Txog thaum nyuam qhuav, tus me nyuam muaj kev npau suav thiab mloog lus, tab sis tam sim no nws tsis tuaj yeem lees paub. Cov nruas daj tsis tu ncua, feem ntau txhim kho mus rau hauv kev npau suav tag nrho, tshwm sim tsis yog nyob hauv tsev xwb, tab sis kuj ntawm txoj kev, ntawm ib tog twg, hauv khw. Niam txiv tau ploj, tsis paub dab tsi.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Thawj qhov whims, raws li kev txav tsis taus ntawm kev loj hlob ntawm tus menyuam yaus, tshwm sim thaum muaj hnub nyoog ob xyoos. Nco ntsoov tias qhov tsim ntawm tus menyuam tus yam ntxwv, thiab yog li nws lub neej yav tom ntej, feem ntau nyob ntawm hom uas koj xaiv los cuam tshuam nrog whims.
Kauj ruam 2
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, sim kom paub tseeb seb yog vim li cas rau whim. Muaj plaub qhov laj thawj. Qhov ua ntej yog tias tus me nyuam tsis zoo nyob. Tus menyuam muaj mob, tab sis nws tsis tuaj yeem yws txog qhov mob, vim nws tseem tsis nkag siab piav qhia. Hauv qhov no, tham nrog tus menyuam thiab sim seb pom muaj dab tsi tshwm sim rau nws. Tus menyuam yuav xav tau kev pab ntawm kws kho mob.
Kauj ruam 3
Qhov laj thawj thib ob yog qhov muaj siab xav nyiam qhov tus menyuam tsis muaj. Nws tsuas tsis paub lwm txoj hauv kev yuav ua qhov no. Txawm hais tias koj muaj lwm yam ntxiv los ua, thiab tus menyuam tsis zoo nyob ob peb zaug hauv ib hnub, nrog nws tham. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev rau tus menyuam uas koj hnov nws. Koj yuav pom tias nws lub suab yau zuj zus, vim tus menyuam yuav nkag siab tias koj hlub nws. Tsis txhob hu menyuam yaus "tsis zoo" lossis "tsis zoo." Qhov no yuav tsuas thab qhov teeb meem no. Lub crumb xav tau kev hlub los ntawm koj, tsis cem.
Kauj ruam 4
Qhov thib peb yog vim li cas whims yog blackmail. Tus me nyuam pom tau tias ntau yam tuaj yeem ua tiav los ntawm niam txiv nrog suab nrov thiab kua muag, thiab pib nquag siv cov kev paub no. Tsis txhob ua rau koj cov menyuam tu siab, vim koj tus kheej koj yuav tsum liam rau qhov no, yam tsis qhia meej rau lub sijhawm, koj tau pib ua rau tus menyuam nyob hauv txhua yam. Tab sis nco ntsoov tias kev ntseeg khov kho tsis yog kev rau txim thiab kev txwv ntau yam, tab sis lub siab tham nrog koj tus menyuam. Tsis tas yuav qw, maj mam piav qhia rau koj tus menyuam tias koj tsis cia nws nce toj siab, tsuas yog tias koj tuaj yeem poob ntawm nws thiab ua rau koj mob, thiab tsis yog vim tias koj tsis xav kom nws muaj kev lom zem. Txhawm rau ua kom tus menyuam raug kev ua phem los ntawm cov kev xav hauv khw, tham nrog cov xwm txheej nrog nws ua ntej. Piv txwv li: “Peb mus rau tom khw rau mis thiab mov ci, peb yuav tsis yuav lwm yam rau lub sijhawm no. Kuv paub tias koj chim siab. Cog lus tias koj yuav tsis quaj ib zaug ntxiv."
Kauj ruam 5
Qhov plaub mas yog kev ua niam ua txiv ntau dhau lawm. Nco ntsoov tias tsis pub me nyuam muaj kev ywj pheej nyob rau hauv feem ntau yog qhov laj thawj tseem ceeb rau cov menyuam yaus whims. Tsis txhob pheej hais tawm rau koj tus menyuam kom coj tus cwj pwm li cas: "Tsis txhob kov tus tsiaj tsis huv!", Tsis txhob nkag rau hauv pas dej! " lwm yam. Yog lawm, koj tau ua nrog qhov kev xav zoo tshaj plaws, tab sis tus menyuam tsis nkag siab qhov laj thawj ntawm kev txwv, vim tias koj tsis piav dab tsi. Tus me nyuam npau taws heev thiab nws tawm tsam. Tsis txhob tawg qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev ywj pheej hauv ib qho tawg, ua rau nws lub zog-willed thiab qaug zog. Tsis txhob txwv tus me nyuam txhua yam. Muab sijhawm rau nws kom tau txais nws txoj kev paub nrog ob peb lub pob. Thaum koj txwv tsis pub tus menyuam yaus uas tsis raug tso cai (txaus ntshai rau lub neej thiab kev noj qab haus huv), qhia meej meej qhov laj thawj ntawm kev txwv.
Kauj Ruam 6
Yog hais tias tus menyuam tsis xav mloog ib qho lus piav qhia, yog tawv ncauj, hais kom nws tus kheej, tsis txhob lav thiab tsis ua nruj. Thaum koj pom tias tus menyuam tab tom yuav pov lub suab ncas, cuam tshuam nws sai li sai tau: sim hloov nws lub ntsej muag, qhia tej yam ntxim nyiam, ua si nrog nws. Qhia rau koj tus menyuam tias nws chim siab rau nws cov whims. Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj cov ntaub ntawv tsis tawm tsam lawv nrog tag nrho koj cov neeg laus cov cai, yog li ntawd raws li kom tsis txhob ua kom tus me nyuam lub siab ntsws. Nco ntsoov tias whims yog ib qho kev tsis txaus ntseeg nyob rau hauv kev loj hlob ntawm koj tus menyuam, nrhiav txoj hauv kev rau lawv.
