Nws thiaj li tau tshwm sim qee zaum hauv cov tsev neeg ntawm cov menyuam yaus uas muaj hnub nyoog txawv muaj qhov tsis to taub, tawm tsam keeb kwm ntawm kev tsis sib haum xeeb loj tshwm sim ntxiv. Cov hau kev twg thiaj li yuav zam tau kev sib cav sib ceg thiab kev chim siab nyob ib leeg thiab ua rau cov menyuam sov siab?
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
"Koj hlub nws ntxiv vim tias nws tseem yau!" Ib lub sijhawm ntev dhau los, ib lub tsho sawv thiab muaj zog ntxiv tias nrog cov tsos ntawm tus yau hauv tsev neeg, kev hlub rau thawj tus menyuam tsis muaj zog npaum li yav tas los. Qhov no yog vim qhov tseeb tias, vim nws lub hnub nyoog, tus menyuam thib ob xav tau niam txiv ntau ntxiv. Nws yog vim qhov no hais tias qee zaus cov menyuam yaus laus qee zaum yuav xav tias tsis muaj dab tsi. Txhawm rau zam qhov xwm txheej zoo li no, nws yuav tsum tau piav qhia rau tus menyuam ua ntej tias kev hlub rau nws yuav tsis txias, thiab nws yuav yog tus hlub zoo li yav tas los. Koom tes nrog nws nrog tus neeg hauv tsev neeg. Cia nws yog qhov sib koom ua ke sib piv, piv txwv. Tom qab kev nkag siab thiab txiav txim siab yuav tsis ntev rau hauv kev tuaj.
Kauj ruam 2
Tus kheej qhov chaw. Lwm qhov teeb meem sib xws ntawm ob tug menyuam yaus yog qhov chaw ntawm tus kheej. Qhov teeb meem no tau tshwj xeeb tshaj yog thaum me nyuam yaus twb tiav hluas. Ntau zaus, muaj qee lub sijhawm thaum lawv raug yuam kom nyob ua ke hauv ib chav, thiab qhov tsis muaj qhov chaw ntawm tus kheej yuav cuam tshuam tsis zoo rau kev sib raug zoo ntawm menyuam yaus. Yog li, yog koj cov menyuam twb txog lub hnub nyoog txaus lawm, nws yog ib qhov zoo los nrog lawv tham, sib tham txog yam lawv xav pauv hauv lawv chav. Ua kom lom zem rau lawv. Cia lawv sib tham txog kev npaj cov rooj tog thiab khoom uas haum rau lawv kom lawv xis nyob ua ke.
Kauj ruam 3
Qhov sib piv tsis tu ncua. Kev sib piv tsis tu ncua ntawm ob leeg kuj tuaj yeem cuam tshuam txoj kev sib raug zoo ntawm cov menyuam yaus. Yog tias koj muab tus menyuam loj los ua piv txwv rau tus yau, nws cia li tsis nyiam thawj tus menyuam. Nrog rau txhua qhov kev sib piv, koj yuav tsuas yog nce qhov kev xav ntawm kev chim siab, uas tsis ntev no yuav tsim kom muaj kev ntxub ntxaug. Nco ntsoov tias koj ob tus menyuam yog neeg tus yam ntxwv, thiab txawm li cas los xij koj yuav tsum coj ib tus ntawm lawv mus rau hauv lub moj khaum ntawm kev coj ua ntawm lwm tus menyuam. Nws yog ib lub sijhawm zoo rau qhov hais qhia rau koj tus menyuam txog qhov nws tau ua tsis yog. Qhov no yuav ua tau hauj lwm zoo dua li kev ua kom npau taws ntawm cov txiv neej.
Kauj ruam 4
Tsis txhob yuam ib tug menyuam ib pliag li ib pliag. Qhov no yuav tsuas ua rau thab xwb. Nco ntsoov tias txawm tias qhov tseem ceeb ntawm tsev neeg kev sib txuas lus ntawm menyuam, ob leeg yuav qee zaum xav so ntawm ib leeg. Tsis muaj ib yam txhaum nrog qhov no, vim tias lawv txhua tus xav tau kev nyob ib leeg nrog lawv tus kheej lossis kev sib txuas lus nrog lawv cov phooj ywg. Tsis txhob yuam cov menyuam yaus nyob ua ke txhua lub sijhawm - thiab txoj kev phooj ywg ntawm lawv yuav muaj zog dua.
