Txhua yam kev sib raug zoo tsis tuaj yeem xav txog yam tsis muaj kev sib cav thiab tsis pom zoo. Kws npliag siab ntseeg hais tias nws yooj yim dua rau tus ntxhais ua kom muaj kev sib haum xeeb nrog nws tus hluas nraug, txij li tus neeg hloov siab lees txim tam sim ntawd yuav yaj lub plawv ntawm txawm tias tus txiv neej hluas uas tsis tseem ceeb. Tab sis tseem, cov ntxhais feem ntau tos thawj kauj ruam los ntawm tus txiv neej hluas vim lawv txoj kev khav theeb, kev ntshai lossis kev txhawj xeeb. Tus neeg muaj kev hlub yuav ua li cas kev sib haum xeeb nrog nws tus ntsuj plig tau zoo?
Yog tias qhov kev sib cav tsis tshua hnyav lossis sawv tawm ntawm qhov chaw tam sim no, ces tus ntxhais yuav tsum tsis txhob zais nws qhov kev chim siab thiab tsuas yog ncav tes mus rau nws tus hlub. Tus txiv neej hluas yuav to taub tias rau ib tug ntxhais lawv qhov kev sib cav tsis yog qhov mob tsawg thiab yuav yeej lees txais tes nthuav, thiab nyob ntawd nws tseem tsis tau puag nws zoo.
Tom ntej no, koj yuav tsum cia li thov ua siab ncaj thiab tsis txhob cia ib co lus tsis tseem ceeb. Yog hais tias cov huab cua tseem tseem tawv, ces qee yam yuav tsum tau hloov pauv hauv qhov xwm txheej. Qhov yooj yim tshaj plaws yog hloov pauv chaw ntawm lub cev. Yog koj zaum, tom qab ntawd sawv ntsug, yog tias koj zoo li qub, ces taug kev. Tab sis kev sib tham txog qhov teeb meem loj yog qhov zoo dua mus ncua mus rau lwm hnub.
Tab sis yog tias kev sib cav ntau dua, thiab nws txawm tuaj rau qhov kawg ntawm kev sib txuas lus, koj yuav tsum ua lwm yam ntsuas.
Txoj hauv kev zoo rau kev sib haum yog sau ib tsab ntawv. Nws yog tsab ntawv, tsis yog hu xov tooj, uas yuav ua rau koj hais lus tsis meej pem ntxiv. Koob txoj kev hlub loj tsis tas yuav muaj nyob hauv qhov no. Nws raug pom zoo tias koj yuav tsum sau ib yam dab tsi yooj yim tab sis sincere. Nws yuav tsis yog superfluous los qhia hauv koj tsab ntawv dab tsi koj pom tias koj qhov txhaum. Thiab, ntawm chav kawm, thov kev zam txim.
Yog tias tus txiv neej hluas teb zoo rau tsab ntawv, muaj kev zoo siab rau koj. Tab sis yog tias tus txiv neej hluas tseem ua siab tawv, tom qab ntawd los ntawm cov phooj ywg nws tsim nyog nrhiav yog tias nws tau txais cov lus. Yog hais tias lub ethos tau tshwm sim, tab sis nws tsis teb nws, tom qab kawg kawg yog tus xov tooj lossis qhov tuaj ntsib tsis tau xav txog. Tab sis tom qab ntawd, tsuas yog ob txoj hauv kev rau kev txhim kho ntawm kev nqis tes yog muaj peev xwm: muaj kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb los yog faib rau. Tab sis qhov no zoo dua qhov tsis paub tseeb hauv kev sib raug zoo.
