Hauv kev sib txuas lus nrog peb cov menyuam, qee zaum peb ua yuam kev, tsis xav tias dhau sijhawm lawv sib sau ntau ntxiv, thiab tus menyuam tuaj yeem txav deb ntawm peb. Yuav ua li cas koj thiaj zam dhau qhov no?
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Siv sijhawm rau koj tus menyuam, tseg tej yam cia yog nws tuaj qhia ib yam rau koj. Mloog koj tus menyuam hais, koj yuav tsum tig rau nws, nce ib theem nrog nws lossis zaum nrog nws. Yog tias nws chim siab txog ib yam dab tsi, ces zaum nws ntawm nws lub hauv caug lossis tuav nws txhais tes. Koj tus menyuam yuav tsum xav tias koj txaus siab txog lawv zaj dab neeg.
Kauj ruam 2
Yog tias tus mos ab tham txog kev tu siab lossis ntshai, koj yuav tsum xyuam xim rau qhov no. Los ntawm koj cov lus "qhov no yog qhov tsis raug cai, khaws kev ua si" kev ntshai lossis kev tu siab yuav tsis ploj ntawm nws, nws yuav nyob ib leeg nrog qhov kev xav no, yuav nkag siab tias qee yam tsis raug rau nws, yuav pib txaj muag rau nws thiab yuav "kaw" Cov. Qhia tawm nws txoj kev xav, hais ib yam dab tsi zoo li no: "Tam sim no koj ntshai los yog tu siab - qhov no yog qhov qub, Kuv tseem hnov nws ntawm koj lub hnub nyoog …".
Kauj ruam 3
Tsis txhob qhuab qhia, ntuas, thuam, ceeb toom, thiab liam. Feem ntau, qhov no tsis ua haujlwm rau menyuam yaus. Lawv xav tias koj lub siab, xav tsis thoob, ua txhaum, tsis hwm rau kev ywj pheej. Txoj hauj lwm ntawm niam txiv, niam txiv "los ntawm saud" ua rau me nyuam npau taws, nws yuav tsis muaj lub siab xav ua ib yam dab tsi hlo li. Thiab tseem ceeb tshaj, tus me nyuam yuav muaj kev hwm tus kheej qis.
Kauj ruam 4
Koj puas xav kom koj tus menyuam mloog koj? Tom qab ntawd qhia nws txog koj txoj kev xav thiab kev paub dhau los. Hais lus ntawm thawj tus neeg, hais txog koj tus kheej, tsis yog hais txog tus menyuam thiab nws tus cwj pwm. Piv txwv li: "Kuv ntxub nws yog tias chav pw tsis zoo." Cov lus ntawd tso cai rau peb qhia qhov kev xav tsis zoo nyob rau hauv ib txoj kev uas tsis hais lus phem rau tus menyuam.
Kauj ruam 5
Cov kev cai, kev xav tau, kev txwv thiab kev txwv tsis pub muaj nyob hauv tsev neeg ntawm niam txiv yuav tsum muaj kev pom zoo. Tus menyuam yuav tsum piav qhia lawv, tab sis yuav tsum tsis txhob muaj ntau ntawm lawv. Txav deb ntawm kev tswj hwm tus niam txiv xaiv, xav txog koj tus menyuam qhov kev xav, nyiam thiab xav tau, tsis txhob hnov qab, ntawm koj tus kheej.
