Kev hais lus yog ib txoj hauv kev tseem ceeb tshaj plaws los qhia koj tus kheej. Txhua tus niam txiv sim qhia tus menyuam hais kom sai li sai tau.
Muaj ntau theem nyob hauv kev txhim kho kev hais lus hauv ib tug menyuam:
- thaum 2-3 hli pib rov tsim cov nqe lus;
- thaum 5-7 hli, cov lus hais tau meej dua;
- thaum 7-9 hlis, nws pib hais cov lus luv, tab sis lawv tau hais tawm yam tsis muaj qab hau;
- tom qab cuaj lub hlis pib meej pem hais ib co lus;
- thaum txog ib xyoos thiab ib nrab, nws pib hais cov kab lus luv luv, tso nws lub ntsiab lus hauv lawv;
- thiab tsuas yog ntawm ob xyoos nws pib kawm kom paub lus tseeb.
Thaum kawm hais lus, tus menyuam yuav xub piav qhov tshwm sim ib puag ncig nws. Ntau zaus, nws tsuas nco qab txog cov nouns lossis kev ua yam ntxwv yooj yim. Yeej, ze li peb xyoos, tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm twb faib txhua yam uas nyob ib puag ncig nws mus rau qhov tsis zoo thiab qhov zoo.
Yog tias niam txiv muaj kev koom tes nrog menyuam, ces thaum muaj ob xyoos nws yuav tsum muaj peev xwm los nthuav qhia nws qhov kev xav ua luv luv. Coob leej ntau tus neeg mob siab qhia lawv tus menyuam kom hais lus sai li sai tau. Muaj ob peb txoj cai yooj yim rau qhov no:
- Ua ntej tshaj plaws, koj yuav tsum tau tham nrog koj tus menyuam txij thawj vib nas this ntawm lub neej. Hauv cov caij nyoog no, nws ntes tsuas yog ib qho kev paub tab, tab sis cov lus siv nyob rau tib lub sijhawm tuaj yeem khaws ua ke hauv qhov tsis hnov qab.
- Koj tsis txhob muab koj cov minyuam dummy kom ntau. Raws li txoj cai, cov menyuam yaus ib txwm nyiam ua phom sij tau pib hais lus ntau dua li lwm tus. Tsis tas li ntawd, ib qho lus tom yuav tshwm sim, uas yuav cuam tshuam loj hlob ntawm kev hais lus.
- Koj tsis tuaj yeem hais lus txawv txawv. Tus hais lus hais qhia pom zoo kom tsis txhob "lispaus" nrog tus menyuam, vim qhov no cuam tshuam qeeb ntawm kev hais lus. Los ntawm cov niam txiv, tus me nyuam tsuas yog hnov cov hais lo lus raug.
- Koj yuav tsum tau qhia tas li rau tus me nyuam tias txhua yam khoom hu li cas. Nws yuav tsum nyob rau hauv nws lub siab correlate cov lus thiab khoom. Tshwj xeeb yog hais tias tus me nyuam taw tes ntawm tus ntiv tes ntawm qee yam, koj yuav tsum tau qhia nws qhov nws hu ua.
- Nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau nyeem ntau phau ntawv rau tus menyuam, tshwj xeeb tshaj yog cov duab ci. Qhov no pab txhawb qhov kev nthuav dav ntawm cov lus. Yog tias nws tau nyiam nyeem cov phau ntawv, koj yuav tsum tau qhia kev nyeem ntawv rau hauv txoj kev ua txhua hnub.
- Nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau piav rau tus menyuam tas li ntawm cov lus tshiab nrog kev pab ntawm cov lus uas nws twb paub lawm.
- Txhawm rau tus menyuam yaus kawm paub hais lus hauv cov kab lus txhua yam, koj yuav tsum nug nws ntau cov lus nug, yog li tsim kom muaj kev sib tham.
Yog li, tus menyuam yuav kawm paub ceev nrawm yog tias niam txiv ua raws li cov lus pom yooj yim txhua hnub.
