Cov teeb meem ntawm "cov txiv thiab cov menyuam" tseem tsis tau raug daws. Peb tsis tshua xav txog vim li cas muaj kev tsis sib haum xeeb ntawm niam txiv thiab menyuam, thiab tseem ceeb tshaj, yuav ua li cas tua hluav taws cov nplaim taws. Qee qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb cuam tshuam nrog kev sib raug zoo, uas tau ntau lub xyoo tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev nkag siab ntawm cov neeg txheeb ze.
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Kauj ruam 1
Thaum twg muaj qhov sib ceg nrog tus menyuam, xav txog qhov ua rau tus menyuam coj tus cwjpwm zoo licas. Txawm hais tias koj tsis pom qhov laj thawj, nws tsis txhais tau tias nws tsis nyob ntawd. Ntau zaus tus menyuam tsis txaus siab rau nws qhov kev xav tau, nws tsis muaj kev saib xyuas koj, hlub thiab nyiam nws.
Kauj ruam 2
Dab tsi tuaj yeem ua kom tsis txhob muaj teeb meem? Cov kws kho kev puas siab ntsws xav kom lawv ua tib zoo mloog rau tus menyuam. Piv txwv, koj tau hais kom yuav lwm qhov khoom ua si. Qhov hais tias "tsis yog," koj yuav qhia koj tus menyuam paub tias koj tsis quav ntsej rau nws lub siab nyiam. Sim hloov koj txoj kev xav rau lwm txoj kev kawm, cuam tshuam ntawm kev xav ntawm kev yuav. Los yog xav txog tej yam xwm txheej nram qab no: ib tug me nyuam kos rau ntawm daim ntawv ntsa. Tsis txhob thuam, muab ntawv rau nws thiab qhia kom nws kos tus tsiaj.
Kauj ruam 3
Ib qho teeb meem tshwm sim tas li yog me nyuam qhov npau suav. Nws raug nquahu kom ua txhua yam los tiv thaiv qhov xwm txheej hnyav ntawm txoj kev xav tsis zoo. Txhawm rau ua qhov no, koj yuav tsum nrog koj tus menyuam tham ntau dua txog nws lub siab nyiam, lub siab xav, ntshai, tus cwj pwm thiab lub luag haujlwm.
Kauj ruam 4
Kev cem me nyuam kom raug. Txheeb xyuas cov cwj pwm nkaus xwb: "Koj tsis mloog." Thaum kho tsis tau zoo, sim ua rau cov lus thuam: “Koj tau zoo siab hnub no. Qhov no mas yeej tsis zoo, tab sis kuv paub tias tag kis koj yuav sim thiab tau qhab nia zoo."