Qee tus niam txiv tsis zoo siab tias lawv cov menyuam dhau nruj, lwm tus dhau kev thaj yeeb thiab siab zoo. Tshwj xeeb feem ntau los ntawm leej txiv koj tuaj yeem hnov cov lus tsis txaus siab: qee yam ntawm muslin cov tub ntxhais hluas loj hlob zuj zus, nws tsis paub yuav ua li cas muab rov qab, tshem tawm cov khoom ua si xaiv, thiab lub neej ua siab phem, cov muaj zog muaj txoj sia nyob, cov neeg tsis muaj zog yog doomed hauv nws. Tab sis qhov no yog lub tswv yim ntawm niam txiv. Yuav qhia menyuam li cas thiaj coj tus cwjpwm tsis zoo thiab sawv ntawm nws tus kheej? Nco ntsoov tias ua ntej, nws tseem ceeb heev kom niam txiv tau ntsuam xyuas kom zoo txog lub zwj ceeb thiab qhov tshwm sim ntawm lawv cov menyuam.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Koj puas paub tseeb tias koj tsis tau zam qhov teeb meem no? Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom cais ob lub ntsiab lus: qhov tus me nyuam nws tus kheej cuam tshuam nrog qhov xwm txheej no li cas, thiab koj, niam txiv, yuav ua li cas nrog nws. Nug koj tus kheej: Puas yog lub xeev ntawm kev ua haujlwm hauv kev muaj tiag tsuas yog ua yeeb yam los ntawm qhov pom ntawm koj tus tub lossis tus ntxhais? Puas muaj tseeb uas nws raug luag thuam, raug thuam, raug tsim txom? Los yog qhov xwm txheej no ua rau koj nco txog qee yam ntawm koj tus menyuam thaum yau, qee yam uas koj tau ntsib dhau los, qee qhov ntawm koj qhov kev tsis txaus siab dhau los, thiab koj tsis tau muab koj lub tswv yim ntsig txog lub neej mus rau koj tus menyuam?
Kauj ruam 2
Tsis txhob qhia rau koj tus me nyuam txog koj cov kev nyuaj. Nov yog qhov tau txais ncaj qha ntawm cov lus tau hais los saud. Ntseeg tias nws tau ua rau poob ntsej muag, cov niam txiv feem ntau muaj qhov ua tsis tau zoo hauv lawv cov menyuam. Tsis txhob tsom rau cov neeg laus lub siab rau qee yam tsis ncaj ncees, tus menyuam yuav tsis xav li cas. Teased, thawb tawm, tsis lees txais mus rau hauv qhov kev ua si … Txhua yam tshwm sim thaum menyuam sib txuas lus. Tam sim no lawv tsis raug tso cai ua si, tab sis hauv peb caug feeb lawv yuav hu lawv tus kheej. Koj raug thawb tawm, thiab hauv ob peb feeb koj yuav thawb lwm tus mus … Hauv menyuam yaus, kev tsis txaus siab tau yooj yim dhau los thiab raug nco qab sai sai.
Kauj ruam 3
Mloog qhov koj qhia rau tus menyuam, cov lus-cov duab koj siv. Peb feem ntau peb tus kheej, hauv peb tus kheej lo lus, "kev pab cuam" lub neej ntawm tus menyuam. Peb hais tias: "lub neej ua lim hiam, thiab hauv nws nws yog qhov yuav tsum muaj los tawm tsam koj txoj kev." Thiab tus menyuam yaus pib pib puag ncig nrog cov yeeb ncuab. Lub ntiaj teb loj heev, thiab tus menyuam hauv nws yog qhov me me, yog li nws tsis muaj peev xwm tawm tsam lub ntiaj teb, thiab yog li ntawd tsis xav tias yuav muaj yeej, tsis xav tiv thaiv. Li no, qee cov menyuam yaus muaj kev ntshai, thaum lwm tus muaj tus cwj pwm npau taws, lub hauv paus ntawm kev uas tib yam kev ntshai ntawm lub ntiaj teb. Nco ntsoov tias kom txoj kev loj hlob sib raug zoo, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau tus menyuam ntseeg tias lub ntiaj teb no tau ua phooj ywg zoo rau nws. Ntawm chav kawm, kev phem tuaj yeem pom, tab sis kev ua zoo yuav tsum yeej.
Kauj ruam 4
Tsis txhob hu koj tus menyuam "tsis muaj zog" (txawm yog hauv kev xav). Nov yog qee yam ntawm qee cov niam txiv, feem ntau yog leej txiv. Cov menyuam yaus thim rov qab mus rau lawv tus kheej, vim tias lawv tsis tuaj yeem tiv thaiv qhov tsis muaj peev xwm ntawm lawv tus kheej lub zog, thiab lawv kuj ntshai tsam ua rau muaj kev tsis txaus siab ntawm leej txiv lossis leej niam. Thiab lawv tsum tsis qhia lawv niam lawv txiv txog lawv qhov kev paub dhau los, txoj kev xav. Thiab cov teeb meem pib loj zuj zus zoo li snowball, uas yuav txuas ntxiv deb tus menyuam ntawm lub ntiaj teb.
Kauj ruam 5
Cov menyuam yaus tseem tsis tau tiv thaiv nws tus kheej, yog li tiv thaiv nws, tab sis tsis yog mus rau ntawm kev siab phem. Tsis txhob tig mus rau cov neeg uas, txawm li cas los xij, ua rau kev txaj muag ntawm lub tiaj nyom, hauv chav kawm menyuam yaus, tom tsev kawm ntawv … Tab sis tawm hauv tus menyuam tsis muaj kev tiv thaiv, thiab tom qab ntawd txawm cem nws rau qhov tsis muaj zog, yog qhov kev phem tshaj plaws. Sij hawm dhau mus, nws yuav kawm nws tus kheej, mus ntxiv lub zog los tawm tsam kev tsis ncaj ncees thiab kev tawm tsam, tab sis tam sim no cov neeg laus muaj lub luag haujlwm los pab nws kom paub txog dab tsi tshwm sim. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas yuav tsum tau coj mus rau hauv hnub nyoog ntawm tus me nyuam.
Kauj Ruam 6
Nws yog qhov tsim nyog kom tau tus neeg me tawm ntawm qhov teeb meem puas. Yog tias koj tus menyuam raug thab tas mus li, tham nrog cov saib xyuas lossis cov xibfwb. Yog tias tsim nyog, hloov nws mus rau lwm qhov chaw. Tab sis tsuas yog los ntawm qhov kawg nkaus, "khiav" los ntawm qib pib mus rau qib pib lossis los ntawm tsev kawm ntawv rau tsev kawm ntawv tsuas yog kev puas tsuaj xws li "thawb mus" teeb meem.
Kauj Ruam 7
Saib koj tus menyuam: nws puas ua kev kub ntxhov rau nws tus kheej? Koj tau tham nrog tus kws qhia ntawv lossis cov kws qhia ntawv, hloov chaw zov menyuam lossis tsev kawm ntawv, thiab qhov xwm txheej tseem nyob. Tej zaum nws tsis yog cov nyob puag ncig koj tus ntxhais lossis tus tub xwb. Thaj, koj tus menyuam npau taws rau nws tus kheej. Thiab tom qab ntawd nws yws yws tias nws tawm tsam nws. Hauv qhov no, koj yuav tsum qhia kom tsis txhob hloov pauv, tab sis yuav tsum sib txuas lus nrog menyuam yaus, kom qhib siab thiab muaj lub siab zoo.
