Thaum kos duab, tus menyuam sim piav qhia rau ntawm ib daim ntawv tias nws xav li cas thiab nws xav li cas txog nws tus kheej. Kev tsom xam ntawm daim duab zoo li no yog lub sijhawm zoo rau cov niam txiv los soj ntsuam lub xeev ntawm tus menyuam; nkag siab tias yog nws twm zeej; nrhiav seb nws saib taus ntau tus neeg hauv tsev neeg li cas; txhawm rau txhom tau qhov zais ntshiv uas tsim tawm los ntawm cov tub ntxhais hluas; zoo nws lub siab. Thiab kuj kwv yees kwv yees qib kev loj hlob ntawm tus me nyuam.
Txhawm rau pib nrog, koj tuaj yeem caw tus me nyuam kos tag nrho cov neeg hauv tsev neeg uas koom nrog kev lag luam rau ntawm ib daim ntawv sau nrog cov xaum qhuav xim. Tsis txhob cuam tshuam thiab tsis txhob maj nws, tsis txhob tawm tswv yim txog ntawm cov duab. Cia nws pleev xim ntev npaum li nws siv. Tom qab ntawv sim "xav tias" daim duab. Nws ua rau koj xav li cas? Yog tias gloomy, dreary, txhoj puab heev, npub, tu siab, ces tus me nyuam kom meej meej hnov qee qhov tsis xis nyob. Tab sis tsis txhob ntshai! Tsis txhob hnov qab tias txhua qhov kev xav cuam tshuam cuam tshuam rau ib tus menyuam yaus kev ua ub no, suav nrog kev muaj tswv yim. Yog li ntawd, nws yog qhov ua tau tias nws tsuas yog nkees lossis nkees heev rau ib tug neeg.
Tom qab ntawd saib seb leej twg ploj ntawm daim duab lossis, ntawm qhov tsis tooj, "ntxiv" rau tsev neeg. Yog tias, piv txwv li, txiv tsis nyob rau nws, vim nws "mus ncig ua lag luam" lossis "ya mus rau lub hli", nws txhais tau hais tias tus menyuam tsis muaj peev xwm txaus los ntawm nws, lossis niam txiv ua zoo rau nws. Tej zaum nws, dua, tau tawm tsam nws rau qee yam. Yog tias tus menyuam tsis kos cov kwv tij (lossis tus muam), nyuam qhuav yug los, nws tsis muaj kev saib xyuas los ntawm leej txiv thiab leej niam. Hauv qhov no, nco ntsoov qhia koj tus menyuam tias koj hlub nws npaum li cas. Yog tias, ntawm qhov tsis sib xws, ib tug neeg "superfluous" tshwm sim hauv daim duab, nws txhais tau tias tus me nyuam tsis txaus siab rau nws lub siab lub ntsws. Nws xav tau txoj kev sib raug zoo sib luag nrog nws niam nws txiv lossis kev lom zem hauv tuam txhab ntawm lwm cov menyuam yaus uas tsis sib xws.
Tom qab ntawv nug tus menyuam tias txhua tus neeg hauv tsev neeg ua dab tsi. Yog tias txhua tus neeg hauv daim duab no nyiam ua qhov qub, qhov ntawd zoo heev. Qhov no txhais tau tias kev sib raug zoo thiab kev hlub kav hauv tsev neeg. Yog tias tus me nyuam tau txav deb ntawm nws tus kheej:
- nws tus kheej - qhov no qhia tias nws xav tias cais tawm ntawm so;
- cov niam txiv lossis lwm tus neeg laus - uas nws tsis xav txuas nrog lawv.
Txhua yam no qhia tias koj yuav tsum ua tib zoo saib xyuas koj tus menyuam. Nco ntsoov qhia kom pom tias koj saib nws rau nqi ntau npaum li cas.
Yuav ua li cas los ntsuas qhov "cwj pwm ntawm kev sau ntawv"?
Cov menyuam muaj peb xyoos feem ntau piav qhia cov neeg ua "cephalopods" ("npuas" nrog ob txhais ceg), plaub - hauv daim ntawv ntawm 2 lub ovals nrog caj npab thiab txhais ceg. Hauv cov duab kos ntawm cov me nyuam muaj tsib xyoos, ib tus neeg twb muaj caj npab, ceg, qhov muag, thiab taub hau. Thiab rau hnub nyoog rau xyoo muaj ntsej muag, ntiv tes, qhov ncauj. Thaum muaj xya xyoo, cov kws kos duab hluas tau sim kos cov ntsiab lus xws li plaub hau, caj dab, khaub ncaws. Cov kws npliag siab feem ntau tsom rau cov txheej txheem no thaum ntsuas me nyuam kev loj hlob sab kev xav. Ua li ntawd, lawv saib lub xub ntiag:
- kho cov lus, tshwj xeeb tsis yog ua rau muaj kev txhim kho kom zoo ntawm daim duab (qhov cim ntawm kev txhawj xeeb nce ntxiv);
- cov tib neeg sib zog me me, tshwj xeeb yog cov duab kos muaj qee yam ntawm lawv (kos npe ntawm indecision);
- exaggeratedly loj qhov muag, uas tau ntxoov cov tub ntxhais kawm (tus menyuam yaus ntshai qee yam);
- lub xub ntiag ntawm ntau cov khoom dai thiab cov ntsiab lus ntxiv (tus menyuam xav kom pom, nws muaj kev nqhis dej rau cov teebmeem sab nraud).
Lawv kuj xyuam xim rau cov xim uas tau siv. Yog tias muaj 5-6 ntawm lawv - qhov no yog qhov qub, ntau dua - tus me nyuam muaj kev xav thiab xav paub ntau, tsawg dua - tsis tshua xis nyob ntawm lub sijhawm (xiav yog ntxhov siab, liab yog kev tawm tsam, thiab dub yog kev nyuaj siab, graphite yog hla ntawm qaim xim hauv lub neej) … Tsis tas li, cov xim tuaj yeem qhia tau tus yam ntxwv ntawm tus menyuam tus yam ntxwv:
- xiav tsaus nti - tsom mus rau sab hauv cov kev paub dhau los, kuaj xyuas, xav tau siab tus;
- grey - tsis nco qab rau txhua yam, muaj lub siab khiav tawm ntawm kev cia siab, plhaw;
- ntsuab - tawv ncauj, thev taus ntev, ua siab zoo, poise, siv zog tiv thaiv kev ruaj ntseg;
- dub - tawm tsam, kev nyuaj siab, kev puas tsuaj;
- liab - eccentricity, muaj siab los sawv tawm, tsim txom, lub zog, kev ntxim nyiam, nce kev ua si;
- xim av - ua kom qis qis, ua rau lub cev tsis xis nyob;
- daj - xav paub, ntseeg kev zoo tshaj plaws, tus kheej, tus cwj pwm zoo;
- ntshav - qhov, txawj ntse thiab lub siab tsis txawj xav, npau suav.
Tab sis tsuas yog tias lawv tau nyob hauv daim duab no mus rau ntau dua lwm qhov.
Nyob zoo cov niam txiv, thaum xub thawj siab saib nws tsis yooj yim los soj ntsuam cov lus "zais cia". Nws zoo li tias koj tuaj yeem nkag siab tam sim ntawd tus me nyuam cov duab yog hais txog dab tsi thiab daws txhua yam teeb meem hauv tsev. Tab sis yog tias muaj dab tsi tsis txaus siab los yog ua kom koj tsis txaus siab hauv kev kos duab, nco ntsoov sab laj nrog tus kws npliag siab. Tseeb, qee zaum tom qab pom meej meej yooj yim, ntau yam nuances thiab cov yam ntxwv tuaj yeem muab zais, thiab tsuas yog tus kws tshaj lij tuaj yeem ntsuas tus me nyuam tus mob kom raug.
