Kev tu me nyuam tsis yog ib txoj haujlwm yooj yim uas nws zoo nkaus li sab nraud. Ib tug menyuam yuav tsum tsis yog muaj kev hlub thiab saib xyuas nkaus xwb, tabsis yuav tsum coj nws thiab. Ib tug niam txiv twg xav kom menyuam mloog lus. Muaj qee txoj cai tseem ceeb rau kev tu menyuam mloog lus.
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Kauj ruam 1
Tsis txhob ua siab ntev rau koj tus menyuam los ntawm kev hais txog nws lub hnub nyoog. Nov yog qhov tseeb tshwj xeeb rau cov niam txiv uas muaj menyuam ntau. Yog tias tus yau tshaj coj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo rau lwm tus, nws tsis muaj teeb meem tias nws yog tus me tshaj hauv tsev neeg. Lub luag haujlwm ntawm lawv cov yeeb yam thiab kev ua yuav tsum qhia rau hauv tus menyuam sai li sai tau.
Kauj ruam 2
Tsis txhob pam koj tus menyuam ntau dhau, tshwj xeeb yog tias nws tsuas yog ib leeg hauv tsev neeg. Yog tias nws tau txais qhov nws xav tau txhua lub sijhawm, thiab txawm tias qhov zoo tshaj plaws, tsis ntev nws yuav dhau los ua tus qauv rau nws. Ntawm qhov kev poob qis me ntsis ua raws li nws qhov yuav tsum tau ua, nws yuav pib pib nyooj. Tug mivnyuas kws poob rua suavdlawg yuav noog tsi tau. Nws kub siab rau nws tus kheej heev. Lub sijhawm no, tsis muaj leej twg txwv ib ntus dhau ib zaug kom ua rau tus me nyuam xav tsis thoob thaum nws yuav khoom qab zib los yog khoom ua si.
Kauj ruam 3
Qhia koj tus menyuam kom nkag siab koj, kom nkag mus hauv koj txoj haujlwm. Ib tus menyuam muaj hnub nyoog peb xyoos tuaj yeem piav qhia nyob rau hauv txoj hauv kev uas siv tau, piv txwv li, yog koj tsis muaj nyiaj nrog koj, ces koj tsis tuaj yeem yuav nws khaub noom lossis khoom ua si, txawm nws yuav muaj zog npaum li cas los xij. Nco ntsoov, tus menyuam yaus tsis tuaj yeem tswj nws lub siab zoo li tus neeg laus. Yog li ntawd, yog tias nws tau quaj, tos lub sijhawm ua kom mob siab, thiab tom qab ntawv maj mam nrog nws tham. Tsis kam yuav lwm txoj kev tawm tsam, nco ntsoov tias koj qhov kev tsis kam yuav tsum ruaj thiab unquestioning.
Kauj ruam 4
Tham nrog koj tus menyuam txog nws tus cwj pwm, nws tseem ceeb npaum li cas los mloog cov txwj laus, txog qhov tsis zoo thiab qhov zoo. Ua phooj ywg rau koj tus menyuam, tsis yog neeg siab zoo. Cia nws hais lus hauv tsev neeg kev sab laj. Nws yuav tsum nkag siab tias nws tseem ceeb hauv nws tsev neeg. Ib tug menyuam yaus pib mloog lus thaum nws tsis raug hem thiab tsis cuam tshuam los ntawm kev qw thiab kev cog lus, thiab thaum lawv txuas lus nrog nws, nws raug thov thiab nug.
Kauj ruam 5
Nco ntsoov tias tsis muaj cov me nyuam zoo tshaj plaws, thiab, yog li ntawd, tsis muaj kev mloog lus zoo tag nrho ntawm lawv. Hlub thiab hwm koj cov menyuam, sim ua raws li txoj cai saum toj no ntawm kev tu menyuam thiab tsis txhob hnov qab ua tus yam ntxwv zoo rau kev coj tus kheej.
