Tej zaum, tag nrho cov tsev neeg tsawg kawg ib zaug tau xav txog yuav ua li cas tu lawv tus menyuam. Cov kev qhia tu ntawm txhua tus niam txiv muaj qhov sib txawv thiab ncaj qha nyob ntawm tus kheej tus yam ntxwv.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Tsis txhob ntshai los tsoo koj tus menyuam, teb rau nws lub siab xav nrog koj txij thawj lub hli ntawm lub neej - txoj kev no koj yuav ua rau nws tso siab tias nws tsis yog nws ib leeg, uas nws yog tus tseem ceeb. Ntsib nws qhov kev xav tau tseem ceeb heev rau menyuam yaus.
Kauj ruam 2
Txhawb kev pib ntawm cov kab nrib pleb, qhia nws tias nws tau ua qhov yog: "Koj yog tus phooj ywg zoo, koj nce siab heev …" - thiab tsuas yog tom qab ntawd taw tes qhia qhov yuam kev lossis kev phom sij: "Nws yog qhov txaus ntshai ntawm no xwb, hu koj niam. " Lawm, nws yog qhov yuav tsum ua txhua yam los ua kom lub chaw nyob ib puag ncig tus menyuam muaj kev nyab xeeb: tshem cov khoom phom sij rau nws, tiv thaiv cov thom khwm, zais cov xov hlau, thiab lwm yam.
Kauj ruam 3
Tsis txhob ua kom nws poob. Tsis txhob hais tias "koj ua tsis tau, koj yuav ntaus, koj yuav mob, koj yuav poob." Nws yog qhov zoo dua los hloov cov kab lus no nrog "ceev faj, ceev faj, tsis txhob ntaus, koj tuaj yeem ua nws thaum koj loj hlob."
Kauj ruam 4
Nco ntsoov, yog tias tus menyuam yaus tsis zoo, nws yuav tsum nkag siab tias nws qhov kev coj ua tsis zoo, tab sis tsis yog nws tus kheej ("Koj yog tus zoo, tab sis kos duab ntawm phab ntsa tsis zoo, koj tsis tuaj yeem ua qhov ntawd"). Tsis txhob cia siab tias tus me nyuam yuav paub nws tus kheej tsis ncaj ncees lawm thiab nkag siab nws qhov yuam kev ntawm nws tus kheej. Sim piav kom meej rau nws nyob hauv daim foos yooj yim tshaj plaws rau nws.
Kauj ruam 5
Tsis ua kom poob ntsej muag, tsis txhob dai daim ntawv lo (ruam, dab tuag, thiab lwm yam) - "raws li koj lub npe hu yacht, yog li nws yuav ntab." Qhov no tuaj yeem ua rau tus me nyuam dhau los ua cov nyom. Siv cov lus yooj yooj yim "tsis" thiab "tsis tau", nrog kev pab uas koj yuav muaj peev xwm txhim tsa txoj kab ntawm kev coj tus cwj pwm kom txaus, tseem yuav kho tau ntau yam teeb meem.
Kauj Ruam 6
Nco ntsoov tias tus me nyuam loj hlob xav tau kev txwv ib yam nkaus li lawv xav tau kev tso cai thiab kev qhuas. Kev txwv thiab qhov yuav tsum ua raws li qee txoj cai yuav pab tus menyuam kom muaj kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb rau hauv lub ntiaj teb tshiab rau nws, kom pom kev sib raug zoo ntawm lwm tus neeg, thiab ntseeg nws niam nws txiv. Yog li ntawd, tsis txhob ntshai txwv tsis pub tus menyuam ua qee yam, ua kom zoo thiab tso siab nws tus kheej, thiab tom qab ntawd nws yuav tsis whimper thiab capricious.
Kauj Ruam 7
Tsis txhob saib xyuas tus menyuam nrog kev qhia ntau dhau, muab sijhawm rau nws tus kheej mus tshawb thoob lub ntiaj teb ib puag ncig nws. Tsuas yog nyob ze thiab pov hwm, tab sis tsis txhob cuam tshuam rau nws cov haujlwm. Txwv tsis pub, txwv tsis pub, tus me nyuam yuav nyob hauv qab koj tis tag nrho nws lub neej.
