Hysterics hauv cov menyuam yaus yog qhov tshwm sim heev, tsis txaus ntshai heev. Nws cov phiaj xwm sab nraud ua rau muaj kev chim siab ntawm lwm tus, thiab rau tus kheej li cas, kua muag thiab quaj qw tuaj yeem ua rau muaj kev cuam tshuam ntawm cov hlab hlwb tsis zoo. Vim li ntawd nws thiaj tseem ceeb uas yuav tau nres ib tug menyuam qhov kom ua yeeb yam raws sijhawm. Thiab qhov no tuaj yeem ua tiav los ntawm kev mus rau ib qho ntawm cov qauv qhia …
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Kauj ruam 1
Thaum koj tus menyuam ntxhov siab, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws tsis yog zoo li nws thiab tsis poob rau hauv lub xeev qub. Yog lawm, koj yuav poob siab, tshwj xeeb yog tias tus me nyuam cuam lub tantrum hauv qhov chaw muaj neeg coob coob: hauv khw, ntawm txoj kev, thiab lwm yam. Tsis txhob rov ua qhov tsis zoo ntawm ntau leej niam: tsis txhob yaum thiab tsis ua siab rau tus neeg quaj thiab qw. Sim coj nws mus rau lub neej tam sim ntawd.
Kauj ruam 2
Yog tias tus neeg npau taws tshwm sim hauv qhov chaw muaj neeg coob coob, yuav kom tsis txhob mloog cov lus "muaj txiaj ntsig" ntawm lwm tus, sim coj tus menyuam mus rau sab uas tsis muaj leej twg pom koj, lossis txawm coj nws tawm ntawm chav.
Kauj ruam 3
Tom qab koj nyob ib leeg nrog tus menyuam, sim hloov nws txoj kev mloog rau "tus neeg phem" uas tau cheb tus menyuam, tus miv uas mus kev deb, thiab lwm yam.
Tsis pab? Tom qab ntawv siv tus qauv hauv qab no: nco ntsoov nws (lossis nws tus neeg nyiam) thiab tham txog nws. Yog tias qhov no tsis pab, tom qab ntawd maj ceev nrawm nqa tus menyuam mus tsev mus ntxuav, saib duab kos duab, ua si nrog cov khoom ua si uas koj nyiam.
Kauj ruam 4
Yog tias muaj kev kub ntxhov nyob rau hauv koj lub tsev, ces yog ib txoj kev siv tau zoo, txawm tias kev coj ua tsis zoo, yuav ua rau tus menyuam nyob hauv chav kaw thiab kom nws “qw”. Lwm txoj kev daws teeb meem softer kuj tseem pab: puag tus me nyuam rau koj thiab tham nrog nws ntsiag to ntawm cov ncauj lus tsis paub tawm. Cov menyuam yaus yuav zoo siab, thiab, tej zaum, qhov no yuav txo tsawg tus tantrums yav tom ntej.
Kauj ruam 5
Tsis txhob sim kom tsis txhob qw thiab quaj los ntawm hom kab mob: txhais tias tsis muaj qhov yuav tsum koj ntaus, qw thiab thawb tus menyuam. Qhov no yuav tsuas hem nws, thiab tus menyuam tuaj yeem thim nws tus kheej mus ntev. Ntseeg kuv, yog tias me nyuam yaus quaj, nws yog qhov nyuaj rau nws, thiab kev tsim txom tus mob no tsawg kawg yog tsis paub cai.
Kauj Ruam 6
Txhawj li uas koj xav, sim hais lus rau koj tus menyuam maj mam thiab maj mam. Piav qhia rau nws tias nws tus cwj pwm tsis zoo, thiab yog tias nws mob siab nws tus menyuam xav ua kom tau qee yam, nws yuav tuaj rau nws lub hom phiaj sai dua yog tias nws ua kua muag poob thiab hais kom koj "zoo li tib neeg".
