Yog tias cov laus ua kom tawg, cov menyuam tsis liam. Tab sis, qhov ntawd yog qhov nws ua tau, lawv yuav poob siab, npau taws. Cov menyuam tom qab lawv niam lawv txiv kev sib nrauj feem ntau xav tias lawv tus kheej ua txhaum. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tau tham nrog lawv txhawm rau kom txo qis tus menyuam.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Yog tias muaj ntau tshaj ib tus menyuam hauv tsev neeg, tom qab ntawd coj lawv ua ke. Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau hnov los ntawm leej niam leej txiv tib qho kev txiav txim siab uas lawv tau tuaj ua ke thiab pom zoo rau lo lus teb no txog kev sib cais. Nws yog ib qho zoo uas yuav tau qhia rau tus menyuam yam yooj yim, piv txwv li: "Peb tau txiav txim siab los nyob ua ke tamsis no. Peb tsis muaj kev zoo siab nyob ua ke."
Kauj ruam 2
Txawm hais tias tseem yuav tawg, qhia rau koj cov menyuam paub tias koj tseem sib hlub. Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau hnov cov ntaub ntawv no. Feem ntau heev tus me nyuam txiav txim siab nws tus kheej lub luag haujlwm rau qhov tseeb tias kev sib nrauj ntawm nws niam nws txiv yog qhov nws ua txhaum tag nrho. Koj yuav tsum ua pov thawj thiab qhia rau tus menyuam tias qhov no tsis muaj tseeb.
Kauj ruam 3
Koj yuav raug nug txog lo lus "vim li cas?" Piav tias cov kev xav uas lawv ib zaug xav tau hloov lawm, ploj mus. Yog tias tsis muaj txoj kev xav, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws rau ib feem, thiaj li tsis mus cuam tshuam ib leeg lub neej. Tsis tas yuav qw, tsa koj lub suab, lossis hais lus nrawm rau cov niam txiv thaum lawv ua nrog koj tus menyuam. Yog li nws yuav xav tias qhov no yog kev txiav txim siab ntawm ib leej txiv lossis leej niam, thiab tsis yog tag nrho tsev neeg.
Kauj ruam 4
Cov menyuam yaus yuav nug koj txog qhov teeb meem txog kev sib nrauj no. Yog tias tus menyuam tsis xav nrog koj tham, tom qab ntawv tsis tas li ntawd, yuav tsum tso nws lub siab rau nws. Muab sijhawm rau nws xav yam dhau thiab hnyav. Cia lawv muab lub siab rau txoj kev xav, tuaj yeem hais tawm ntawm qhov teeb meem no, txhawb lawv rau qhov no. Teb cov lus nug kom meej, khov kho thiab tsis txhob dag.