Kev tu menyuam yog ib txoj haujlwm nyuaj, muaj lub luag haujlwm thiab muaj teebmeem ntau. Tsis yog txhua tus menyuam xav ua qhov no lossis qhov ntawd, thiab niam txiv yuav tsum los nrog txhawb nqa txhua lub sijhawm. Lawm, lub hom phiaj ntawm tus me nyuam ncaj qha nyob ntawm seb qhov raug ntsuas qhov xav raug yog li cas.
Koj yuav tsis txhawb koj tus menyuam li cas
Yog lawm, tus menyuam yuav tsum muaj nyiaj hnab tshos; pib thaum muaj hnub nyoog 5-6 xyoo, tus menyuam yuav tsum muaj peev xwm tswj xyuas nyiaj txiag tau qhov nyiaj tsawg. Tab sis, tsis muaj qhov xwm txheej twg yog qhov koj yuav tsum them tus menyuam cov nyiaj rau cov cim, kev nyiam huv, tus cwj pwm zoo, thiab lwm yam, txwv tsis pub yav tom ntej tus menyuam yuav tsis ua kauj ruam yam tsis muaj nyiaj. Tab sis kom them rau kev taug kev ntawm tus neeg nyob ze tus aub, txiav nyom, saib xyuas lwm tus menyuam tus menyuam yog qhov tsim nyog, uas yog, rau cov khoom uas tsis suav tias yog ib qho zoo tib yam thiab hauv tsev.
Yog hais tias ib tug me nyuam tsis kawm kawm zoo, seev cev, ua paj ntaub, thiab lwm yam, tsis muaj ib qho xwm txheej twg yuav tsum Tanya hais qhov no, Sasha Seryozha paub yuav ua li cas thiaj zoo dua. Qhov tshwm sim yuav yog tias tus me nyuam pib ua txhua yam dhau los, txawm tias nws yuav phem dua, nws tus kheej kev ntseeg yuav txo qis heev.
Txawm li cas los xij tus menyuam yuav tsum tau hais cov lus hauv qab no: "Kuv tsis xav txuas lus nrog koj kom txog thaum koj ntxuav tu, lossis kawm coj cwj pwm, lossis kawm cov lus qhia, lossis kho qhov tsis raug". Thaum xub thawj, nws ua haujlwm, tab sis tom qab tus menyuam tuaj yeem tsis kam nrog niam txiv sib tham - tus kws thawb dub.
Tsis ib txwm muaj qhov tsis txaus ntseeg yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm cov kev kawm tsis paub lossis cov khoom siv tsis zoo kawm. Muaj tej xwm txheej uas tus me nyuam tsis meej pem, tsis sib haum nrog tus kws qhia ntawv, pom nws tus kheej hauv cov teeb meem tsis sib haum, thiab ntau yam ntxiv. Kev rau txim rau tus lej tsis zoo los ntawm qhov tsis ua rau tus menyuam saib TV, mus saib mauv vim lossis mus saib, qee hom xwm txheej lossis hnub so yuav ua rau tus menyuam muaj kev txhaum ntau. Ua ntej yuav ntsuas cov kev ntsuas hnyav, nws yog qhov tsim nyog kom nkag siab tias qib kawm tsis zoo yog qhov tshwm sim ntawm cov kev qhia tsis kawm.
Piv txwv li, tus menyuam tsis kawm zoo heev lossis tsis yog tus thawj coj hauv qee pab pawg lossis pawg, thiab cov niam txiv, xav txhawb tus menyuam, hais tias: yog koj ua tiav peb lub hlis, koj yuav tau txais ib lub ntsiav tshuaj, smartphone, tshuab ntaus ntawv, uas yog, dab tsi cov me nyuam yaus npau suav ntawm. Xws li cov lus cog tseg tsuas yog tsim kev ntxhov siab tsis tsim nyog, tus menyuam muaj kev txhawj xeeb heev yog tias nws ua tsis tiav cov txiaj ntsig uas xav tau, thiab qhov xwm txheej tig rov qab los.
Thiab tseem, qhov no yog koj tus menyuam, thiab nws yuav tsis tso koj tseg los ua koj tus kheej, nrog rau cov qhab nia zoo, lossis cov qhab nia tsis zoo, nrog rau kev coj zoo thiab tsis ntau. Yog lawm, koj yuav tsum tau qhia thiab txhawb koj tus menyuam, tab sis koj yuav tsum tsis txhob tso tag nrho koj cov kev xav ua yam tsis tau ua rau nws, ua rau tus menyuam ua ib qho dab tsi ntawm tus tub ntxhais kawm, kws ua yeeb yam thiab tus neeg ncaws pob.