Cov niam txiv ntawm cov menyuam uas muaj kev ntxhov siab hauv tsev kawm ntawv tau paub zoo txog qee cov paib thiab phiajcim. Nov yog qee cov lus qhia los pab qhia cov menyuam kom paub daws lawv cov kev ntxhov siab thiab npaj cov niam txiv los npaj lawv cov menyuam rau lub neej kawm ntawv.
Dab tsi yog qhov sib txawv ntawm tus me nyuam lub tsev kho mob ntxhov siab ua ntej ntawm tsev kawm thiab nws "Kuv tsis xav mus kawm ntawv hnub no"?
Koj yuav tsum saib tus menyuam tus cwj pwm. Yog tias cov niam txiv pom cov paib xws li ntxhov siab lossis ntxhov siab, lawv cov menyuam yuav raug kev txom nyem tom tsev kawm ntawv. Hauv qhov no, cov menyuam yaus, nrog rau cov laus, feem ntau siv cov nqe lus xws li: "Kuv ua tsis tau nws", "Kuv yuav tsis tau zoo dua", "Nws yuav zoo li no tas mus li, thiab tsis muaj dab tsi yuav hloov"; lawv pom lub neej tsuas yog xim dub thiab dawb xwb.
Cov menyuam uas tsis xav mus kawm ntawv muaj teeb meem kev mob siab thiab muaj lwm yam ntxiv uas lawv xaiv.
Nws puas yooj yim rau cov niam txiv paub txog hom kev ntxhov siab no?
Feem ntau, kev ntxhov siab, tshwj xeeb kev ntxhov siab hauv tsev kawm ntawv, yuav mob hnyav dua rau hnub Monday. Nws yog qhov nyuaj heev rau cov menyuam no tau tsiv tawm ntawm hnub so, thaum lawv muaj sijhawm dawb thiab tsis muaj sijhawm, mus rau lub tsev kawm ntawv lub lim tiam nrog nws cov qauv. Yog li ntawv, yog tias tus menyuam muaj qhov tsis txaus siab hauv tsev kawm ntawv, niam txiv yuav pom tias nws yog qhov nyuaj rau menyuam tuaj kawm ntawv hnub Monday sawv ntxov. Hauv qhov no, lawv yuav tsum nyob twj ywm, nyob twj ywm, thiab tseem ceeb tshaj, tswj hwm lawv tus kheej kev ntxhov siab kom nws tsis txhob kis rau cov menyuam.
Kev ntxhov siab puas tuaj yeem kis rau menyuam yaus los ntawm niam txiv?
Qee tus menyuam yaus, zoo li qee tus neeg laus, nyiam ua ntau dua, suav nrog ua yooj yim ntxhov siab dua. Yog li, niam txiv yuav tsum nco ntsoov txog cov cim uas lawv xa rau lawv cov menyuam. Piv txwv li, peb yam uas tsis pab nrog kev ntxhov siab yog kev ntseeg siab rau nws qhov kev qhaj ntawv, kev cuam tshuam thiab kev zam.
Cov niam txiv puas tuaj yeem ua rau tus menyuam ntxhov siab txog lub tsev kawm ntawv?
Ntawm chav kawm, lossis txawm tias ntxiv rau nws. Coob leej niam leej txiv ntshai tham nrog lawv cov menyuam txog dab tsi tsev kawm ntawv tsis txaus siab rau nws. Piv txwv li, thaum niam txiv tau ntsib tus menyuam los tom tsev kawm ntawv thiab pom tias nws zoo li tu siab, nws yuav nug tias "Dab tsi tshwm sim?" Thiab tom qab ntawd lawv yuav siv tag nrho lawv lub sijhawm, los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv mus tsev, los tham txog kev nyuaj. Tab sis qhov no yog qhov tseeb yuam kev. Tsis pub rau hnub kawm ntawv tsuas yog saib nws qhov kev nyuaj. Nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau kos tus me nyuam lub siab rau qhov tseeb tias muaj qee yam zoo hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Koj yuav tsum nug nws: "Nyob zoo! Hnub koj tau ua dab tsi? Qhia kuv tias qhov twg nthuav hauv tsev kawm hnub no?" Thiab tsuas yog tom qab ntawd nws tsim nyog tsiv mus rau yam uas nyuaj.
Koj yuav ua li cas nrog koj tus menyuam tham txog nws yog tias koj tsis xav tias nws ua dhau
Koj yuav tsum xav txog ib lub dav hlau uas tau mus rau hauv txoj kev muaj cua hlob. Tus neeg tsav dav hlau yuav tsis khiav rov qab los ntawm txoj kev hauv tsev mus khawm cov neeg caij tsheb thiab muab cov ncuav qab zib ntxiv rau lawv, vim nws zoo li txawv heev Ib tug neeg nyob rau hauv cov xwm txheej no yuav xav kom tus saib xyuas tsis txhob poob siab thiab sau, vim nws muab kev nkag siab zoo.
Niam txiv kuj yuav tsum nyob ntsiag to thiab, nyob ntawm lub hnub nyoog ntawm tus menyuam, hais tias, "Kuv hlub koj heev, tab sis kuv xav kom koj muaj kev ntseeg siab dua, yog li thaum koj kawm ntawv thiab muaj kev nyuaj, Kuv xav kom koj paub tias koj tuaj yeem mus rau koj tus xibfwb."
