Kev coj cwj pwm ntawm menyuam yaus tsuas yog ua raws li koj tus yam ntxwv rau lawv thiab yam ntxwv koj coj yam ntxwv zoo. Yog tias koj tus menyuam ncig ua si thiab coj tsis zoo, koj yuav tau xav qhov koj tau ua tsis yog lawm. Txawm hais tias ib tus neeg laus, nws tus cwj pwm tseem yuav yog qhov kev rau txim ntawm yam nws pom thaum nws tseem yog menyuam yaus. Muaj qee txoj cai kev cai golden uas niam txiv yuav tsum paub.
Cov menyuam yaus yuav tsum tau raug tsa hauv lub tsev neeg sov, yog tias me nyuam pom kev ua phem, nws tus kheej yuav txhoj puab heev. Cov menyuam yaus no feem ntau sib ntaus. Qhov no kuj suav nrog kev thuam. Yog koj pheej thuam koj tus me nyuam, feem ntau yuav tshwm sim, koj yuav loj hlob ib tus neeg nyiam txiav txim rau txhua tus.
Koj tsis tuaj yeem ua kev lom zem ntawm koj tus menyuam, los ntawm qhov no koj tsim muaj qhov ua tsis tau zoo hauv nws. Thoob plaws hauv nws lub neej nws yuav xav zoo li ib qho kev ua tsis tiav thiab yuav loj hlob ntawm ntsiag to thiab "txom nyem". Cov neeg zoo li no, raws li txoj cai, tsis ntseeg lawv tus kheej lub zog. Cov menyuam yaus ib txwm xav tau kev txhawb nqa, tom qab ntawd koj yuav qhia lawv rau lawv txoj kev ntseeg ntawm koj tus kheej.
Tsis txhob thuam koj tus menyuam ntawm lwm tus! Yog koj ua li no, nws yuav ua nws lub neej zoo li ntawd, xam tias nws yog tus ua txhaum rau txhua yam kev txhaum ntawm noob neej.
Yog tias me nyuam xav tias nws xav tau los ntawm ib tug neeg, ces tus me nyuam nws tus kheej yeej yuav nrhiav kev hlub hauv nws lub neej. Ntawm no koj tsis tas yuav sim sim ua dab tsi ntawm tus menyuam, nws yog qhov txaus tsuas yog qhib qhov twg los qhia koj txoj kev xav rau nws.
Sim txwv tsis pub tus me nyuam tsawg dua. Los sis, txwv tsis pub siv yog. Koj tsis tas yuav hais nws yam kom nruj: "Txhob khiav ntawm kuv mus", nws zoo dua yog tias: "thov tom qab." Qhov no yuav tsis tsuas yog muaj cov txiaj ntsig zoo rau kev kawm, tab sis nws kuj tseem yuav ua tau haujlwm ntau dua. Nov yog qhov me nyuam lub hlwb ua haujlwm. Nws tsis lees paub txog qhov khoom ntawd "tsis yog".
Yog lawm, thaum koj tus menyuam tseem me, koj, zoo li tsis muaj leej twg paub txog, uas yuav zoo rau nws. Nws tus kheej tseem tsis tuaj yeem ntsuas qhov xwm txheej kom raug thiab ua qhov yog, tab sis qee zaum tseem mloog nws. Tom qab tag nrho, yog tias koj ib txwm txiav txim siab txhua yam rau nws, nws yuav tau siv nws sai heev. Thiab yav tom ntej, nws yuav loj hlob los ua tus neeg vam khom, vam khom lwm tus.
Thiab, tej zaum, qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws. Tham nrog koj tus menyuam! Tsis yog ib qhov kev kawm paub ua si, tsis yog ib daim duab tas luav yuav yog qhov tseem ceeb rau nws thiab nws txoj kev txhim kho raws li kev sib txuas lus nyob. Nws yog qhov tseeb tias koj yuav tsis tau siv sijhawm nyob nrog nws nyob ib ncig ntawm ib teev, tab sis sim mob siab rau lub sijhawm ntau ntxiv los sib txuas lus nrog nws.
Thiab kawg txoj cai muaj txiaj ntsig hauv kev tu menyuam yaus - tsis txhob cem nws rau qhov ua yuam kev. Tsis txhob cem nws tam sim ntawd, nws yog qhov zoo dua los piav qhia rau nws li cas nws yog qhov tsim nyog los ua qhov yog. Nco ntsoov, tib neeg kawm los ntawm kev ua yuam kev, thiab koj tus me txiv neej tsis muaj kev zam.
