Muaj tseeb koj tau pom xws li ib daim duab: hauv khw, tus menyuam yaus yog capricious thiab nroo: "M-ah-ah, zoo, thov, yuav-thiab-thiab ….". Rau leej niam no teb: "Nkees nkees ua li cas rau koj whims!" Thiab … nws muab txoj kev.
Tom qab ntawd, leej niam yws yws tias nws tsis tuaj yeem ua ib qho dab tsi txog nws tus me nyuam uas nws hlub. Kuv tuaj yeem hais dab tsi ntawm no? Nws tau ua txhua yam los ua kom tus me nyuam chim siab. Nws tus kheej yuav raug cem rau indulging whims ntawm tus me nyuam, thiab nyob rau tib lub sij hawm tsis muaj dab tsi rau wean nws los ntawm nroo thiab ua capricious.
Tab sis menyuam yaus kawm txhua yam los ntawm niam txiv! Cov menyuam mos yug tshiab, yog lawv xav tau dabtsi, qhia qhov no nrog quaj. Thaum tus menyuam loj tuaj, nws kawm paub tswj hwm nws lub suab. Thiab nws pib, zoo li ib tus kws tshawb fawb tiag tiag, los sim rau nws cov kev xav paub. Thiab vim tias yog vim li cas cov niam txiv muaj kev cuam tshuam rau ib lossis lwm qhov kev xav ntawm tus menyuam, nws feem ntau nyob ntawm seb nws yuav siv nws hauv kev sib txuas lus nrog lawv lossis tsis.
Dab tsi yog qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws rau menyuam mos hauv lub ntiaj teb no? Cov khoom ua si? Cov menyuam yaus niaj hnub no muaj lawv txaus. Khoom noj khoom haus? Menyuam tau txais nws lawm. Khaub ncaws? Feem ntau cov menyuam yaus tsis nyiam hnav khaub ncaws, lossis tseem ntxub nws txhua lub sijhawm.
Qhov tseem ceeb thiab muaj txiaj ntsig tshaj plaws rau ib tus menyuam yog kev hlub thiab kev nyiam.
Ntawm no tus me nyuam whimpered. (Nco ntsoov: whining tseem tsis tau muaj qhov yuav tsum tau ua, qhov no tsuas yog kev sim!) Niam tam sim ntawd khiav mus rau nws, xaiv nws, tu siab. Tus mos ab nco tau dabtsi? "Yog tias koj xav tau koj niam txoj kev hlub thiab pom zoo, koj yuav tsum yws!" Tom qab ntawd tus menyuam yuav pom tias los ntawm kev quaj thiab quaj, koj tuaj yeem tau txais lwm yam pab tau los ntawm niam txiv.
Yuav ua li cas rau cov xwm txheej zoo li no? Tsis mus ze tus menyuam thaum nws quaj? Tau kawg koj yuav tsum tau tuaj! Los txog thiab, ua ntej tshaj plaws, xyuas seb tus menyuam puas xav tau koj kev pab. Yog tias yog, pab yuav tseem ceeb heev. Tab sis yog tias qhov quaj ntawm ib tus menyuam yog los ntawm qhov tseeb tias tus menyuam, tsis tuaj yeem ncav cuag qhov khoom ua si uas nws nyiam, nws tsis tsim nyog muab nws cov khoom ua si no, txawm hais tias lub suab quaj rov ua rau quaj nrov. D = Koj yuav tsum sim ua kom cuam tshuam tus me nyuam cov khoom ua si los yog lwm yam khoom me me, tos kom txog thaum nws nthuav qhia nws, thiab tsuas yog tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem tuaj tos tus menyuam. Txoj kev yooj yim zoo li no ua haujlwm flawlessly!
Nyob rau hauv qhov kev tshwm sim uas tus menyuam twb siv los ua kom tiav txhua yam nrog nws cov whims, ntau yam ntxiv yuav tsum tau ua kom tau txiav nws los ntawm qhov no. Txawm li cas los xij, yog tias koj ua siab ntev txaus thiab tsis ua lub siab ntawm cov menyuam, qhov tshwm sim yuav tsis nyob ntev rau tom ntej.