Kev kos duab tuaj yeem raug hu ua ib qho ntawm cov nyiam kev nyiam ntawm cov menyuam yaus. Ntau yam ntawm cov menyuam yaus kev kos duab yog txiav txim siab los ntawm cov kws npliag siab ua cov ntaub ntawv rau kev tsom xam. Ib qho zoo li no yog kev xaiv ntawm cov xim dub lossis lwm qhov tsaus ntuj. Cov me nyuam yeej ib txwm tsis tuaj yeem piav qhia txog qhov kev mob siab ntawm lawv qhov ua, thiab niam txiv pib ntshai poob siab tag. Qhov xum rau dub kuj yuav muaj qhov laj thawj.
Dub tsis txhais tau tias tsaus ntuj
Cov menyuam yaus sim ua kom lawv ib puag ncig zoo dua, sib luag, txhawm rau hais txog lawv tus kheej thiab lawv ua dab tsi hauv ntiaj teb no ntau li ntau tau. Tias yog vim li cas lawv xaiv cov xim dub thaum kos duab, vim tias lawv feem ntau kos rau tom qab dawb - daim ntawv. Yog tias, tawm ntawm ntau lub tsho T-shirt, menyuam mos tau kos rau xim dub, qhov no tsis txhais tau tias nws muaj kev ntxhov siab, tau ntsib kev xav tsis zoo lossis txhawj xeeb txog qee yam. Nws tsuas yog tias rau nws daim tawv nqaij dawb, qhov no tseem muaj cov kev xaiv sib txawv tshaj plaws. Yog li nws yog nrog txhua yam khoom hauv nws ib puag ncig.
Hauv lwm kis, txoj kev xaiv tus menyuam raug txiav txim siab los ntawm kev sib cav. Cia nws yog childish, tab sis nrog logic. Koj tuaj yeem nug tus menyuam yaus vim li cas nws xaiv dub, piv txwv li, hauv kev kos duab. Qee leej yuav teb cov khoom uas xav tsis thoob rau cov neeg laus, tab sis ib txwm muaj rau cov menyuam yaus: txhua lwm yam xim tuaj yeem pleev nrog cov xim pleev xim dub, tab sis tsis muaj dab tsi tuaj yeem pleev xim nrog nws. Nws hloov tawm tias dub yeej lwm yam xim.
Lwm qhov kev xaiv yog thaum cov hais mav npaj tag nrho kev ua si los ntawm daim duab. Hauv cov kev ua si zoo li no, cov kev xav tsis meej tshaj plaws yuav nkaum tom qab dub. Cov nqe lus hauv qab no yog cov lus qhia ntawm no: “Liab nyob qhov twg? Tus liab khiav nkaum qab cov xim dub! Muaj peev xwm koj xav tiag tiag tias kev ua si thiab kev lom zem me nyuam yaus tau dhau los ntawm qee yam?
Kev xaiv nyob rau hauv kev phem ntawm ib puag ncig
Lwm qhov laj thawj rau xaiv dub dua txhua lwm tus yog tawm tsam ib puag ncig. Qhov no tuaj yeem pib mob ntsoog txog 3 xyoos, thaum negativism thiab tsis kam lees thawj zaug tshwm sim, thiab txuas ntxiv yuav luag txog thaum tiav hluas. Thiab rau qee qhov, xws li kev tshwm sim feem ntau yuav nyob hauv lub neej.
Nyob ntawm no, cov menyuam yaus muaj cov kev coj ua hauv qab no: “Kuv yuav xaiv qhov xim uas cuam tshuam rau tus xibfwb tshaj plaws,” “Kuv yuav xim dub, vim tias kuv niam tsis nyiam,” “Txhua tus yuav xav tsis thoob: txhua tus ntse, tab sis kuv yog xim dub!”. Qee lub sij hawm nws yog cov kev xav no uas tom qab ntawd coj cov hluas mus rau qhov tshwm sim hauv cov ntaub ntawv, txawm tias lawv tsis pom zoo nrog lawv rau lwm yam teeb meem.
Kev tawm tsam dab tsi tshwm sim
Cov menyuam yaus tos cov kev hloov sab nraud ntawm lub ntiaj teb puag ncig lawv. Av, zawv zawg, nag, tsob ntoo liab qab, huab thiab cua kuj yuav xav tau hauv tus menyuam daim duab. Tsis muaj kev xav tsis tas nws cia li pib tha xim nrog qias neeg xim av, txho, xim dub. Tab sis thaum lub hnub tig mus saum ntuj thiab lub ntuj hloov xiav, tus me nyuam rov ziab lub hnub nyob rau ntawm kaum tsev nplooj thiab nplooj ntsuab.
Thaum twg mam pib txhawj xeeb
Yog lawm, qee zaum cov menyuam yaus siv dub los ua qhov qhia lawv tus yam ntxwv rau qhov tshwm sim hauv tsev neeg, hauv kindergarten lossis hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Yog tias lawv pom kev ua nruj ua tsiv ntawm ib puag ncig, hnov lub suab qw, tau txais kev sib tsoo lossis tshwj xeeb kev ntaus, tiv kev thab plaub, lawv yuav muaj qhov kev xav tsis zoo, uas rau qee qhov laj thawj lawv tsis xav tham txog, tab sis tib lub sijhawm lawv tuaj yeem qhia lawv hauv kos duab.
Koj yuav tsum nug cov menyuam nyob puag ncig nws, cov niam txiv ntawm cov menyuam no, cov neeg qhia ntawv, cov kws qhia ntawv thiab lwm tus neeg laus txog tus cwj pwm ntawm tus menyuam nyob rau lub sijhawm thaum nws niam nws txiv tsis pom nws. Thaum qee cov teeb meem raug pom, lawv yuav tsum daws, kev ywj pheej lossis nrog cov kws npliag siab tshwj xeeb. Yog tias txhua yam nws nyob tus yees, tsev neeg nyob hauv kev hlub thiab kev sib haum xeeb, tus menyuam yog phooj ywg thiab ua phooj ywg nrog lwm tus menyuam, tom qab ntawv tsis muaj kev txhawj xeeb dabtsi, thiab koj tsuas yog xav muab lub sijhawm rau tus menyuam xaiv cov xim uas nws nyiam.
