Yuav ua li cas tsa tus neeg noj qab haus huv, ntse thiab zoo siab? Yuav ua li cas yuav ua tau yooj yim tib neeg qhov tseem ceeb rau nws? Dab tsi yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws hauv kev tu menyuam? Cov lus nug no ib txwm txhawj xeeb thiab yuav ua rau niam txiv txhawj xeeb. Qee cov cai thiab cov tswv yim tau muab khaws cia txij li qub, thiab pes tsawg ntawm lawv tau tshwm sim rau lub xyoo pua xeem dhau los suav.
Qhov tseeb, txhua yam yog qhov yooj yim ntawm no. Txhawm rau ua kom tus me nyuam muaj kev zoo siab, tsis tas yuav ua ntaub ntawv rau hauv kev tsim ntau yam. Koj tsuas yog yuav tsum tau coj cov menyuam yaus nrog tsis yog tus pas thiab cov zaub ntug hauv paus, raws li ntau tus neeg ntseeg. Koj yuav tsum muaj kev kawm nrog kev hlub, kev hwm thiab koj tus yam ntxwv. Tsuas yog hauv qhov no nws yog qhov ua tau kom muaj tus neeg zoo tshaj plaws, muaj kev zoo siab thiab tus kheej.
Thawj qhov kev txhaum loj tshaj plaws uas cov niam txiv feem coob ua yog qhov lawv tsis cais tus me nyuam qhov kev ua ntawm tus xeeb ceem. Yog koj tau ua qee yam zoo, koj yog qhov zoo, koj tsis ua qhov zoo, txhais tau tias koj tus kheej tsis yog koj tus kheej. Nws hloov tawm tias tus menyuam nres tsis paub hlub, xav tau thiab hlub txhua lub sijhawm. Nws yog hom ntxim nyiam los ntawm lub sijhawm. Nws zoo nkaus li tias cov niam txiv xav qhia qhov tseeb rau tus menyuam, tab sis qhov fab ntxeev tshwm sim.
Hauv cov menyuam yaus nyob rau qhov xwm txheej zoo li no, kev pom ntawm kev hloov zoo thiab kev phem. Tus me nyuam sim tsuas yog rau kev qhuas, thiab ntshai ua tej yam tsis raug vim li cas kom tsis txhob ua qhov tsis nyiam. Tus menyuam yuav tsum raug lees txais! Txais yuav los ntawm leej twg. Nws yuav tsum xav tias nws xav tau, tias nws tsis hlub tshua rau qee yam. Lawv hlub nws rau qhov nws yog: nws yog tus hlub, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb, nws yog tus neeg zoo thiab hlub tshaj plaws. Qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau kev loj hlob thiab kev loj hlob ntawm ib tug menyuam. Nws pab koj lub siab xav, ua kom muaj tus kheej kev ntseeg tus kheej thiab tso cai rau koj ntsuam xyuas qhov tshwm sim zoo. Thiab koj yuav tsum tham txog tsis yog menyuam, tab sis lawv ua. Txwv tsis pub, lub me nyuam lub siab tawv yuav tsis paub nrog lub siab ntsws, thiab kev hloov pauv tus cwj pwm yuav pib. Tom qab ntawd nws tuaj yeem ua rau cov nyom, kev tsis nyab xeeb thiab kev ntshai.
Qhov yuam kev thib ob ntawm niam txiv yog qhov saib tsis taus. Txij thaum yau los, tus menyuam yog neeg. Nrog rau koj qhov kev xav, koj qhov kev txiav txim siab thiab koj cov kev xav tau. Qee tus niam txiv yuav tsis yooj yim rau kev nkag siab lub sijhawm. Los ntawm qhov siab ntawm lawv lub hnub nyoog thiab cov kev paub uas lawv tau txais, lawv xav txog lawv tus kheej hauv txoj cai los txiav txim siab txoj hmoo ntawm lawv cov menyuam. Txhua tus pib zoo heev - nrog kev xaiv khaub ncaws, khoom ua si thiab khoom noj. Nws paub tseeb tias qee qib ntawm tus menyuam txoj kev loj hlob no yog qhov qub. Tab sis thaum tus me nyuam loj hlob, thiab cov kab ke zoo li no mus txuas ntxiv, qhov no yuav tsum tau them nyiaj rau. Ntau zaus, cov niam txiv tsis hnov txawm lawv xav tau dab tsi ntawm lawv tus menyuam. “Yuav ua li cas nws thiaj paub tias qhov twg zoo tshaj rau nws? Kuv tau ua neej nyob ntev hauv ntiaj teb no, Kuv paub zoo dua. Tsis muaj leej twg sib cav. Lub neej dhau los yog invaluable. Thiab koj tsis tas yuav blindly ua raws li whims ntawm tus menyuam. Tsuas yog coj nws txoj hauv kev, koj yuav tsum muab nws txoj kev ywj pheej xaiv. Nov yog qhov kev hwm pib, lees txais kev pom zoo ntawm koj tus menyuam. Nov yog pib ntawm kev muaj peev xwm los txiav txim siab hauv lub sijhawm thiab xaiv koj qhov.
Kev ua dhau thiab dhau ntawm qhov nyuaj yog qhov tsis tuaj yeem lees txais nyob rau hauv tus txheej txheem ntawm kev kawm. Kev saib xyuas ntau dhau yog ib txwm ua tau los ntawm niam txiv, vim tias txhua tus xav lawv cov menyuam tsuas yog qhov zoo, tsuas muaj kev noj qab haus huv, tsuas muaj kev vam meej. Qhov teeb meem yog tias tus neeg tsis muaj tseeb yuav tsis muaj kev noj qab haus huv lossis ua tiav. Hauv lub neej tom ntej, qhov no yuav rov los zoo li tus neeg tsis paub pab thiab kev tub nkeeg. Ib tug neeg uas tau swm rau qhov tseeb tias nws ib txwm tau tso siab ntawm txhua qhov teeb meem yuav tsis muaj peev xwm ua neej nyob, ua haujlwm thiab tsim kev sib raug zoo nrog lwm tus. Kev ua haujlwm ntawm niam txiv yog ua kom tus menyuam ywj pheej. Nov yog tus yuam sij rau yav tom ntej kev ua tiav. Thiab hauv qhov tam sim no ib yam nkaus. Qhov loj tshaj plaws ntawm no tsis yog kom maj nrawm los ntawm ib qho huab thiab lwm. Txhua yam yuav tsum nyob hauv koj lub zog. Ib tug menyuam yaus, nyob rau txhua lub hnub nyoog, tuaj yeem ua qee yam rau nws tus kheej. Yog li, tsis txhob deprive nws ntawm lub sijhawm no.
Koj tuaj yeem sib tham thiab sib cav txog qhov tseeb upbringing rau lub sijhawm ntev. Tam sim no muaj ntau yam kev tsim tawm ntawm cov ncauj lus no. Tab sis nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom nco ntsoov ib yam - tus me nyuam tsis tas yuav muaj kev kawm. Cov kev ua tawm ua ib qho lus teb. Yog li no, menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau hlub, siv sijhawm nrog lawv thiab sib txuas lus. Thiab nws yuav zoo kawg nkaus rau rov ua koj cov lus nrog ua piv txwv.
