Cov ntaub ntawv sib nrauj tu siab tau nce xyoo mus rau xyoo. Coob tus menyuam raug coj los yam tsis muaj leej txiv, thiab lub sijhawm yuav los yeej yog thaum tus menyuam yaus pib xav paub txog qhov tseeb no. Koj yuav tsum tau npaj kom txhij rau qhov no, vim hais tias kev tsim ntawm tus menyuam qhov kev saib tus kheej thiab kev saib xyuas lub ntiaj teb nyob ntawm qhov koj piav qhia qhov tsis muaj leej txiv mus rau nws.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Npaj ib zaj dab neeg tseeb nyob rau hauv ib daim foos uas tus menyuam muaj peev xwm to taub. Nws yog qhov zoo dua rau nws kawm qhov tseeb tag nrho los ntawm nws niam dua li ntawm cov neeg nyob ze lossis lwm tus neeg txheeb ze. Tsis txhob rov ua dua tus menyuam nrog cov dab neeg uas leej txiv tau tawm mus lawm. Tsis ntev los sis tom qab, qhov tseeb tag nrho yuav tawm los, nws yuav tawg rau tus me nyuam psyche. Cov menyuam yaus nws pom tias nws nyuaj rau lub siab zam rau kev dag los ntawm cov neeg laus.
Kauj ruam 2
Ua ib daim duab zoo ntawm leej txiv hauv kev xav ntawm tus me nyuam. Ua li no, zam txim rau koj tus txiv thiab tso nws tus txij nkawm rau nws. Tsis txhob hais cov lus phem hais txog koj txiv, tsis txhob hais ntau npaum li cas koj tau raug kev txom nyem los ntawm nws, thiab tsis txhob cia koj cov neeg txheeb ze thiab cov neeg koj paub ua. Nov yog koj txoj kev sib raug zoo thiab lawv tsis siv rau menyuam yaus. Leej txiv yog qhov tseem ceeb rau tus me nyuam ib yam li leej niam.
Kauj ruam 3
Piav rau nws tias koj tau siv los sib hlub thiab tom qab ntawd qhov xwm txheej tau hloov. Nws tau tshwm sim dhau los, thiab nws yuav tsum muaj kev pom zoo. Nws tawm mus (mus rau lwm lub nroog, nyob nrog lwm tus pojniam, thiab lwm yam), thiab nws tau tus mob dua. Thiab koj thiab ob leeg xav zoo, vim tias nej ib leeg hlub ib leeg thiab yuav nyob ua ib ke. Qhov no yuav yooj yim tus me nyuam cov kev txhawj xeeb thiab muaj tseeb. Qhov no tseem ceeb heev vim tias menyuam yaus tsis xav paub kev dag.
Kauj ruam 4
Qhia los ntawm cov piv txwv ntawm lwm tsev neeg (tus neeg paub los yog tus neeg tsim yeeb yaj kiab) tias qhov tsis muaj leej txiv tsis txhais tau tias tus me nyuam yuav tsis loj hlob zoo li txhua tus. Koj tsev neeg tau me dua nws cov neeg nws paub, tab sis muaj ntau yam ntawm kev hlub, kev nkag siab thiab kev hwm nyob rau hauv. Thiab qhov no yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj hauv kev sib raug zoo hauv tsev neeg.
Kauj ruam 5
Thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws, nco ntsoov cia koj tus menyuam nkag siab tias koj hlub nws heev. Qhia nws ntau zaus. Muab sijhawm rau koj tus menyuam ntau li qhov nws xav tau. Nyob ib puag ncig los ntawm kev saib xyuas thiab kev saib xyuas, nws yuav xav tias ua tiav, thiab qhov tsis muaj nws txiv yuav tsis raug ntaus nqi li lub sijhawm. Qhov loj tshaj plaws yog kom tsis txhob overdo nws thiab tsis indulge tag nrho nws whims, txwv tsis pub koj yuav coj ib tus neeg uas tsis nyiam thiab tsis mloog lus.