Qee lub sijhawm menyuam yaus qeeb heev. Koj muaj kev maj nrawm, thiab koj tus menyuam tso rau hauv kev xav, nyuam qhuav hnav khaub ncaws, los yog yws yws txog nws cov khoom, sim nrhiav qee yam. Koj tawm lus, ua kev chim siab, tab sis qhov ua kom hnyav dua qhov xwm txheej, tus menyuam qeeb qeeb nyob ib ncig ntawm lub tsev.
Muaj ntau qhov laj thawj rau tus menyuam txoj kev kawm qeeb:
1. Nov yog qhov qhia txog me nyuam txoj kev npau taws.
2. Cov menyuam yaus txog 11-12 xyoos tsis muaj lub sijhawm paub meej txog lub sijhawm, yog li ntawd lawv tsis nkag siab qhov txhais tau tias yuav qeeb thiab ncav sijhawm.
3. Nov yog qhov cov menyuam yaus teb raws li tus qauv tswj fwm cov niam txiv.
4. Ua li no, qee tus menyuam yoog raws qhov xwm txheej ua rau muaj kev tsis xis nyob. Piv txwv li, thaum, tom qab nws sib faib nrog nws niam thiab txiv, menyuam yuav tsum mus rau tus kws qhia tsis tseeb lossis tus kws qhia ntawv.
Kuv yuav ua li cas?
- Tshawb xyuas qhov teeb meem tshwm sim thiab nkag siab qhov tsim nyog ua rau koj tus menyuam poob qis, tom qab ntawv nws yuav yooj yim rau koj los nrhiav qhov kev daws teeb meem. Tsis txhob maj los yog hais lus phem.
- Khib yog qhov tshwj xeeb tshaj yog tsis xav thaum sawv ntxov. Sawv ntxov. Cia thaum sawv ntxov npaj dhau mus. Tus yuam sij rau txoj kev vam meej yog koj txoj kev xav zoo, thaum cov menyuam yaus yuav mloog lus dua. Hais dab tsi txaus luag.
- Cheer koj tus menyuam. Nws paub tias cov menyuam yaus xav tau niam txiv kev hlub thaum lawv tsawg kawg nkaus tsim nyog nws.
- Yog tias koj feem ntau zoo li tus thawj coj ntawm pawg tub rog, muab kev txiav txim thiab xav tau lawv ua tiav sai, tom qab ntawd xav: koj tabtom qhia koj tus menyuam li cas rau lub sijhawm ntawd? Kev tsis mloog lus? Koj puas xav tias nws yuav muaj txiaj ntsig zoo rau nws yav tom ntej?
- Koj tsis txhob muab pov tseg thiab xaj kom menyuam. Cia nws ntsib cov kev mob tshwm sim ntawm nws qeeb. Yuav lig rau cov chav kawm hauv tsev kawm ntawv - cia nws txais lus ntawm tus kws qhia ntawv. Yog tias nws tsis caij lub npav, nws yuav raug tawm mus yam tsis muaj kev ncig xyuas zoo.
- Thaum tus menyuam nws tus kheej paub tias nws tuaj lig, tsis txhob maj pab nws. Sympathize: "Yog lawm, nws yog tus hlub, ntawm chav kawm, tab sis kuv kuj muaj ntau yam yuav tsum tau thiab."
- Tsis txhob ua tho txawv. Sim tsis txhob qhuab qhia. Zoo dua teeb nws zoo. Hais tias: "Kuv hlub koj, mus txog rau thaum yav tsaus ntuj." Xav koj ib hnub zoo.
Yog tias koj pom qhov hloov tus cwj pwm zoo, nco ntsoov qhia koj tus menyuam txog nws: “Koj tau npaj tuaj kawm ntawv nrawm hnub no! Kuv zoo siab heev "," Koj twb ua koj cov ntawv ua tom tsev? Ua tau zoo heev”. Qhov no yuav txhawb koj tus me nyuam thiab ntxiv dag zog rau txoj kev xav coj ua ib qho.
