Tej zaum, ntau tus paub txog qhov xwm txheej thaum, thaum tsis kam yuav ib qho khoom, lossis zoo li yog tias ntawm kos, tus menyuam poob rau hauv lub pas dej khib nyiab hauv lub khw thiab pib quaj rau lub siab. Cov neeg coob ntawm cov niam tais tuaj sib sau ua ke, quaj tias: "Tus niam limhiam, nws tsis tau yuav khoom qab zib rau tus menyuam, ay-ay-ay!" Ntau tus niam txiv txaj muag thiab txaj muag thaum lub sijhawm zoo li no thiab yuav qhov lawv xav tau rau lawv tus menyuam, yog tias tsuas yog nws yuav raug kaw. Qee tus neeg cia li rub tus menyuam nyob hauv lawv txhais tes thiab nplooj, tsis nco qab txog txhua kis. Thiab qee tus pib cem tus menyuam yaus. Yuav coj li cas nyob rau hauv cov xwm txheej zoo li no?
Menyuam lub cev qoj ib ce yog ib txoj kev sai uas koj xav tau. Lawv pib thaum muaj hnub nyoog 1, 5 xyoos thiab tuaj yeem txuas ntxiv mus txog thaum tiav hluas. Cov menyuam yaus hnov lawv niam lawv txiv zoo heev thiab ua rau lawv muaj kev ntxhov siab, piv txwv, kev txaj muag.
Kev ntshaw ntawm cov menyuam yaus yog qhov tshwm sim: Kuv pom - kuv xav tau. Vim tias cov ntsiab lus me me, nrog rau qhov tseeb vim hais tias leej niam nws tus kheej kwv yees tus menyuam qhov kev xav tau ntev (nws quaj, uas txhais tau tias nws xav noj lossis daim pawm ntub tau ntub), 2-3 xyoo- tus menyuam laus tuaj yeem pov lub cev ua si tsuas yog vim niam tsis tau kwv yees nws lub siab. Thiab kev muaj siab tuaj yeem qee zaum nthuav dav. Piv txwv li, tus niam muab butter tso rau hauv ib lub pob tawb, thiab ib tug me nyuam cuam tantrum. Nws muab tawm tias nws xav ua nws tus kheej. Tab sis kuv niam tsis tau twv.
Txij thaum 1, 5 xyoo, tus menyuam yuav tsum raug qhia los nthuav qhia qhov nws xav tau ntawm cov lus: "Kuv tsis tuaj yeem twv qhov koj xav tau, qhia kuv hauv cov lus, thov." Yog tias tus menyuam tseem tsis tau paub hais lus, tom qab ntawv nws yuav tau taw tes, piv txwv li, kua txiv lossis kua txiv ua noj saum rooj.
Ua ntej mus rau tom lub khw, koj yuav tsum tau tawm suab koj txoj kev npaj rau tus menyuam, npaj nws, piv txwv li: “Tam sim no peb yuav nrog koj mus tom khw. Muaj peb yuav yuav mis nyuj, mov ci, butter, thiab tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem xaiv 2 kua txiv rau koj tus kheej. Tab sis peb tsis kam yuav khoom qab zib thiab khoom ua si hnub no. Ua tsaug rau qhov kev npaj zoo li no, feem ntau yuav ua rau, tus menyuam yuav tsis saib ntawm txhua lub rhawv, vim tias peb tab tom mus rau kua txiv!
Yog tias muaj kev npau taws tshwm sim, koj yuav tsum nqis mus rau theem ntawm tus menyuam, zaum zaum, thiab saib nws lub ntsej muag, piav qhia nws txoj kev xav: “Kuv pom tias koj chim siab thiab npau taws uas kuv tsis tau yuav khoom qab zib, tab sis kuv tuaj yeem ua 'Tam sim no ua. Thaum koj npaj tau lawm, los cuag kuv, kuv yuav hlub koj. Qee zaum nws yuav siv sijhawm me nyuam nyob ntsiag to kom siab nqig. Cia nws quaj lossis npau taws, tsis txhob poob siab nws txoj kev xav.
Thaum peb piav qhia cov kev xav thiab kev paub dhau los uas tus me nyuam tab tom muaj tam sim no, peb qhia nws tias peb nkag siab nws. Thiab qhov no tseem ceeb heev txawm tias cov menyuam me. Thiab thaum lawv pom nws, lawv lub siab ntev sai txaus.