Ib qho ntawm qhov laj thawj tseem ceeb ntawm kev tshwm sim ntawm whims yog kev ua raws tas li ntawm niam txiv. Dhau ntawm qhov no, muaj lwm cov laj thawj uas niam txiv yuav tsum tau saib.
Thaum kawg ntawm thawj xyoo ntawm lub neej, tus me nyuam pib maj mam paub tias yog nws qw me ntsis, yuav muab tam sim ntawd rau txhua qhov nws xav tau. Nws yog lub sijhawm no lub cim uas tus menyuam raug tso rau. Cov niam txiv yuav xav txim siab rau txim rau ib tug menyuam thaum hnub nyoog no. Thiab thaum tus menyuam pib qw, xav tau qee yam, cov lus hauv qab no feem ntau tau hnov: "Yog lawm, muab rau nws, tsis txhob quaj." Nws nco qab ceev thiab nkag siab cov lus no.
Nws mob hnyav dua nrog lub hnub nyoog, tus me nyuam loj hlob dhau capricious. Ob- thiab peb-xyoo cov me nyuam pov cov khaub ncaws nrov ntawm txoj kev thiab hauv khw. Thiab cov niam tu cov plaub hau rau saum lawv taub hau, xav tias yuav ua li cas thiab yuav ua li cas cob qhia tus menyuam thab plaub. Ua ntej tshaj plaws, nws yuav tsum raug sau tseg tias qhov no yog qhov txhaum ntawm niam txiv. Yog li ntawd, nws yog qhov zoo dua tsis ua raws li cov coj ntawm tus menyuam thiab tsis tsa nws piam, hauv qhov no yuav tsis muaj lus nug ntawm yuav rov kawm ntawv li cas.
Tus me nyuam xav ua tiav nws lub hom phiaj, thiab qhov tseeb tshaj plaws rau qhov xwm txheej no yog kev siab tus yam ntxwv cuam tshuam nrog me nyuam txoj kev xav. Piv txwv li, thaum menyuam me hauv khw yuav qw rau khoom ua si tshiab, nws yog qhov zoo tshaj kom txav tawm ntawm nws ib qho deb. Nws yuav tawm tsam me ntsis, tab sis nws yeej yuav ua rau siab nqig. Sij hawm dhau mus, tus me nyuam yuav nkag siab tias tantrums tsis pab nws ua tiav nws lub hom phiaj. Nyob rau hauv tsis muaj ib qho yuav tsum koj qw ntawm tus menyuam lossis tsa koj lub suab. Nws yuav tsis poob siab, txij li ib tus menyuam yaus rau lub hnub nyoog no tsis tau npaj siab nkag siab thiab lees txais qhov tsis kam lees rau nws cov kev thov. Koj yuav tsum siv sijhawm ntau rau koj tus menyuam. Yog tias tus menyuam yaus thawm thiab tsis xav tsaug zog, tab sis tseem quaj, tsis tas yuav tsum npau taws rau nws tam sim ntawd, ntseeg tias nws tsuas yog qaub ncaug. Nws yog qhov ua tau hais tias nws yog neeg dhuav, xav ua si nrog qee tus neeg, thiab tsis muaj kev mloog siab ntawm nws cov txwj laus. Tus menyuam tsis tas yuav pam dhau, ua raws nws li kev coj. Nws tau siv rau qhov tseeb tias txhua yam raug tso cai rau nws thiab loj hlob capricious thiab tsis mloog lus. Qhov no tsis zoo tsuas yog rau cov niam txiv uas tsis tuaj yeem tiv nrog tus menyuam. Qhov no tsis zoo rau tus menyuam thiab lub neej yav tom ntej.
Cov menyuam yaus poob los ntawm lawv niam lawv txiv yuav tsis muaj peev xwm saib xyuas lawv tus kheej yav tom ntej. Cov tub hluas loj hlob tsis muaj kev vam meej, tos lawv niam thiab txiv muab nws chav tsev thiab tsheb. Nws yuav nyuaj rau cov menyuam ntxhais mus nrhiav tus txiv, txij li thaum lawv yuav saib rau txhua tus txiv neej rau tus uas yuav ua tiav txhua tus whims. Koj yuav tau tu menyuam yaus kom zoo, tsis txhob qw dhau. Piv txwv li, yog tias tus menyuam yaus saib cov duab tas luav ntev dhau, tsis tas yuav tsum tawm tsam TV thiab qhia rau tus menyuam tias "tsis kam". Koj yuav tsum nyiam nws rau qee yam kev lag luam, piv txwv li, ua si ua ke.
Thiab ib qho tseem ceeb dua kev cai. Yog hais tias niam txiv yog tus neeg tsis mob siab, nkag mus rau hauv qhov tsis sib haum xeeb yam tsis muaj laj thawj thiab tig mus nrog ib nrab lem, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob cia siab tias muaj lwm yam los ntawm tus menyuam. Nws yuav tsis nyob twjywm. Cov menyuam mos liab tso nws niam lawv txiv nyob hauv txhua yam txog hnub nyoog. Thiab qhov kawg uas txhua tus yuav tsum nco ntsoov yog qhov ua kom me nyuam yaus tsis taus. Qhov no yuav ua rau nws txhoj puab heev. Nws yog qhov zoo dua rau nrhiav lwm txoj hauv kev rau txim, xws li tsis pub cov duab tas lauv lossis tej yam qab.
