Tsis ntev los sis tom qab, tsuas yog tus me nyuam hauv tsev neeg tig mus rau niam txiv nrog kev thov "muab" rau nws ua tij / nus / viv ncaus … Dab tsi niam txiv yuav tsum ua uas tau txiav txim siab ruaj khov tias lawv tsev neeg yuav muaj ib tug menyuam. Li cas los piav qhov no rau tus txiv neej me me?
Ua ntej tshaj, nws yog qhov yuav tsum tau tham nrog tus menyuam yaus ntawm hom lus uas nkag siab tau rau nws, piav hauv cov lus uas nws nkag siab tias yog vim li cas thiab vim li cas thiaj ua rau tus menyuam thib ob tsis tuaj yeem tshwm sim hauv tsev neeg. Tsis tas yuav sau tus menyuam lub taub hau nrog kev kho mob, nyiaj txiag thiab lwm yam lus. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kev qhia rau tus menyuam tias qhov tsis muaj ib qho nus / kwv lossis muam / viv ncaus tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi rau nws. Nws yog ib qho tsim nyog yuav tsum tau piav qhia rau tus menyuam tias niam thiab txiv hlub nws heev thiab nws yuav hlub nws tas mus li, tsis hais dab tsi.
Qhov thib ob, nws yog qhov tsim nyog kom kos tus me nyuam lub siab rau qhov zoo uas nws muaj tam sim no, thaum nws yog tib tug menyuam hauv tsev neeg: cov khoom ua si zoo tshaj plaws - tsuas yog rau nws, cov khoom qab zib tshaj plaws - tsuas yog rau nws, cov khaub ncaws zoo nkauj tshaj plaws thiab zam. - ib zaug ntxiv rau nws! Txhua qhov zoo tshaj plaws yog rau nws! Tab sis! Tsis tas yuav hais dab tsi ntxiv, tsis tas yuav tsum nthuav tawm cov ncauj lus no tas li, txwv tsis pub tus me nyuam yuav pib tswj hwm nws. Thiab indulging nyob rau hauv tag nrho lawv me ntsis "kev zoo siab", cov niam txiv khiav txoj kev pheej hmoo ntawm nce ib tug spoiled egoist.
Thiab qhov thib peb, koj yuav tsum hlub tus menyuam tiag tiag, thiab tsis yog hais ntawm ncauj xwb, tab sis kuj yuav tsum qhia koj txoj kev hlub, los ua kom pom nws. Ua si nrog koj tus menyuam ntau dua, muaj tswv yim, nyeem ntawv, taug kev qhov nws nyiam taug kev, muab sijhawm rau tus menyuam nyob hauv lub sijhawm ntau dua nrog lwm tus menyuam. Thiab, tej zaum, tom qab ntawv koj tus menyuam yuav tsis mob siab rau koj ntau zaus nrog kev thov ntawm ib tug kwvtij lossis nkauj muam.
