Kev sib cav sib ceg yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib raug zoo. Thiab nws yog qhov zoo yog tias cov neeg koom tes ua haujlwm tshem tawm qhov ua rau muaj kev thuam thiab tawg. Uas yog, nws yog ib qho tsim nyog xav txog lawv ua ntej xa ib tus neeg hlub.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Vim li cas thiaj muaj kev sib cav uas ua rau qhov tseeb tias tus neeg ntxim hlub tau ncaim mus? Qhov koj hais lossis ua tau txhaum cai loj heev uas tsuas yog tshem tawm txhua yam thiab tawm mus. Xav txog nws. Tom qab tag nrho, nws yuav zoo tig tawm tias qhov kev sib cav sib ceg tau ua rau tus txiv neej npau taws rau lub sijhawm so. Hauv qhov no, tsis txhob maj rov qab los, siv sijhawm thiab xav txog qhov xwm txheej.
Kauj ruam 2
Yog tias koj yeej ua rau koj tus hlub hlub nws heev uas nws nrhiav tsis tau lub zog los nyob, sim ua siab ntev. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ua ib qho dab tsi ntawm lub taub hau kub. Muab sijhawm rau koj tus kheej thiab nws kom txias. Tom qab ntawv xa cov neeg koj hlub tuaj rau lawv hais kom lawv tuaj sib tham thiab sib tham. Yog tias nws tsis teb, txhais tau tias nws tsis tau npaj sib txuas lus, tos ntev me ntsis. Tom qab ntawv sau lwm sms. Tsis txhob hnov qab qhia tias koj khuv xim qhov kev sib cav, hloov siab lees txim ntawm qhov koj tau ua, thiab nyiam kev hlub ntau. Thov kev zam txim. Tom qab cov lus zoo li no, tus hlub tsim nyog yuav tsis kam lees lub rooj sib tham.
Kauj ruam 3
Thaum koj tham nrog tus uas koj hlub, thawj qhov uas yuav ua yog lees qhov koj ua txhaum. Hais koj tsis xav tias koj cov lus lossis cov haujlwm yuav muaj qhov cuam tshuam li ntawd. Siv qhov yuam kev ua poj niam, ua txuj koj tsis nco qab qhov tseeb ntawm cov lus sib tham txog. Tus txiv neej hlub uas xav rov qab yuav tsis nco txog qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb. Nws yog qhov txaus rau nws tias koj tau hloov siab lees txim. Thiab cog lus tias yuav tsis rov ua qhov ntawd ntxiv lawm, thiab lwm zaus yuav tsum nco ntsoov xav ua ntej koj hais qee yam rau koj tus hlub.
Kauj ruam 4
Tom qab sib tham hais ncaj qha, ntim daim ntawv sib dhos nrog cov khoom noj qab. Cawv me ntsis yuav tsis ua mob. Qhov no yuav pab koj so thiab hnov qab qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb. Tsuas yog tsis pom qhov twg pib nws. Txwv tsis pub, resentment yuav nyab dua. Tham txog cov ncauj lus tsis raug thiab cov neeg ib puag ncig koj tus hlub nrog mloog thiab mob siab. Thiab yog tias tom qab qhov kev sib tham nws tseem tau ua xyem xyav txog koj txoj kev hloov siab lees txim tiag tiag, tom qab ntawd kev noj hmo zoo nkauj lawv yuav yaj tag.
