Cov niam txiv ntawm cov menyuam tau saib xyuas nws txoj kev loj hlob. Qee tus neeg sau txhua yam hais txog tus menyuam nyob rau hauv "niam txiv chaw sau npe tshwj xeeb", sib txuas lus nrog tus kws kho menyuam yaus, kws kho mob hlwb thiab lwm tus kws tshaj lij. Thiab yog hais tias tam sim ntawd ceev faj niam thiab txiv pom "qhov tsis ua tiav" hauv kev txhim kho lawv cov menyuam, lawv tam sim ntawd pib kho nws. Ib qho ntawm cov teeb meem kev loj hlob zoo tshaj plaws rau cov menyuam yaus yog kev nthuav dav kev hais lus.
Feem ntau, cov niam txiv pib lub suab nrov thaum tus menyuam tsis hais qee cov lus, cov kab lus lossis txawm hais tias yog kab lus ntev ntev. Cov kws kho mob me nyuam yaus hais tias ib tug me nyuam yuav tsum tshaj tawm 15 lo lus nyob rau ib xyoos. Qhov no suav nrog cov lus yooj yim xws li "niam", "txiv", "muab", "na", "ntawm no" thiab lwm yam. Txawm li cas los xij, txoj kev loj hlob ntawm txhua tus menyuam yog tus neeg thiaj li hais tias koj tus menyuam tuaj yeem hais lus sib txawv, hla lub sijhawm "txheej thaum ub".
Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog los txiav txim siab txoj kab uas koj xav tau pib txhawj xeeb thiab suab lub tswb nrov. Cov kws kho hais lus txhawb nqa tias lub hnub nyoog ciam teb, thaum nws muaj peev xwm txiav txim siab ncua sijhawm hauv kev hais lus, tsis ntxov dua peb xyoos. Yog li ntawd, yog tias nyob rau ib xyoos thiab ib nrab koj tus menyuam tsis muaj peev xwm los tshaj tawm cov kab lus uas yooj yim tshaj plaws, es nws yog qhov tshwj xeeb ntawm nws txoj kev loj hlob, uas yog qhov tsis muaj kev txuas nrog kev hloov pauv hauv thaj chaw no.
Yog lawm, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb ntawm no kom paub tseeb tias tag nrho lwm yam kev qhia ntawm kev loj hlob yog qhov qub. Nco ntsoov tias koj tus me nyuam tuaj yeem hnov thiab nkag siab zoo. Qhov no tuaj yeem ua tiav siv cov twj tshwj xeeb. Feem ntau, qhov txheej txheem no tau ua rau cov menyuam mos hauv tsev kho mob. Yog tias tus menyuam lub pob ntseg tsis hnov lus zoo, nws txhais tau tias nws qhov kev loj hlob zoo mus raws nws lub hnub nyoog. Tsis tas li ntawd, nyob twj ywm yog tias koj hnov tias tus menyuam hais "nws" hom lus.
Hauv qhov no, saib cov lus ntawm koj tus menyuam. Yog tias txhua hli cov lus tib neeg tau ntxiv rau nws cov "tsis nkag siab" cov lus, tom qab ntawd txhua yam nyob hauv kev txiav txim. Tab sis yog tias qhov kev muaj zog no tsis tuaj, tom qab ntawd muaj qhov laj thawj kom nrhiav tswv yim los ntawm cov kws tshaj lij. Tej zaum, ntawm kev tshuaj xyuas, nws yuav tshem koj qhov kev ntshai tsis muaj qab hau lossis hais kom muaj kev cob qhia zoo thiab kev tawm dag zog kom tsim kho lub tshuab hais lus.
Txhua leej txhua tus paub hais tias rau txoj kev txhim kho ntawm kev hais lus nws yog qhov tsim nyog los cuam tshuam nrog tus menyuam "phau ntawv" cov haujlwm. Hauv lwm lo lus, txoj kev txhim kho kev tsav tsheb zoo yog qhov tseem ceeb heev. Qhov tseeb yog tias ntawm peb tus ntiv tes muaj lub paj taub txoj kev xav uas yog qhov tseeb thiab hais lus zoo. Yog li ntawd, cov duab puab, kos duab, cais tawm ntawm cov groats, khi cov hlua khau, ua txhua yam uas yuav coj cov chaw ntawm lub cev no mus ua haujlwm.
Ntxiv thiab, tham nrog koj tus menyuam kom ntau li ntau tau. Tawm tswv yim rau koj thiab koj cov yeeb yam, sib tham txog cov phiaj xwm rau hnub, qhia dab neeg, hais cov nkauj. Yog li nws yuav yooj yim dua rau tus menyuam yaus kom pom cov tib neeg hais lus thiab txais nws ua qhov tseem ceeb. Koj yuav tsum maj mam hais lus kom meej, meej thiab yooj yim. Thiab tsis txhob txhawj xeeb thiab tsis txhob txhawj xeeb rau tus menyuam ua ntej tus kws tshaj lij yuav qhia koj txog nws.
