Txhua nkawm niam txiv, thaum sib txuas lus ntev los yog nyob ua ke, muaj teeb meem tsis sib xws. Txwv tsis pub, kev sib cav sib ceg tuaj yeem raug hu ua kev tsis zoo hauv kev sib raug zoo ntawm tib neeg, tom qab ntawd ib qho xwm txheej tshwm sim, qw lossis sib txuas lus twb nrog lub suab tsa. Kev sib cav sib ceg yuav hais txog qhov tsis tseem ceeb lossis qhov laj thawj zoo.
Qee zaum cov teeb meem tuaj yeem tshwm sim yog tias tib neeg twb muaj kev npau taws ua ntej kev sib cav lossis hauv lub xeev tsis zoo tom qab hnub ua haujlwm, qaug zog. Tsis tas li, cov laj thawj rau nws tshwm sim tej zaum yuav tsis muaj kev nkag siab ntawm lwm sab.
Piv txwv li, tus poj niam xav kom los ntawm nws tus txiv tias, tom qab noj mov tas, nws yuav ntxuav tais diav thiab ntxuav lub rooj, tab sis nws tsis ua, kev tsis sib haum xeeb tuaj. Yog hais tias tus poj niam yog tibneeg hu tauj coob thiab nyob rau hauv lub siab zoo, txhua yam yuav ua haujlwm tawm, thiab nws tus kheej yuav muaj peev xwm tshem tawm nws, tab sis lwm yam nws zoo nkaus li yog ib qho kev tsis tseem ceeb, lossis tej zaum nws muaj qhov laj thawj lossis lub laj thawj ntawm kev sib cav.
Cov teeb meem tsis sib haum yog yuav luag txhua lub siab ntsws. Qee zaum, muaj kev sib cav sib ceg, uas tau pib me me, thaum kawg, hais lus tsis zoo lossis hais tsis zoo xws li "Kuv thov txim Kuv tau ntsib koj!", "Kuv yuav ua li cas thiaj li cia koj ua ib feem ntawm kuv lub neej?!" Txawm hais tias tsis nco qab los xij, koj tuaj yeem hais tawm txhua yam uas tau rhaub thiab mob rau ntau xyoo. Qhov tshwm sim yog tsis xis nyob, lub siab lub ntsws rau ob qho tib si, cov hlab ntsha hauv lub siab, tab sis tsis muaj kev pom zoo, thiab qhov no yog qhov tshwm sim tsis zoo ntawm kev sib cav.
Cov xwm txheej zoo li no tuaj yeem tshwm sim nrog cov khub niam txiv uas sib hlub heev. Cov kev sib cav no tsuas yog ua kev puas tsuaj rau kev sib raug zoo, thiab tsis muaj kev vam meej. Koj tuaj yeem txav tawm ntawm qhov no ntawm kev sib txawv: hauv ib teev lossis tom qab ob peb lub lis piam. Tab sis, hmoov tsis, qhov tseeb ntawm kev sib cav yuav tshwm sim tom qab ib ntus. Muaj qee qhov kev cai txhawm rau ua kom muaj kev sib cav nyob rau yam tsawg kawg ntawm ob qho tib si.
1. Qhov kev sib cav, yog tias nws twb tshwm sim lawm, yuav tsum muaj laj thawj zoo. Hauv qhov ua piv txwv, ib tus neeg yuav teb tau yooj yim: "Kuv tsis xav tias koj tsis ntxuav koj lub tais diav thiab tsis ntxuav lub rooj."
2. Thaum muaj kev sib nkag siab los ntawm lub ntsiab lus ntawm qhov kev sib cav, nws zoo dua rau kev tso tseg.
3. Nws yog qhov muaj tseeb tsis muaj nqis los taw qhia qhov kev ua tsis tiav, piv txwv li, nrog cov lus "Slob, inattentive, frivolous", vim tias muaj kev sib tham ntawm qhov teeb meem, thiab tsis yog tus xeeb ceem ntawm tus neeg.
4. Nws tsim nyog xav tias yog kev nyiam huv yog ib qho tseem ceeb rau ib tus neeg, nws yuav tsis tshua tseem ceeb rau lwm tus.
5. Tsis muaj qhov xwm txheej twg yuav tsum ua rau koj txaj muag los ntawm cov neeg nyob hauv lub nroog luv luv vim tias trifle tuaj yeem ua rau sib nrauj.
