Tus ntxhais qee zaum pom nws tus kheej li qhov xwm txheej: nws tau ntsib tus txiv neej zoo, nws nyiam nws heev, nws xav paub nws zoo dua. Nws sim txhua txoj hauv kev los qhia rau nws tias nws yuav tsum pib ua thiab hais lus rau nws. Thiab tus txiv neej nyob ntsiag to vim li cas. Yog li kwv yees: txawm tias nws tsis nyob hauv nws qhov saj, lossis nws txaj muag, txaj muag. Nws yog lub sijhawm los hais ua ntej, yuav tsum pib ua, tab sis cov lus tsis dhau. Thiab hmoov zoo yuav muaj nws, tus txiv leej tub tsis tau txais nws.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Sim ua kom ntseeg koj tus kheej hais tias tsis muaj kiag li tsis muaj kev txaj muag lossis rov hais qhov tseeb tias koj yog thawj tus neeg tau ntsib tus txiv leej tub thiab tham nrog nws. Tam sim no, tom qab tag nrho, nws tsis yog hnub qub thaum nws tiag tiag yuav ua rau muaj kev raug txim dav dav. Qhov tseem ceeb yog yuav tsum tau hnav, txwv, kom muaj meej mom. Nco ntsoov, cov hais mav tsis nyiam cov hluas nkauj uas tsis txaus siab.
Kauj ruam 2
Yog tias koj tseem tsis tuaj yeem ua kom koj lub siab xav pib sib tham, siv qhov dag yooj yim thiab ua kom muaj kev xav zoo. Sim ua kom nco qab lub sijhawm thaum nyob hauv menyuam yaus koj yuav tsum kov yeej kev ntshai lossis kev txaj muag, tawv ncauj. Piv txwv li, thaum kawm ua luam dej, thaum koj tseem ntshai qhov tob, lossis thaum koj raug nug kom nyeem ib yam nrov rau ntawm cov menyuam yaus ua yeeb yam, thiab koj tau txaj muag los ntawm cov neeg tsis paub txog. Tab sis lawv overpowered lawv tus kheej. Thiab tam sim no, qhia koj tus kheej tias koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ntshai ntawm txoj kev sib tham. Koj yuav pom tam sim ntawd tsis muaj dab tsis uas yog.
Kauj ruam 3
Ib txoj hauv kev zoo los pib sib tham yog nug tus txiv neej hluas yam yooj yooj yim, nrog cov lus nug lossis nrog qhov kev thov rau qhov tsis tseem ceeb, kev pabcuam yooj yim. Qhov zoo tshaj plaws pib: "Thov txim, koj puas tau …". Tsis txhob hnov qab luag ntxhi, ua tsaug rau koj. Thiab muaj, lo lus rau lo lus, ib qho kev sib tham yuav pib.
Kauj ruam 4
Yog tias koj tau nug txog tus txiv neej no thiab koj paub tias nws nyiam thiab yam haujlwm nws nyiam, nws yuav yooj yim rau koj los pib sib tham. Koj tsuas yog yuav tsum tau tos lub sijhawm zoo thiab tom qab ntawd, zoo li yog los ntawm lub caij nyoog, tso: "Tab sis kuv tau hnov …". Thiab muab tawm qee cov ntaub ntawv hais txog qhov kev kawm ntawm nws yam haujlwm yam nws nyiam. Tsuas yog ua kom tsis txhob hnov lub suab lossis, txawm tias ntau dua, tsis zoo. Tus txiv leej tub yuav zoo siab heev los pom muaj hom ntsuj plig zoo, nws yuav teb tau zoo siab hlo teb. Thiab tom qab ntawd txhua yam yog nyob hauv koj txhais tes. Thiab, ntawm chav kawm, thaum pib sib tham nrog tus txiv leej tub, tsis txhob hnov qab rau ib pliag txog lub zog ntawm qhov zoo ntawm gaze thiab intonation.
