Kev tu me nyuam yog ib txoj kev nyuaj uas yuav tsum muaj tus yam ntxwv lav ris los ntawm leej niam thiab leej txiv. Thiab ntau tus, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov niam txiv tsis paub ua haujlwm, feem ntau nug lawv tus kheej cov lus nug txog kev yuav ua li cas thiaj li kho tau menyuam kom raug, rau lawv txoj kev loj hlob. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb ntawm no los txuas rau cov teeb meem no nrog kev txawj ntse thiab kev hlub.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Thawj cov lus qhia thiab cov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog hlub koj cov menyuam thiab nco ntsoov tias kev ua niam ua txiv tsis yog lej, nws tsis muaj txoj cai nyuaj thiab ceev. Mloog koj lub siab thiab ua raws nws cov lus ntuas ua ntej, tsis yog lub tswv yim ntawm cov phau ntawv ntse. Tab sis qhov taw tes yog tias koj ib txwm xav tau kev hlub, txawm tias thaum lawv quaj, yog capricious, tawv ncauj, ua rau koj chim. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum ua kom tau txhawm rau menyuam yaus hauv cov sijhawm no tsis yog nrog kev ua nkauj ua nraug, tab sis nrog kev sib hlub, sim nkag siab dab tsi tom qab lawv tus cwj pwm phem. Thaum koj qw nrov rau menyuam yaus, lawv nqus koj lub siab thiab ua phem dua.
Kauj ruam 2
Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum raug kho ua kom sib npaug, tsis yog kev ruam, cov tsiaj tsis muaj peev xwm to taub. Me nyuam, txawm lawv laus npaum li cas los, tsis ruam dhau peb, nej ib leeg yeej tsis to taub ib leeg. Tsis xav tau lisp nrog lawv. Xav txog qhov koj yuav sib txuas lus nrog tus neeg txawv teb chaws uas tab tom pib kawm koj hom lus li cas? Koj yuav tsis to taub nws, tab sis koj yuav coj nws nrog kev hwm, koj? Vim li cas thiaj tsis sim kho koj tus menyuam thiab?
Kauj ruam 3
Cov menyuam yaus, tshwj xeeb yog cov hluas, xav tau koj los siv koj lub sijhawm ntau nrog lawv. Tab sis nco ntsoov tias koj cov menyuam tsis yog koj tus kheej, lawv txawv. Yog li ntawd, lawv tsis tas yuav nyiam qhov koj nyiam, xav txoj koj ua, thiab ua qhov zoo rau koj. Yog tias koj tus menyuam tsis nyiam cov seev cev uas koj tau ua thaum menyuam yaus, tab sis xav ua si ntxiv, piv txwv li, nrog cov khoom ua si muag muag, pom zoo nws lub tswv yim, tsis txhob yuam nws. Qhov kev yuam yuav tseem tsis coj ib qho txiaj ntsig.
