Thawj tus luam yeeb haus luam yeeb feem ntau tshwm sim thaum tseem hluas. Ntawm cov tub thiab ntxhais hnub nyoog 14-16, txhua txhua ob zaug haus luam yeeb. Cov neeg hluas yog cov muaj kev phom sij tshaj plaws hauv zej zog uas muaj kev quav yeeb quav tshuaj.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Txawm tias muaj kev tawm tsam los tiv thaiv kev haus luam yeeb, txhawb txoj kev noj qab haus huv thiab muaj kev txwv ntau, cov hluas tseem yog pawg neeg haus luam yeeb ntau tshaj plaws. Ntxiv mus, tsis tsuas yog txiv neej hluas, tab sis kuj tseem hluas nkauj haus luam yeeb. Lawv txhua tus paub zoo txog kev phom sij ntawm kev haus luam yeeb, ntawm qhov kev puas tsuaj uas tsis paub txog ntawm cov luam yeeb ua rau kev mob nkeeg thiab kev zoo nkauj, tab sis lawv tseem pheej haus luam yeeb. Nws muaj ntau qhov laj thawj vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim.
Kauj ruam 2
Vim li cas ib tug: riot. Cov hluas nyiam tawm tsam. Nws tsis muaj teeb meem txawm li cas los lawv tawm tsam. Thaum lub hnub nyoog yau, tus neeg pib tiv thaiv nws tus kheej, paub nws tus kheej, piv rau nws tus kheej thiab lwm tus. Tab sis yuav ua li cas yog tias tsis muaj ib qho tshwj xeeb ua tau, thiab tus tub hluas xav tias tseem tsis muaj dab tsi tseem hwm nws rau? Kev tawm tsam thiab tawm tsam yog qhov yooj yim tshaj plaws rau koj tus kheej. Puas yog niam thiab txiv puas txwv txiav kev haus luam yeeb? Puas yog tsoomfwv tawm tsam kev haus luam yeeb? Zoo heev. Ua txhaum txoj kev txwv, cov tub ntxhais hluas xav zoo li tus phab ej, hais nws “Kuv”: tom qab, nws tawm tsam niam txiv, kws qhia ntawv thiab lub xeev!
Kauj ruam 3
Qhov laj thawj ob: kev ntshai ntawm "tsis zoo li txhua tus neeg." Cov hluas yog cov neeg pom zoo heev thiab muaj kev cia siab rau kev xav ntawm lawv cov phooj ywg. Yog tias txhua tus neeg haus luam yeeb, thiab cov luam yeeb yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib ntsib phooj ywg lossis hnub, tus hluas yuav zam lwm tus. Tom qab tag nrho, nws ntshai raug luag thuam, "dub yaj". Nrog kev pabcuam ntawm luam yeeb nws yog ib qho yooj yim dhau los ua "koj tus kheej" hauv ib lub tuam txhab!
Kauj ruam 4
Qhov thib peb yog vim li cas: muaj lub siab nyiam ntau dua li txiv neej lossis ntau poj niam. Cov qauv tsis tseeb ntawm kev ua neeg mas thiab kev nyiam poj niam uas cov hluas nyiam los ntawm cov phau ntawv, cov yeeb yaj kiab thiab tshaj tawm ua rau cov luam yeeb muaj kev cuam tshuam nrog cov txiv neej hauv cov tub hluas thiab kev nyiam ntawm cov ntxhais. Teeb pom kev luam yeeb, tus tub hluas pib zoo li ib tug txiv neej; tus me nyuam ntxhais yog ib tug poj niam fatale. Tom qab tag nrho, ntau cov ntawv nyeem thiab cov yeeb yaj kiab ua yeeb yaj kiab, los ntawm cov hluas uas coj yam ntxwv, haus luam yeeb!
Kauj ruam 5
Qhov plaub yog: kev haus luam yeeb niam thiab txiv. Feem ntau, cov hluas hluas haus luam yeeb tsuas yog vim nws yog kev coj ua hauv lawv tsev neeg. Yog niam thiab txiv haus luam yeeb, vim li cas koj tsis haus luam yeeb? Yog hais tias niam txiv tso cai rau lawv tus kheej ib yam dab tsi, ces tus me nyuam yuav hloov ntau qhov ntxiv ntawm niam txiv kev coj cwj pwm.
Kauj Ruam 6
Thiab thaum kawg, qhov thib tsib thiab lub ntsiab yog vim li cas: kev ntseeg tus kheej. Cov hluas nyuam qhuav pib paub lub ntiaj teb, lawv tsis yog cov menyuam yaus, tab sis tsis yog neeg laus lawm, yog li lub neej ntawm cov neeg laus yog kev ntshai thiab tib lub sijhawm beckoning. Tus txiv neej hluas tseem tseem raug mob hnyav, tsis yooj yim, tsis paub tseeb ntawm nws tus kheej. Kev haus luam yeeb ua rau koj muaj kev ntseeg siab, ntawm lub cev thiab ntawm lub siab. Qhov no yog qhov yooj yim thiab pheej yig thiab, zoo li rau tus tub hluas, muaj kev nyab xeeb dua rau so, xav zoo li tus neeg laus, nws tus kheej muaj peev xwm thiab tsim nyog hwm.
