Nws yog ib qho nyuaj rau ib tug ntxhais kam tawm tsam kev ntxias kom ua raws li tus tub ntxhais hluas txoj kev hlub rau nws tus kheej qhov xaus. Tom qab teb rau nws nyob rau hauv rov qab, nws muaj peev xwm tau txais yuav luag tiav tswj nws - tus txiv neej hluas yuav ua dab tsi kom nws tus hlub tsis yog capricious thiab tsis quaj.
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Kauj ruam 1
Muaj zog npaum li koj txoj kev hlub, khaws koj txoj cai ntiag tug. Ntxiv nrog rau koj tus hluas nkauj, koj muaj niam txiv, phooj ywg, thiab ib txoj haujlwm uas koj nyiam. Nws yuav tsum nkag siab qhov no, thiab yog tias nws categorically tsis xav ua qhov no, feem ntau, nws yuav tas li sim ua rau nws tus hlub nyob hauv nws txoj kev tswj hwm tag nrho. Kev sib ntseeg siab pom zoo tias koj tuaj yeem haus npias nrog phooj ywg thaum yav tsaus ntuj, thiab nws muaj peev xwm tham siab txog nws kev yuav khoom nrog nws cov phooj ywg, thiab tsis hu rau txhua tsib feeb nrog lus nug. Yog tias nws yuam koj kom tsis txhob sib txuas lus nrog cov phooj ywg thiab xav tau ib daim ntawv qhia tag nrho ntawm qhov koj tau ua hauv haujlwm hnub no, qhia rau nws paub tias koj yuav tsis cia koj tus kheej raug tswj.
Kauj ruam 2
Hysteria thiab kua muag yog tus poj niam lub zog tshaj plaws kom tau yam nws xav tau los ntawm tus txiv neej uas tsis saib tsis taus nws. Thiab nws paub txog nws thiab, feem ntau yuav, sim sim siv cov cuab yeej no tsawg kawg ib zaug. Nco ntsoov ceev faj - sai li sai tau koj tus hlub txiav txim siab los kuaj koj hauv txoj kev no "rau lub zog", tam sim ntawd nres qhov khiav ntawm qhov tsis tuaj yeem tswj tau. Tsis tas yuav qw rau nws thiab thuam nws - ua ntej tsuas ua kom nws siab nqig, cia nws quaj thiab tom qab ntawd qhia nws hauv lub suab twj ywm tias koj yeej tsis nyiam yws yws thiab tias qhov kev coj ua no tsis pleev xim nws txhua. Piav qhia rau nws tias yog nws xav ua tiav qee yam nrog qhov no, koj tuaj yeem tsuas nug yam tsis muaj kev npau taws.
Kauj ruam 3
Ib tug txiv neej tuaj yeem ua tus neeg qaug zog thiab malleable thaum nyob hauv kev hlub, thiab tus poj niam, paub qhov no, ua si ntawm nws qhov kev muaj. "Xaiv - txawm yog kuv lossis phooj ywg!", "Zoo, ploj mus - Kuv yuav nrhiav lwm tus, ib puas npaug zoo dua" - nrog cov lus zoo li no tus ntxhais siv koj txoj kev ntshai poob nws hauv nws tus nyiam. Sai li nws siv tsawg kawg ib ntawm lawv, qhia rau nws tias koj tsis ntshai ntawm qhov no. Qhov kev tsis pom zoo no yuav ua rau tus ntxhais ntshai, thiab nws yuav tso tseg qhov no.
