Thaum muaj hnub nyoog ob xyoos, cov menyuam yaus pib pib kawm ntau yam lus thiab ntawm txoj kev xav dav dav. Thiab nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom pab tus menyuam nrog qhov no.
Yuav pab koj tus menyuam qhov kev xav dav li cas
Thaum muaj ob xyoos, cov menyuam yaus pom cov ntsiab lus tshiab txhua hnub, thiab lawv cov lus paub sai heev. Cov lus xws li “muaj”, “saum toj no”, “hauv qab no” yog ib qho loj ntxiv rau tom ntej vim tias lawv qhia tias tus menyuam nkag siab qhov sib txheeb ntawm yam khoom hauv qhov chaw. Thiab ib txwm nyob rau theem no, menyuam yaus kuj pib tsim thawj kab lus, muaj ob los yog peb lo lus.
Nws yog hnub nyoog ob uas kev nkag siab ntawm thaj chaw pib tsim. Tus me nyuam pib nkag siab qhov twg cov tib neeg thiab cov khoom nyob ib puag ncig nws nyob hauv kev txheeb ze rau nws.
Koj tuaj yeem pom nws txoj kev nce qib hauv kev nkag siab cov lus nws hnov thiab nws txoj kev loj hlob tuaj yeem ua raws cov lus qhia xws li "nqa kuv lub npas los ntawm kaum", "saib hauv qab txaj."
1. Piav qhov chaw uas cov neeg nws paub yog thaum lawv tsis nrog nws; piv txwv li: "txiv tam sim no nyob hauv nws txoj haujlwm", "niam tais laus nyob deb."
2. Muab cov lus qhia yooj yim rau nws nrog kev qhia. Piv txwv li: “muab khoom ua si tso rau ntawm lub rooj zaum”, “tam sim no muab tso rau hauv qab txaj”, “nqa nws ntawm no”.
3. Nug koj tus menyuam cov lus nug yooj yim uas xav kom nws xav txog qhov chaw. Piv txwv li: "Cov noog nyob qhov twg?", "Cov dav hlau ya mus qhov twg?", "Lub qhov rooj nyob qhov twg?"
Tsis txhob tas xav tias yuav tau cov lus teb zoo, qhov no tsis yog kev sim lossis kuaj, tab sis cov lus nug yuav tsum nug thaum koj sib tham txhua hnub.
Yuav pab koj tus menyuam li cas kom nws thiaj li ua tau cov kab ntawv yooj yim dua
Thaum muaj ob xyoos, tus me nyuam cov lus yuav dhau los ua neeg nplua nuj, nws kawm tau li ntawm 50 txog rau 75 lo lus. Nws kuj tseem pib sim khi lawv ua ke los tsim nws thawj kab lus ntawm ob lossis peb lo lus, piv txwv li, "Kuv xav tau mis."
Yog tias koj tus menyuam siv tsawg dua li 20 lo lus, nws yuav yog ib lub tswv yim zoo los tham nrog kws kho me nyuam yaus seb nws puas muaj teeb meem hnov lus dab tsi.
Thawj kab lus ntawm ob lossis peb lo lus tsis raug sau meej heev thiab mus ncaj qha rau: "tuaj rau kuv", "txiv yog neeg phem." tus me nyuam tseem yuav pib rov hais cov lus uas nws feem ntau tau hnov hauv tsev, piv txwv li, "lus zoo", "nyob zoo sawv ntxov."
Yuav tsum ua dab tsi los txhawb nws kom nws tsim cov kab lus uas nyuab dua?
1. Teb nws kab lus "qhuav" nrog cov kab lus qhia kom meej, piav qhia thiab cov ntsiab lus ntxaws: "Koj puas xav kom koj niam pab koj hnav lub kaus mom liab?", "Yog lawm, txiv ua si pob nrog Nastya."
2. Tsis txhob kho nws qhov kev txhaum kev cai, tab sis tsuas rov hais kab lus kom raug kom txog rau thaum nws tus kheej rov ua tom qab koj raws li qhov nws yuav tsum tau ua.
3. Ua tib zoo nyeem ntau phau ntawv, uas yog, nug nws txog qhov nws pom ntawm nplooj ntawv thiab dab tsi, hauv nws lub tswv yim, yuav tshwm sim txuas mus ntxiv
Thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog tham nrog koj tus menyuam kom ntau li ntau tau thaum nruab hnub.
