Yog hais tias tus menyuam tsis xav pom nws pog thiab hais tias nws tsis hlub nws, qhov xwm txheej no yuav tsum raug cais tawm. Muaj tseeb muaj qee qhov lus qhia txog tus cwj pwm ntawm tus menyuam no.
Vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim?
Nco ntsoov tias ib tus menyuam qhov kev coj zoo rau lub ntiaj teb yog nyob ntawm kev xav thiab qhov kev xav tau. Koj tsis tas yuav xav tias koj tus menyuam ntxub nws pog, nws yog qhov tseeb tias nws yuav taug xaiv thiab tsuas ua tejyam thawj. Hauv nws txoj kev nkag siab, "Kuv tsis hlub" tej zaum yuav "Kuv tsis xav tam sim no", "Kuv xav nyob nrog kuv niam," "Kuv hlub tsawg dua li …" lossis lwm yam.
Yog tias koj tus menyuam ua qhia txog tus uas nws hlub thiab tus uas nws tsis nyiam, koj yuav tsum tso nws txoj cai no rau nws. Koj tsis tas yuav txhom ib tug neeg hluas, yaum koj txoj kev xav rau nws, lossis, qhov phem tshaj, tsim txom thiab cem nws. Kho nws zoo li tus neeg laus thiab mus rau hauv kev sib tham loj, thaum lub sijhawm ntawd, yam tsis muaj kev ua phem, pom tias yog vim li cas tus menyuam tsis hlub nws pog. Tej zaum nws yuav qhia nws qhov kev xav rau koj, lossis txawm hais tias tus niam pog tsis phem npaum li ntawd, thiab nws tsis txhob ua rau nws tsis muaj qabhau.
Txawm li cas los xij, txawm tias muaj qhov tsis sib haum xeeb ntawm menyuam yaus thiab kev nkag siab tsis zoo ntawm qee lo lus, qee zaum cov niam tais yawm txiv tsis tshua nyiam kev hlub. Thiab tom qab ntawd cov lus nug tseem ceeb tshwm sim: vim li cas qhov no tshwm sim?
Tsis muaj leej twg nyiam npau taws thiab tsim txom, ua phem rau cov pog ua phem los cuam tshuam lawv cov kev xav, yuam lawv ua qee yam. Yog tias koj tus niam pog zoo li ntawd, koj yuav tsum nrog nws tham thiab pab nws nkag siab tias nrog tus cwj pwm zoo li no nws ua rau tus menyuam poob siab ntawm nws tus kheej.
Yog hais tias koj niam pog nyob deb ntawm koj, tus me nyuam yuav cias ntawm nws thiab tsis tuaj yeem siv tau thaum nws nyob ib puag ncig. Ntxiv mus, yog tias nws tsis yog niam tais tuaj rau koj, tab sis koj noj mus xyuas koj tus kheej, kev hloov pauv ntawm qhov xwm txheej tseem cuam tshuam tus cwj pwm ntawm tus menyuam.
Cov menyuam me nyiam qhov kev xav zoo rau cov neeg uas xav paub thiab mob siab rau lawv. Yog hais tias tus niam pog yog tus tswv ntawm lub ntsej muag txias thiab tus yam ntxwv, tus me nyuam yuav pom tias tus cwj pwm tsis zoo.
Kuv yuav kho nws li cas?
Ua ntej tshaj plaws, tus niam pog yuav tsum xav txog nws tus cwj pwm. Ib tus pojniam laus uas muaj cai tshaj yuav tsum sim ua kom ntau me ntsis. Tus neeg uas nyob deb yuav tau tham lus ntau dua rau nws thiab xa khoom plig rau nws kom tus me nyuam nco txog nws. Tus niam pog txias yuav tsum tau sim nrhiav txoj hauv kev rau tus menyuam, vim menyuam nyiam thaum lawv tham nrog lawv, saib duab tas luav nrog lawv, ua si lawv nyiam lossis khoom ua si.
Tsis txhob hnov qab tias txhua tus menyuam nyiam khoom plig. Rau cov neeg laus, cov khoom ua si pub dawb yog qhov tseem ceeb, vim tias twb muaj tag nrho cov khoom nyob hauv tsev, tab sis rau ib qho me me, txhua qhov khoom ua si yog qhov xwm txheej loj. Thiab yog tias koj tuaj yeem muab koj cov khoom ua si uas nws tau thov nws niam nws txiv rau lub sijhawm ntev, nws yuav zoo siab.
Nco ntsoov tias koj yuav tsum tsis txhob blackmail ib tug me nyuam. Nws yog ib qho tseem ceeb uas tus pog no yog phooj ywg, nrog tus neeg nws nyiam ua si thiab leej twg koj ib txwm xav tuaj xyuas.
