim siab rau koj tus kheej tas mus li tias cov qib zoo lossis kev zoo siab ntawm koj tus menyuam thiab nws txoj kev nplij siab lub siab tseem ceeb dua rau koj. Nws yuav tsis nyeem sai npaum li lwm tus. Tab sis yog tias tib lub sijhawm nws tseem yuav xav tias tsis zoo - leej twg yuav zoo dua los ntawm qhov no? Nws yuav ntxub tsev kawm ntawv, thiab nws yuav yog txoj cai. Tom qab tag nrho, tsis muaj leej twg muaj hlub thiab to taub nws. Lawv tsuas ua rau poob ntsej muag thiab rhuav tshem nws tus kheej nkaus xwb. Nco ntsoov sablaj txog cov teebmeem no nrog koj tus xibfwb. Qhov hloov nrawm tsis yog qhov khoom tseem ceeb. Yog tias xav tau tus kws pab tswv yim hauv tsev kawm ntawv.
Koj tuaj yeem kho qhov qeeb qeeb li cas?
Kev tawm dag zog tuaj yeem ua kom nce qeeb ntawm koj tus menyuam txoj haujlwm me ntsis. Tab sis tsuas yog tias koj tau hais nrog qhov teeb meem no ua ntej 4-6 xyoos. Hauv qhov no, koj tsis tas yuav maj mam nce kev nrawm ntawm cov haujlwm. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tau pauv nws hauv ib qho kev coj thiab lwm yam. Kev coj ua kom zoo - ua tiav sai sai - ua hauj lwm txias.
Ua si rau sib txawv ceev ntawm kev txav ntawm "hnub-hmo ntuj" hom. Thaum nruab hnub peb nquag txav mus, nrog cov lus "hmo ntuj" - peb khov. Tom qab ntawv rov ua dua.
Khov tawm rhythms. Cov nkauj yooj yooj yim uas hlub los ntawm tus menyuam tuaj yeem xuas nws tus pas lossis npuaj teg. Koj tuaj yeem kos cov kav kab, qee zaum nrawm, qee zaum qeeb.
Koj lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb yog qhia koj tus menyuam kom tswj hwm qhov ceev ntawm qhov lawv ua.
