Cov menyuam yaus, pib txij li ob xyoos, sim rau kev ywj pheej. Hauv kev qhia, txawm tias thawj qhov teebmeem ntawm tus menyuam yaus hu ua qhov teebmeem ntawm kev ywj pheej. "Kuv kuv tus kheej!" - tus me nyuam tawv ncauj xav, thiab qee zaus kuj tsis txaus nws niam nws txiv thiab txhua tus neeg nyob ib puag ncig nws nrog nws lub siab tawv. Thiab daim duab sib txawv ntawm cov niam txiv ntawm cov tub ntxhais hluas - cov niam thiab cov txiv no yuav zoo siab yog tias lawv cov menyuam muaj kev ywj pheej ntau, tab sis tsuas yog cov me nyuam tsis xav ua haujlwm hauv tsev lawv tus kheej, thiab feem ntau lawv tsis xav tau tsev kawm ntawv cov haujlwm. Vim li cas kev xav kom muaj kev ywj pheej ploj mus nyob hauv ob peb xyoos? Qhov no feem ntau vim yog tim niam thiab txiv lub txim. Kev siv zug yuav tsum ua txhua yam kom paub tseeb tias tus me nyuam muaj kev ywj pheej. Thiab peb yuav tsum coj raws li hauv qab no.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Yog tias koj tus menyuam xav tau kev pab koj, cia nws pab. Tom qab ntawd cia nws yuav tsum ntxuav hauv pem teb thiab tais diav tom qab nws. Tab sis los ntawm kev cia cov menyuam yaus koom nrog kev laus, koj tsis yog tsuas yog txhawb nqa nws txoj kev loj hlob, tab sis kuj tsis faus kev tsis pom zoo hauv nws. Yog tias tus menyuam tsis kam 10-20 zaus, nws yuav tsis thov koom nrog tu lub tsev ntxiv rau 21 zaug. Ntxiv mus, nws yuav luag tsis tuaj yeem koom nrog nws hauv kev ua haujlwm hauv tsev. Yog li, yog koj xav kom koj cov menyuam thaum lawv tseem yog tub hluas ntxhais hluas pab ua noj ua haus, ntxuav tej plag tsev thiab tais diav, plua plav thiab ntxhua khaub ncaws, koj yuav tsum tau koom nrog lawv ua haujlwm hauv tsev txij thaum yau los.
Kauj ruam 2
Raws li Vygotsky txoj kev xav, uas tau paub tseeb los ntawm kev tshawb fawb tau ntau xyoo, tus menyuam tsuas kawm yam nws ua nrog nws niam nws txiv. Tus menyuam tsis muaj peev xwm tsim kom tau txais kev paub los ntawm nws tus kheej. Thaum xub thawj nws ua ib yam dab tsi nrog cov neeg laus, tom qab ntawd nws kawm ua nws tus kheej. Txhawm rau qhia me nyuam ib yam dab tsi, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb kom caw nws ua nws ua ke ua ntej, thiab tom qab ntawd maj mam nqis mus.
Kauj ruam 3
Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb heev uas yuav tau xaiv lub sijhawm zoo kom thiaj li tso cai rau tus menyuam ua qee yam ntawm nws tus kheej. Muaj ob qho txaus ntshai - ua nws dhau thaum ntxov thiab, hloov pauv, lig dhau lawm. Ntawd yog, thaum tus me nyuam tseem tsis tau npaj siab los daws nws tus kheej, lossis thaum nws twb npaj tau ntev ntev lawm, tab sis lawv tsis cia siab rau nws, lub sijhawm ploj mus, thiab tus me nyuam txoj kev xav rau kev ywj pheej kuj ploj mus. Nws yog qhov tseem ceeb rau cov neeg laus kom maj mam ua kom tsis txhob ua yuam kev. Nws tsis yog yuav tsum tau txo qis tswj tam sim ntawd, tab sis maj mam.
Kauj ruam 4
Yog tias tus menyuam yaus tsis khoom nrog qee qhov kev lag luam thiab tsis thov kev pab (txawm tias qee yam tsis ua haujlwm rau nws), tsis tas yuav cuam tshuam nws. Nrog koj txoj kev tsis cuam tshuam, koj zoo li hais: "Kuv ntseeg tias koj yuav ua tiav!" Tab sis yog tias tus me nyuam thov kev pab, koj yuav tsum tuaj rau txoj kev cawm. Tab sis tsis tshem tus menyuam tawm ntawm rooj plaub, tab sis nrog cov lus thov: "Los ua ke!"
Kauj ruam 5
Nws yog lub npe zoo hais tias tus uas tsis ua dab tsi tsis yuam kev. Thiab tus menyuam, ntawm chav kawm, ua yuam kev ntau dua ib zaug. Yog tias qee yam tsis ua haujlwm, menyuam yaus yuav tsum npau taws. Thiab lawv tau dhau los ua neeg chim thiab tsis kam ua ntxiv yog tias lawv raug thuam thiab thuam los ntawm cov neeg laus. Qhov no tsis txhais tau tias tus menyuam tsis tas yuav taw tes yuam kev. Tab sis txhua yam yuav tsum muaj nws lub sijhawm. Ua ntej, kev ua yuam kev yuav tsum tau tham nrog qhov chaw kom zoo, thiab tsis yog lub sijhawm thaum qee yam tsis ua haujlwm. Peb tuaj yeem hais, hauv qhov tsis pom kev. Thib ob, kev sib tham yuav tsum mus los ntawm qhov pom ntawm qhov "yam twg muaj txiaj ntsig los ntawm dab tsi tshwm sim thiab yuav ua li cas rau lwm zaus." Thiab qhov thib peb, tau cem tus menyuam yaus ib zaug, tom qab ntawd nws yuav tsum raug qhuas txog tsib zaug. Tsis yog tam sim, sai li sai tau nws tsim nyog qhuas. Tab sis kom txog rau qhov sib piv tsib-rau-ib, yuav tsum tsis muaj kev thuam ntxiv.
Kauj Ruam 6
Nyob hauv tsev, koj tuaj yeem tsim lub rooj tshwj xeeb (thiab kos nws nrog tus menyuam) nrog peb kab ntawv. Hauv thawj kem, sau tag nrho txhua yam uas tus me nyuam muaj peev xwm ua tau ntawm lawv tus kheej. Hauv seem ob, cia kom muaj cov npe yam khoom uas tus menyuam muaj peev xwm ua nws tus kheej. Hauv kem peb, sau qhov tus menyuam tsuas ua tau nrog tus neeg laus xwb. Txheeb xyuas cov lus no nrog cov menyuam ib ntus thiab sib tham txog qhov kis twg tuaj yeem hloov mus los ntawm ib kab ntawv rau ib kab tau, thiab uas tseem tsis tau.
