Hauv txoj kev xav (psychology), muaj qhov zoo li yog qhov kev sib txuas lus. Hom kab ke no yuav muaj txiaj ntsig zoo rau peb hauv kev kos duab ntawm kev tsa peb tus kheej. Qhov laj thawj nyob ntawm kev hloov pauv tus cwj pwm ntawm cov neeg laus muaj feem rau tus menyuam. Los ntawm kev hloov pauv hauv koj tus kheej heev me ntsis, ntau qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb thiab teeb meem hauv kev txhawb nqa tuaj yeem zam tau yooj yim. Lawv yuav tsis txawm tshwm sim nyob hauv koj lub neej.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Yog tias koj pom sijhawm los tham nrog koj tus menyuam, tham nrog nws li koj xav nrog tham nrog ib tus neeg laus. Nco ntsoov ntsej muag rau ntsej muag. Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb heev uas koj lub qhov muag nyob hauv tib theem.
Kauj ruam 2
Yog koj tus me nyuam chim siab txog ib yam dab tsi, tsis txhob nug nws. Txhua nqe lus koj yuav tsum tau lees paub.
Kauj ruam 3
Nws yog ib qho zoo heev los qhia rau tus menyuam tias koj to taub li cas tiag rau nws, thiab nws xav li cas hauv tib lub sijhawm. Piv txwv li, "Kuv paub tias koj ntaus Petya nrog ib phau ntawv vim nws muab lub ntaus ntawv rho tawm ntawm koj. Koj tau tawm tsam."
Kauj ruam 4
Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb heev uas koj yuav tsum muaj kev ncua hauv kev sib tham, ua kom tus me nyuam nkag siab txog nws txoj kev xav thiab kev xav. Yog tias nws nres tham thiab tig mus rau lwm qhov, muab kaw tseg, muab sijhawm rau nws los ua tib zoo xav.
Kauj ruam 5
Thiab txoj cai tseem ceeb, tsis txhob thiab tsis nyob hauv ib qho xwm txheej twg, tsis txhob muab koj tus menyuam piv rau lwm tus neeg, ua piv txwv ntau, hauv koj cov kev xav, menyuam. Txhua tus menyuam muaj qee yam tshwj xeeb uas ua rau nws cais tawm ntawm txhua tus. Tsis txhob hnov qab txog nws tus kheej thiab tsis txhob hnov qab nws. Yog tias koj xav tau qhov sib piv tiag tiag, tom qab ntawv muab piv nrog nws tam sim no nrog nws yav dhau los.
