Yuav ua li cas koj nyob koj lub neej thiab tsis ua yuam kev? Ntawm chav kawm, qhov no tsis yooj yim sua, tab sis yeej muaj sijhawm los kho lawv, kawm ntawm lawv thiab tsis rov ua lawv dua. Nws yog tus cwj pwm ntawm tus txiv neej rau nws qhov kev ua yuam kev uas ua rau nws ua txiv neej. Thaum nws mam li nco dheev lub hauv paus ntawm nws qhov yuam kev, txoj hauv kev tshiab hauv lub neej qhib rau nws.
Yog me nyuam yaus tau ua txhaum lub txim loj
Ib qho ntawm cov sage txheej thaum ub tau hais tias: "Tus neeg vwm yog ib tus uas ua txhua zaus, ua yuam kev ib yam, cia siab rau qhov sib txawv." Yog li cov niam txiv yuav tsum qhia lawv cov menyuam kom ua zoo rau lawv tus kheej. Yog tias lawv tswj ua li no, ces lub neej ntawm cov menyuam yaus hauv kev laus yuav yooj yim dua.
Yog tias tus menyuam yaus dawm ko taw (nyiag qee yam, dag rau lwm tus, thiab lwmyam), thiab txiav txim siab lees nws, koj yuav tsum txhawb nws thiab tsis txhob cem nws. Vim tias nws tsis yooj yim rau nws. Mloog nws thiab qhia meej tias koj txaus siab rau txoj kev lees paub thiab cov kauj ruam no tsis yooj yim. Txawm li cas los xij txhob thuam tus me nyuam rau qhov nws tau ua, tab sis tsuas yog qhuas rau qhuas txog koj qhov ua txhaum. Hauv ob peb hnub, thaum txhua yam pib daws, rov qab mus rau qhov xwm txheej no, tab sis ua ib daim duab sib piv. Xav tias qhov tseeb dab neeg qhov twg tus hero yuav ua zoo li koj tus menyuam. Raws li qhov tshwm sim, koj yuav nkag siab qhov kev txiav txim siab uas koj tus menyuam tau kos, thiab koj yuav tsum ua mus li cas.
Nws tshwm sim uas cov niam txiv kawm paub txog kev ua ntawm cov pranksters me me los ntawm lawv cov neeg paub lossis tsis paub. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tsum mus rau qhov xwm txheej no los ntawm lwm sab. Qhia zaj dab neeg rau lwm tus, thiab hais kom koj tus menyuam qhia txog lawv cov kev xav txog nws thiab nws tus yam ntxwv. Raws li txoj cai, cov menyuam yaus to taub vim li cas qhov no yog txhua txoj kev npaj thiab feem ntau lees qhov lawv tau ua. Ib zaug ntxiv, yuav tsum muaj kev lees txais tag nrho ntawm qhov tseeb ntawm niam txiv thiab muaj kev hais kom meej ntxiv. Yog tias tus menyuam paub tseeb tias kev rau txim thiab kev tsim txom yuav zam lub txim rau nws, tom ntej no lwm zaus nws yuav tsis hais dab tsi thiab yuav ua ntau thiab ntau ntxiv rau hauv nws tus kheej. Tus menyuam yog tus tswvcuab ntawm tsev neeg, yog li nws ib txwm coj tus cwjpwm thiab tus cwjpwm los ntawm nws niam nws txiv. Yog tias qee yam tsis raug rau koj cov xeeb ntxwv, ces lub laj thawj nyob hauv niam txiv.
Raws li, yog tias nws coj lwm tus yam tsis tau nug txog, tom qab no tus qauv saws los ntawm kev coj cwj pwm yog qiv los ntawm niam txiv. Tej zaum lawv tau qhia txog qhov no rau lawv tsev neeg, thiab tus menyuam tuaj yeem hnov nws. Xws li tsev neeg, tig mus rau tus kws npliag siab, thiab vam txog nws txoj kev pab, yog "poob siab" vim tias lub hauv paus, nws hloov tawm, yog nyob hauv lawv. Muaj kev tiv thaiv kev mob hlwb - tsis kam lees, thiab lawv feem ntau tsis rov tshwm sim dua nrog tus kws tshaj lij. Nws tshwm sim vim yog kev ua txhaum ntawm niam txiv, tus me nyuam twb xeb tuag lawm. Qhov no yog vim nws raug rau luag thuam thiab rau txim tas li. Koj tsis tuaj yeem tiv ntawm no ntawm koj tus kheej. Koj yuav tsum tau hu rau tus kws kho mob hlwb lossis txawm tias tus kws kho hlwb, vim tias Qhov ua tau ntawm kev kho tseem yog khaws cia.
Los poob yog ib qho kev puas tsuaj txaus ntshai
Lwm qhov xwm txheej tseem dav thaum, piv txwv li, hauv kev sib tw, tus menyuam yaus poob thiab pib liam leej twg rau qhov no, tab sis tsis yog nws tus kheej. Cia rau nws tam sim no. Tab sis, qhov tso tawm ntawm chav tawm, ua rau tus menyuam saib nws tus kheej ntawm sab nraud, saib qhov laj thawj hauv nws tus kheej thiab nrhiav nws tus kheej qhov tsis raug. Tsis tas yuav lees nws, koj tsuas yog xav kom ncaj ncees rau koj tus kheej xwb thiab nws yuav tsum tau piav qhia. Tej zaum tom qab ntawd koj yuav pom cov kev hloov pauv hauv nws.
Koj yuav tsum ntseeg koj tus menyuam tias kev ua si yog ib txoj haujlwm thiab koj yuav tsum ua haujlwm hnyav kom yeej. Ua rau tus cwj pwm zoo li ntawd ntawm qhov kev ua si kom nws tsis txhob zoo siab. Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ua nws tus yam ntxwv, xws li tom cov neeg muaj txiaj ntsig hais tias: "Qhov tseem ceeb tsis yog kev yeej, tab sis kev koom tes." Koj yuav tsum nkag siab koj tus menyuam, txhawb thiab ntseeg tias cov xwm txheej zoo li no yog ib qho tshwm sim tas li. Ua kom nws paub tseeb tias koj xav tias nws mob thiab qhia nws qhov kev iab siab.
Hmoov tsis zoo, peb cov menyuam yaus kis mus rau sab hnub poob, uas yog tsom rau qhov tseeb tias ib tus neeg yuav tsum tau ua tus thawj coj. Vim tias qhov no, kev poob siab loj hlob hauv lawv lub neej. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb kom ua raws li tus cwj pwm zoo rau ob qho kev poob thiab yeej.
Peb lub luag haujlwm tseem ceeb yog txhawb nqa tus menyuam hauv txhua qhov xwm txheej thiab pab daws qhov teeb meem raug. Qhia koj cov kev paub thiab qhia rau peb seb koj pom txoj kev tawm li cas. Qhov tseem ceeb yog tias tus menyuam ntseeg nws niam nws txiv thiab tsis ntshai tham txog nws qhov ua tsis tiav.
