Txhua tus niam nws tus kheej paub thaum twg mus rau lub vaj rau nws tus menyuam. Qee tus neeg twb nyob hauv ib xyoos thiab ib nrab tau qhia qhov txuj ci tseem ceeb ntawm kev sib txuas lus, thiab qee tus neeg txawm tias thaum muaj rau xyoo hides nyob tom qab nraub qaum ntawm cov neeg laus. Los ntawm txoj cai lij choj, qib pib, yuav tsum muaj, yuav tsum raug txais txij thaum muaj peb xyoos. Yog tias muaj chaw nyob dawb hauv pawg menyuam yau (lossis yog niam txiv muaj cai pub koob), lawv yuav coj nws mus nyob rau hauv ib xyoos thiab ib nrab.
Tab sis cov niam txiv yuav tsum pib npaj ua haujlwm rau kev yoog raws hauv qib xyaum ntev ua ntej pib kev mus ntsib. Tsim cov duab qhia menyuam yaus zoo. Tsis txhob hem koj tus menyuam nrog nws coj tus cwj pwm phem. Koj tuaj yeem hnov feem ntau: "Ntawm no nyob hauv qib kindergarten lawv yuav qhia koj sai sai …" Dab tsi ntawm tus menyuam tom qab cov kev hem thawj no yuav maj mus rau qhov ntawd. Ntawm qhov tsis sib thooj, qhia rau lawv tias qib kindergarten yog qhov chaw uas koj tuaj yeem ua si cov khoom ua si, sib tham nrog cov phooj ywg, taug kev ntawm thaj chaw ua si, thiab kawm cov nkauj tshiab. Tab sis qhov no tsis yog qhov chaw rau kev rov kawm ntawv ntawm cov menyuam yaus tsis zoo. Omit cov ntsiab lus hais txog chav kawm thiab kev npaj tsev kawm ntawv. Yog lawm, yog tias tus menyuam xav paub, ntawm qhov tsis tooj, hais tias tus menyuam yaus yog qhov chaw ntawm kev tshawb pom tshiab.
Thawj zaug mus xyuas hauv qib pib yuav tsum tau nrog niam. Los nrog tus menyuam noj hauv pab pawg, ua qhia nws tias nws yuav mus ua si qhov twg, noj su, pw. Muab chav dej sib cais. Feem ntau cov menyuam yuav txaj muag nug nws. Qee zaum ntawm thawj hnub ntawm koj tuaj ntsib, koj yuav nyob nrog koj tus menyuam ntev li ob teev. Tab sis tus yuam sij rau kev hloov kho tau zoo yog kev maj mam nthuav qhia ntawm tus menyuam rau hauv pab pawg tshiab. Xav txog koj tus kheej hauv nws qhov chaw. Tab sis qhov no tseem yog tus txiv neej me me uas tsis muaj kev paub txog lub neej thiab nws lub ntiaj teb tseem yog nws niam.
Yuav ua li cas thaum lub tantrums? Nrog koj tus menyuam ntab ib qho ntev ib yam. Tsis txhob thab nws ntshai. Zaum os, hais lus nyob theem ntawm tus me nyuam qhov muag. Siv koj lub sijhawm. Tham rau koj tus menyuam txog txhua yam nws tau quaj txog. Yuam kom muab tus me nyuam tso rau hauv ib pawg txhais tau tias ua rau lwm tus npau taws thaum yav tom ntej. Cov menyuam yaus nco qab txhua yam thiab parting nrog lawv niam yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj kev puas ntsoog. Thiab tib lub sijhawm, koj yuav tsum muaj txoj haujlwm ruaj khov uas koj yuav tsum tau tawm (mus ua haujlwm, ua lag luam).
Koj tuaj yeem txhawb cov kev mus kawm qib pib. Tab sis tsis khoom plig khoom. Nws yog qhov zoo dua uas cog lus tias tom qab lub vaj koj yuav tau taug kev ntev dua los yog saib duab kos duab yog tias tus me nyuam nyob hauv tsev. Feem ntau ntawm cov teeb meem tshwm sim hauv cov menyuam yaus uas tau txais khoom noj khoom haus. Tsawg tus neeg xav tau noj tom qab lawv tus kheej. Koj tuaj yeem thov tus neeg zov me nyuam pub zaub mov rau tus me nyuam los yog hais kom lawv tsis txhob cuam tshuam nrog txoj kev. Thawj lub lim tiam hauv vaj, yuav luag txhua tus menyuam yaus muaj teeb meem nrog zaub mov thiab qhov no yog qhov qub.
Mus da dej kuj tseem ntxhov siab rau ntau tus menyuam yaus. Ntxiv mus, feem ntau ntawm cov chav xyaum kawm yog nruab nrog lub tais tso quav, txawm tias lawv me me xwb. Ntawm chav kawm, qhov tseeb, koj yuav tsum tau qhia koj cov xwm txheej mus rau hauv chav dej hauv tsev. Tab sis yog tias koj tsis ua tiav kev kawm ua ntej, nug tus kws qhia kom pab tus menyuam hauv qhov teeb meem no. Coob leej niam leej txiv yuav txaj muag qhia tus xib hwb nrog cov lus thov dua ib zaug. Thiab hauv vain. Kev zov menyuam yog tib txoj haujlwm thiab lawv kuj yuav tsum coj mus rau hauv tus yam ntxwv ntawm tus menyuam.
Los ntawm txoj kev, nws yog tus menyuam txoj kev sib raug zoo nrog cov neeg qhia ntawv uas yog tus yuam sij rau kev yoog nyob rau hauv qib xyaum kawm. Yog lawm, hmoov tsis zoo qee zaum koj yuav tsum tau tiv nrog lub rudeness ntawm cov neeg ua haujlwm. Tom qab ntawd nws yuav tsis yog superfluous taw tes rau tus kws qhia ntawv thiab nannies txog qhov tsis raug ntawm kev coj cwj pwm. Hauv daim ntawv qhia tseeb, tau kawg. Tus kws qhia ntawv tsis muaj cai raug ntaus, thuam thiab thuam cov menyuam yaus. Hauv cov rooj plaub no, sau ib tsab ntawv mus rau tus thawj coj ntawm lub chaw haujlwm. Tsis txhob "poob qab" los ntawm kev tu siab tias "muaj menyuam yaus ntau, thiab cov nyiaj hli yog me me." Tus kws qhia ntawv yog tib co ntiav neeg ua haujlwm nrog txoj haujlwm lav.
