Feem ntau, cov niam txiv, sim ua kom txias tus me nyuam quaj, coj nws mus rau hauv lawv txhais tes thiab nqa nws, co thiab lom zem nws. Thaum tus me nyuam tseem me me, txoj kev qhia no yog txiav txim siab - tus menyuam yuav tsum hnov qhov sov siab thiab saib xyuas cov neeg hlub. Tab sis yog tias ib tus neeg laus paub yuav tsum tau tuaj tos, qhov no twb yog qhov tsis muaj kev ywj pheej.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Tsis txhob poob rau childish whims thiab tantrums. Tus menyuam yuav tsum kawm kom muaj kev lom zem nws tus kheej, tswj hwm lub siab ntsws thiab kev paub. Tsim kom muaj qee yam ua txhua hnub thiab ua raws nraim nws - tus menyuam yuav tsum nkag siab tias qee lub sijhawm niam lossis txiv ib txwm ua si nrog nws, mloog nws, tuaj yeem plhws nws thiab ua tej yam txaus nyiam. Nws kuj tseem yuav tsum lees paub meej txog kev xav tau nruab hnub thiab hmo ntuj pw, da dej, khoom noj, thiab lwm yam. Yog tias tus menyuam yaus xav tau kev saib xyuas, thiab koj tsis khoom nyob rau lub sijhawm no, koj yuav tsum qhia nws txog nws, thiab tsis maj mus rau thawj tus quaj, muab nws puag hauv koj txhais tes thiab ua kom lom zem rau nws. Cov menyuam yaus kawm tswj hwm koj los ntawm whims, yog li sim tsis txhob succumb rau nws kev ua.
Kauj ruam 2
Sim ua pob zeb nws tsawg dua. Yog tias ib tug menyuam yaus tsaug zog hauv koj txhais tes, tom qab ntawd, tom qab tsa nws, nws yuav ntshai yam nyob hauv lwm qhov chaw, qhov chaw sib txawv. Qhia koj tus menyuam tias txij thaum yug los nws pw hauv nws lub txaj - koj tuaj yeem zaum ntawm nws, ua viav vias lub txaj, tuav tus menyuam los ntawm tus kov.
Kauj ruam 3
Tsim cov kev pw tsaug zog zoo dua rau koj tus menyuam. Yog hais tias lub teeb tsaus ntuj nyob rau hauv nws chav, ces nws yuav tsum muted. Tab sis nws zoo dua los qhia tus me nyuam pw kom tsis muaj teeb ci. Tom qab ntawd, yav tav su, los ntawm kev npog cov ntaub npog, koj yuav muab cov cim rau tus menyuam tias nws txog sijhawm mus pw. Ntxiv mus, nyob hauv chav tsaus, cov menyuam yaus lub siab tus thiab tsaug zog sai dua.
Kauj ruam 4
Paub yuav ua li cas paub qhov txawv quaj tseeb los ntawm whims. Tus menyuam yaus tuaj yeem quaj thaum nws tshaib plab, nws muaj qee yam hauv kev mob, nws ntshai, nws tau ris nws lub ris, thiab lwm yam. Hauv cov rooj plaub no, koj yuav tsum, ua ntej ntawm txhua yam, txaus siab cov kev xav tau ntawm tus menyuam, thaum koj tuaj yeem tuaj tos nws. Nres whims tam sim ntawd - yog hais tias tus me nyuam muaj kev dhuav, tom qab ntawd muab nws cov khoom ua si, co txaj txaj, tig nws sab nraud, thiab lwm yam. Kawm sib txuas lus yam tsis nqa koj tus menyuam tas mus ib sab - muab nws tso rau saum txaj kev loj hlob, muab nws cov khoom ua si coj mus tso tom nws lub tsev hauv lub laub menyuam. Yog tias koj nyob hauv chav ua noj, tso menyuam yaus lub rooj zaum lossis txaj rau hauv chaw pw - tus menyuam yuav pom koj, xav tias koj nyob ntawd, thiab koj tuaj yeem mus ncig ntawm koj txoj haujlwm. Qhia koj tus menyuam kom ua si ntawm nws tus kheej kom nws tsis txhob xav tias lawv tawm mus sab nraud.