Nws tsis yog ib txwm muaj tshwm sim uas koj tus kheej tsev neeg yog qhov chaw ntsiag to uas koj tuaj yeem nkaum ntawm cov cua daj cua dub ntawm lub neej. Yog hais tias ib tug ntawm cov txij nkawm txawj ntxias lwm tus, ces tus thib ob cia li xav tau kev kawm tsis tau succumb mus rau provocations. Feem ntau, tus neeg dag ntxias coj tus cwj pwm no, nws xav tias nws ua txhaum, yog li nws yuav tsum ua rau muaj kev thuam uas ob leeg yuav liam, thiab tsis lees nws qhov txhaum.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Ib qho ntawm cov nyiam tshaj plaws manipulator cov tswv yim yog provocation. Siv nws, nws nrhiav kev los ua qhov tsis txaus ntseeg, uas yuav ua rau nws tuav txoj hauj lwm zoo dua. Ua siab ntev thiab nyob twj ywm unwaveringly. Hauv kev teb rau qhov npau taws, hais kom qhia qhov teeb meem thiab muab piv txwv ntawm qhov uas koj raug iab liam ntawm. Qhia meej thaum nws tshwm sim thiab nws tshwm sim. Cov ncauj lus kom ntxaws ntxaws yuav twb txo qhov kub ntawm qhov kub.
Kauj ruam 2
Ntau tus neeg dag ntxias nyiam ua raws li lub hauv paus ntsiab lus ntawm "Fool koj tus kheej" lossis "Saib ntawm koj tus kheej." Cov ntsiab lus no tau siv thaum nws tsim nyog yuav ua rau nws poob siab thiab hloov nws mus rau nws tus kheej, hauv kev tshawb nrhiav nws qhov kev txhaum. Qhov no ua rau qhov tseeb tias koj txav mus deb ntawm lub ntsiab, thawj lub ntsiab lus ntawm kev sib tham thiab pib nco txog thaum nws yog, ua kev zam thiab piav qhia koj cov kev ua. Sim tsis txhob xaiv qhov los ntawm lub ncauj lus, hais khov kho tias koj yuav tham txog qhov koj ua yuam kev tom qab, thiab tam sim no koj tab tom tos kom muaj kev piav qhia ntawm qhov teeb meem no.
Kauj ruam 3
Cov txheej txheem muaj zog rau kev dag ntxias yog qhov kev tawm tsam, uas yog qhia meej meej tsis ncaj ncees thiab txawm hais tias tsis txaus ntseeg. Tawm ntawm kev xav tsis thoob, koj tam sim ntawd pib paub yog vim li cas koj tus kws kho mob coj nws, thiab thaum nws tau tshwm sim. Ntawd yog nws, kawg - tam sim no qhov kev sib tham yog mob siab rau nrhiav kom paub tias qhov no tsis muaj tseeb, thiab koj tseem raug yuam kom ua kev zam txim. Xws li hauv rooj plaub dhau los, tswj koj tus kheej thiab sai li sai tau thaum koj hnov cov lus hloov pauv, tsis quav ntsej nws lossis cog lus tias yuav tham txog rooj plaub no tom qab. Nco ntsoov tias tom qab sib tham cov ncauj lus no yuav tsis tsa.
Kauj ruam 4
Qee zaum cov laj thawj ntawm kev npau taws yog kev tsim txom, uas tsuas yog tsis muaj leej twg muab pov tseg. Yog tias koj tus txij nkawm rov qab los tsev nyob rau hauv ib lub xeev, tsis txhob succumb mus rau provocation - tsis muaj tus yeej nyob rau hauv kev txaj muag. Siv cov txheej txheem nrov "puas hawv aikido". Rov qab cov kab lus kawg liam kawg, pom zoo nrog nws. Tej zaum nws yuav tsis ncaj ncees, tom qab ntawd koj tuaj yeem thov kev zam txim, tab sis lub sijhawm no koj txoj haujlwm yog zam kev muaj teeb meem hauv tsev neeg.
