Koj tuaj yeem xav tias pib ntawm kev kub ntxhov ntawm peb xyoos nyob rau 2, 5, thiab 3, 5 xyoos. Qhov no yog txiav txim siab los ntawm kev ywj pheej ntawm koj lub siab me. Tom qab tag nrho, lub laj thawj tseem ceeb rau kev hloov pauv ntawm tus me nyuam tus cwj pwm yog qhov nws pib kom pom meej nws tus kheej ua tus neeg cais, thiab tsis yog tus niam.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, sim saib qhov xwm txheej dhau los ntawm lub qhov muag ntawm menyuam yaus. Txog thaum ib pliag, nws tau yuav luag txhua tus ntawm nws niam psychologically. Cov menyuam yaus, ntawm chav kawm, tuaj yeem tshwm sim tus cwj pwm thiab ua txhaum qee zaus, tab sis thaum muaj teeb meem "kuv lossis niam" tshwm sim, feem ntau nws koom nrog nws niam lub tswv yim. Tab sis tam sim ntawd lub me ntsis pib nkag siab tias nws muaj peev xwm ua tau ntau yam ntawm nws tus kheej. Cov ntawv ceeb toom tias cov neeg laus tuaj yeem tau siv, sim ua raws li cov cwj pwm kev sib raug zoo uas nws pom hauv nws ib puag ncig. Thiab qhov tshwm sim ntawm cov kev xav no yog qhov tus me nyuam tawm tsam tiv thaiv nws tus kheej "kev ywj pheej" thiab kev ywj pheej.
Kauj ruam 2
Tsis txhob ua phem rau koj tus menyuam. Tus menyuam pom tias nws tseem nyob deb ntawm kev muaj peev xwm ua txhua yam ntawm nws tus kheej, thiab dua li, nws pheej xav tswj thiab saib xyuas ntawm cov laus. Tag nrho cov xwm txheej no ua rau muaj kev tawm tsam sab hauv-kev tawm tsam, uas cov kws npliag siab hu tias kev daws teebmeem thaum muaj peb xyoos. Thiab koj lub siab nkaus xwb ua rau teebmeem dhau.
Kauj ruam 3
Nco ntsoov tias yog qhov teeb meem tshwm sim nws tus kheej rau menyuam yaus heev, qhov no yog qhov qhia tias koj tus kheej dhau cai dhau cai lossis dhau ntawm nws. Thiab, ua ntej txhua yam, koj yuav tsum rov qab xav dua txog koj txoj kev xav ntawm tus menyuam. Cov yam ntxwv tseem ceeb ntawm kev kub ntxhov: negativism, tawv ncauj, ua mob, "Kuv tus kheej", kev tsis sib haum xeeb, kev hloov pauv ntawm qhov tseem ceeb, sib zog rau "lub zog." Txawm hais tias koj tus menyuam tau ua tag nrho cov paib no, qhov no tsis txhais tau tias yav tom ntej lawv yuav muaj kev vam meej thiab loj hlob. Nws tsuas yog xav tau kev paub dhau los, tab sis tau paub nrog cov cwj pwm zoo thiab cov tshuaj tiv thaiv. Tom qab ntawd txhua yam yuav dhau mus sai txaus.
Kauj ruam 4
Nrog cov cim qhia ntawm kev tsis lees paub, kev ua tawv ncauj, kev tawm tsam lub cev, txoj cai tseem ceeb yog sim kom tso tseg cov lus txib thiab lub siab. Muab lwm txoj hauv kev rau nws uas txaus siab rau neb ob leeg, lossis cia li tso txoj kev mloog thiab tso txoj kev xav tsis zoo. Tom qab ntawd, koj yuav pom tau ib hom lus uas sai. Nws yog qhov tsim nyog yuav tsum tau muab lub sijhawm rau tus menyuam tawm ntawm qhov xwm txheej tsis sib haum xeeb nrog lub meej mom. Yog lawm, yog koj xav, koj yuav kov yeej nws, vim hais tias cov rog tsis sib npaug. Tab sis rau txoj kev loj hlob tag nrho ntawm tus me nyuam tus yam ntxwv, nws yog qhov tsim nyog los ua rau nws xav tias nws lub tswv yim raug suav, thiab nws, tuaj yeem txiav txim siab qee qhov kev txiav txim siab.
Kauj ruam 5
Kev ua siab ntev ntawm niam txiv yog feem ntau tsis txaus rau qhov tshwm sim tas mus li "Kuv tus kheej". Tab sis nkag siab tias nws yog qhov tseem ceeb heev rau lub hnub nyoog peb xyoos kom paub ywj siab. Thiab txawm hais tias koj paub tias nws tus kheej yuav tsis mob siab rau, muab sijhawm rau nws los sim thiab ntseeg nws tus kheej.
Kauj Ruam 6
Yog hais tias tus menyuam tsis tu ncua tsim teeb meem tsis sib haum, sim ua kom nws lub hom phiaj tiav, qhov no yog kev sim ntawm kev muaj peev xwm los ntawm niam txiv. Ua kev nkag siab, tab sis ua siab tawv hauv kev txiav txim siab yog tias koj ntseeg siab rau qhov xav tau ntawm lawv. Piav rau tus mos ab tias yog dab tsi thiab vim li cas koj ua, ua siab tus thiab ua phooj ywg.
Kauj Ruam 7
Sim muab koj tus me nyuam ntau rau kev saib xyuas thiab kev hlub, kom nws tsis muaj qhov xav tau qhov no los ntawm "kev quab yuam", tab sis qhia kev ruaj khov uas nws xav tau tiag tiag. Kev tuav tes taw kuj tseem siv tau thaum tus menyuam sib zog ua lub zog hauv tsev neeg, tshwj xeeb yog cov niam txiv tuav tus menyuam ntau dhau, lossis yog lub cim ntawm khib.
