Ib tug niam txiv twg xav coj tus me nyuam zoo siab thiab zoo siab, thiab lawv ua qhov zoo tshaj plaws rau qhov no. Thiab koj yuav coj li cas ib tug neeg muaj kev vam meej uas tuaj yeem paub txog nws tus kheej thiab nws cov peev xwm hauv kev laus?
Tus menyuam yuav tsum xav tias nws niam nws txiv hlub nws. Tus yuam sij rau ib tus neeg twg muaj kev vam meej yog qhov zoo, kho tus kheej kom zoo. Cov niam txiv yuav tsum ua qhia tias lawv hlub nws vim nws yog leej twg thiab nws yog leej twg. Tham nrog koj tus menyuam txog qhov no ntau npaum li ua tau, khawm nws ntau zaus thiab fwm nws txhua qhov kev xav thiab kev xav. Yog tias, piv txwv li, tus menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau mus pw, tab sis nws tseem ua si, nws zoo dua tsis yog qw rau nws, tab sis kom pab nws ua tiav kev ua si, ua tiav lub tsev, rhuav tus zaj, thiab tom qab ntawd muab nws tso txaj. Tsis tas li ntawd, tsis txhob thuam tus menyuam, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau thuam nws kev ua.
Tus me nyuam yuav tsum muaj txoj cai xaiv. Nws tuaj yeem yog qhov tsis tseem ceeb thiab kev xaiv yooj yim, piv txwv li, dab tsi nws yuav hnav rau taug kev. Raws li qhov nws yooj yim, tus me nyuam yuav pom tias nws cov tswv yim raug mloog. Sib tham ua yeeb yaj kiab, duab ກາ ຕູນ, cov phau ntawv lossis tej yam nrog nws thiab nug txhua lub sijhawm.
Tus menyuam yuav tsum muaj peev xwm sib tham tau. Qhov no yog kev pab tau zoo thaum nws los txog rau kev ua kom tau tus neeg vam meej. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog los tsim kho tus me nyuam hais lus zoo, qhia nws kom qhia nws cov kev xav rau lub sijhawm no lossis lub sijhawm ntawd thiab hauv ntau yam xwm txheej.
Pab koj tus menyuam nrhiav tau lub heev uas nws xav muab nws lub neej. Txhua tus neeg muaj lawv tus kheej lub peev xwm thiab kev muaj peev xwm. Saib koj tus menyuam kom nws pom tias yam kev ua uas nws nyiam tshaj plaws rau nws thiab sim txhim kho nws li qhov nws xav tau. Nco ntsoov: qhov pib koj pib tsim kho, qhov zoo dua. Yog lawm, yav tom ntej, nws tuaj yeem txav mus ntawm qhov lag luam no thiab ua lwm yam, tab sis kev ua haujlwm ntau xyoo yuav yeej ib txwm tuaj rau qhov zoo.
Koj kuj yuav tsum pom thiab txhim kho kev paub txog kev muaj tswv yim. Txij thaum hnub nyoog pib, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau qhia tus menyuam muaj tswv yim, uas yog, kos duab nrog nws, sau paj huam, ntaus nkauj lossis seev cev. Qhov no yog qhov pab tau zoo hauv kev daws teeb meem hauv cov neeg laus lub neej, vim tias tus neeg muaj tswv yim zoo yuav pom qhov tsis muaj tseeb ntawm cov kev daws teeb meem.
Tus menyuam yuav tsum tau txais kev paub paub ua lub luag haujlwm. Tus menyuam yuav tsum xav txog lub luag haujlwm nws tau ua thiab qhov nws ua, tab sis koj tsis txhob cem tus menyuam, tsuas yog pab nws nrhiav txoj hauv kev zoo tshaj plaws ntawm qhov xwm txheej. Nws tseem ceeb yuav tsum qhia ua piv txwv tias yuav tsum tau khaws lo lus ib zaug.
Tus neeg vam meej yog qhov kev xav zoo hauv lub neej. Hauv qhov xwm txheej phem, koj yuav tsum pom qee yam zoo, thiab qhov no tseem ceeb heev rau tus neeg muaj kev vam meej. Nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau piav qhia rau tus menyuam tias kev yeej yuav raug hloov los ntawm qhov swb, thiab qhov no yog qhov qub. Ntawm no nws kuj yuav pab tau los qhia qhov zoo rau los ntawm kev ua piv txwv.
Ib tug neeg muaj txiaj ntsig nco txiaj ntsig lub sijhawm. Tus me nyuam yuav tsum niaj hnub khoom nrog qee yam, tsis yooj yim, tab sis nco ntsoov nrog qee yam, thiab maj mam qhov kev ua tau zoo no yuav dhau los ua ib qho kev coj zoo.
Thiab, ntawm chav kawm, qhov no yog kev ywj pheej. Txij li ob xyoos, tus me nyuam qhia kev ywj pheej, thiab qhov no zoo heev. Koj yuav tsum muab sijhawm rau nws ua qee yam ntawm nws tus kheej thiab tsis txhob maj ua nws rau nws. Tsuas yog ua siab ntev me ntsis thiab saib tus menyuam ua dab tsi.
Nco ntsoov tias menyuam yaus yog tus txhuam cev, nws yuav nqus txhua yam uas tsev neeg thiab lub neej nthuav tawm rau nws.
