Puas yog tus menyuam yaus qw, ntaus nws ob txhais taw thiab tsis kam mloog koj? Dab tsi yuav yog vim li cas? Cov neeg ib puag ncig nchos lawv lub taub hau thiab hais tias tus me nyuam tsuas yooj yim thiab capricious. Tsis txhob txhawj, nws tsis yog qhov phem. Nws muaj qee cov laj thawj tseem ceeb rau txoj kev coj cwj pwm ntawm koj tus menyuam.
Ntau Yam Kev Zam Txim Thaum me nyuam txwv tsis pub txwv, nws tsuas muaj qee qhov yuav tsum tsis mloog lus. Koj tsis tuaj yeem ua kom lub cev tsis huv, koj khiav tsis tau, koj dhia tsis tau, koj tsis tuaj yeem muaj khoom qab zib, koj tsis tuaj yeem saib duab, tsis tuaj yeem khiav ncig lub viav vias, thiab lwm yam. li ntawd loj kawg cov tseem ceeb tiag tiag tau ploj hauv coob leej ntawm cov me. Thiab tus me nyuam pib ua txhaum lawv, tsuas yog ua raws li qhov xav tau ua txhaum cai. Thiab nws yog qhov zoo yog tias qhov tsis mloog no tsuas yog siv rau kev txwv me me. Thiab yog tias nws tam sim ntawd ua txhaum qhov twg yog qhov tseem ceeb? Piv txwv li, qhov txwv txiav ua si nrog cov khoom sib tw? Qhov laj thawj uas yuav xav tias yuav tsum nruj kom nruj rau cov niam txiv. Thaum xub thawj siab ib muag, nws zoo nkaus li tias niam txiv thiab menyuam muaj kev nkag siab tiav. Niam thiab txiv yog txawj ua khawv koob yuav ua dab tsi. Tab sis tam sim lub caij tuaj txog thaum tus me nyuam txoj kev xav tsis tuaj yeem ua tiav. Cov niam txiv paub tias qhov no tsis yooj yim sua, thiab tus me nyuam xav tias lawv tsuas tsis xav tau. Thiab yog tias nws ua capricious thiab xav tau, ces niam thiab txiv yuav ua tiav nws whim. Qhov ob thiab thawj ob, qhov kev ntsuas yuav tsum pom txog kev tu menyuam, qhov laj thawj thib peb rau kev ua txhaum cai thiab tsis mloog lus yog kev tsis ua raws cai ntawm niam txiv hauv kev txwv.”, Thiab leej txiv hais tias“koj ua tsis tau. Lawm, qhov no, tus menyuam yuav xaiv qhov chaw "tuaj yeem", tab sis tib lub sijhawm nws yuav sim ua txhua yam ntsiag to, thiab thaum lawv pib cem nws, cov niam txiv tuaj yeem tsis yog whims, tab sis muaj kev npau taws tiag tiag. Yog li, nws yog qhov tseem ceeb heev uas cov niam txiv, yam tsawg kawg hauv cov ntsiab lus tseem ceeb, ib txwm paub ib leeg lub luag haujlwm ntawm ib qhov teebmeem tshwj xeeb Thaum muaj kev ua xyem xyav, tus menyuam tuaj yeem hais kom yooj yim tias "Kuv yuav sab laj nrog niam thiab txiv, thiab peb yuav txiav txim siab." Thiab nws yog taug qab thaum kiag. Cov menyuam yaus zoo li no tau txheeb xyuas los ntawm tus kws kho paj hlwb, tus kws kho hlwb, thiab lwm yam Teeb meem Muaj kev kub ntxhov ntawm ib xyoos, muaj kev kub ntxhov ntawm 3 xyoo, muaj kev kub ntxhov ntawm 7 xyoo. Cov kws npliag siab thiab cov kws kawm muaj lub rooj noj mov tag nrho ntawm cov teeb meem zoo li no. Tab sis tsis yog txhua tus niam txiv paub txog qhov no. Hauv qhov tseem ceeb, kev kub ntxhov yog kev hloov pauv ntawm tus menyuam mus rau theem tshiab ntawm kev loj hlob. Qhov tseeb, tus menyuam dhia mus los hauv qee txoj kev hloov kho rau ib hom kev loj hlob tshiab. Kev tsis sib haum xeeb tshwm sim thaum cov niam txiv tsis muaj sijhawm tsim kho. Piv txwv li, tus menyuam yaus tau dhia mus rau theem no thaum muaj peb xyoos, thiab niam thiab txiv tseem tab tom txuas lus nrog nws raws li kab ke ntawm kev sib raug zoo rau ob xyoos. Txawm li cas los xij, tus txheej txheem no tsis ua haujlwm ntxiv thiab nws zoo nkaus li tias tus menyuam tsis mloog lus, coj tus cwj pwm tsis zoo, yog capricious. Qee tus niam txiv hais tias lawv tsis pom tias muaj teeb meem hauv lawv cov menyuam, thiab nws zoo li tsis muaj. Qhov no tsis yog lawm. Muaj kev ntxhov siab, tsuas yog qhov no, cov niam txiv tau tswj kom hloov kho qhov kev xav tau ntawm tus menyuam Kev khib siab Thaum muaj ob tus menyuam hauv tsev neeg - qhov no yog ib qho laj thawj tseem ceeb. Tus yau yau yuav tsum tau mloog ntau dua li tus hlob, thiab tus hlob yuav khib. Whims, tsis mloog lus - qhov no yog hom kev coj los mloog koj tus kheej thiab tau txais lub sijhawm koj tau mob siab rau tus yau, txawm hais tias yog niam txiv lub siab phem. Yog li ntawd, nws tsim nyog saib seb koj faib koj cov xim li cas nyob nruab nrab ntawm menyuam. Yog tias koj zaum los kos nrog tus yau, nco ntsoov xam cov tus qub. Yog li, koj yuav tau them sai sai, thiab koj yuav muaj peev xwm tsim kom muaj kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov menyuam. Nyob rau tib lub sijhawm, tseem muaj tus yam ntxwv. Yog li no, tsis txhob thov los ntawm nws dab tsi uas nws tseem tsis tau npaj rau.
