Tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi uas lawv hais txog qhov laj thawj ntawm cov xib fwb, ib txwm muaj kev sib qhia ntawm kev kawm hauv lawv qhov kev ntsuas, raws li kev khuv leej rau cov tub ntxhais kawm lossis kev cuam tshuam ntawm nws kev paub. Yog li koj yuav ua li cas thiaj paub tseeb tias koj raug saib xyuas nrog kev xaiv ntsej muag, tab sis tib lub sijhawm zoo?
Yuav ua li cas los ua tus kws qhia ntawv tus tsiaj?
Ua ntej pib siv koj lub tswv yim, nws tsim nyog cais ntawm lub tswv yim ntawm "xib fwb" thiab "xib fwb", vim tias cov kws qhia ntawv feem ntau hu ua cov neeg ua haujlwm hauv tsev kawm, thiab cov xibfwb - cov neeg uas qhia kev qhuab qhia tshwj xeeb hauv kev kawm qib siab. Nws yog qhov zoo tib yam nrog "tub ntxhais kawm" thiab "tub ntxhais kawm".
Kev tawm tsam ntawm cov xib fwb feem ntau yog qhov kev txiav txim siab ntawm qhov ntau dua siab dua li cov kws qhia ntawv. Vim li cas? Vim tias cov kws qhia ua haujlwm rau menyuam yaus lossis menyuam yaus. Feem ntau, cov kws qhia yog cov poj niam uas muaj siab mos siab muag thiab to taub. Coob tus txiv neej lossis xibhwb qhia nrog kev paub qhia hauv tsev kawm qib siab uas tsis xav khoov thiab ua kom ncaj thiab muaj hom phiaj tau zoo.
Cov kev zoo no yuav tsum nyiam. Ua ntej, sim ua kom yeej koj tus kheej: muab rau tus kws qhia ntawv pom tias koj tseem tabtom nkag siab txog qhov kev kawm, tias koj tab tom muab rau koj tus kheej thiab koj lub zog, nug cov lus nug, tsim qhov tsis meej ntawm kev txaus siab. Koj yuav txawm pib nyiam qhov khoom tsis txaus ntseeg zoo dua.
Thib ob, nco ntsoov tias cov lej hauv phau ntawv txhais tau ntau yam rau tus kws qhia ntawv: cov tub ntxhais kawm lossis cov kws ntaus nruas zoo tau muab kev tso cai ntau, txawm hais tias lawv pom lawv cov kev tsis pom tseeb. Nov yog lub sijhawm tseem ceeb ntawm lub siab ntsws. Yog tias tus kws qhia muab peb tus rau ib tus neeg uas muaj tsuas tsib thiab plaub nyob ib puag ncig, nws (tus kws qhia ntawv) yuam nws tus kheej los teb rau qhov no "zam rau txoj cai."
Yog tias tus kws qhia ntawv muab daim ntawv C rau C, nws tsis xav txog qhov nws tsim nyog los piav qhia nws qhov kev xaiv, vim tias feem coob yuav txhawb nws.
Hauv tsev kawm theem nrab (qeb 5 txog qib 8) Kuv pom tias tsis zoo rau kuv cov kev tshawb fawb. Hauv qib 9-11, Kuv pib nco txhua yam khoom siv thiab tsis nco cov chav kawm, tab sis cov kws qhia, txawm li cas los xij, tsis tso cov khoom sib sab thiab tsis ua rau tsis pom zoo - lawv tus cwj pwm tsis ncaj.
Lwm txoj hauv kev los yeej hla koj tus kws qhia
Yog tias ib tug neeg txiav txim siab los nug cov lus nug li no, ces, tej zaum, nws pom cov "nyiam tshaj plaws" ntawm cov xibfwb, pom tias cov neeg no zoo li cas.
Tsis txhob saib tsis taus txoj kev ua zoo thiab coj tus cwj pwm zoo: cov kws qhia ntawv nyiam kom tau txais tos, thiab lawv tau cuam tshuam rau cov tub ntxhais kawm hauv kev hnav khaub ncaws lossis, tsawg kawg, hauv lub tsho zoo huv. Cov kws tshawb fawb tau teeb tsa qhov no, yog.
Txawm tias tus kws qhia ntawv hais tias koj tabtom npuaj koj lub siab nrog rau koj lub siab, tsis txhob tsum yaim thiab ntxais nws lub siab. Nws ib txwm ua haujlwm. Cov kws qhia ntawv feem ntau yog cov neeg uas tau nyiaj tsawg, uas muaj cov teeb meem tib yam li feem ntau: cov tais diav tsis huv, cov menyuam tsis qab los yog cov txiv noj haus, tsev qiv nyiaj, thiab lwm yam Yog li, lawv yuav txaus siab tau hnov lub banal "saib zoo hnub no". Lub ntsiab tseem ceeb yog hais nws nyob rau hauv tej yam yam thiab ntawm lub sij hawm ntawd.
Muaj cov kws qhia koj yuav ntaus tsis tau. Lawv feem ntau muab cov qhab nia cuam tshuam, txawm hais tias lawv qhia kev hlub rau cov tub ntxhais kawm. Tab sis lawv kuj muaj qhov xav ntawm kev nkag siab ntawm koj lub hlwb, koj tsuas yog xav nrhiav nws.
Cov tswv yim rau txhua tus xib hwb thiab tus kws qhia yuav tsum yog qhov tshwj xeeb, ces tus kws qhia ntawv yuav muaj qhov tshwj xeeb rau koj. Tsis txhob hnov qab tias cov kws qhia ntawv tsis nyiam indifference ntau: tsis tuaj kawm ntawv ntawm cov koom txoos tseem ceeb, tsis mus koom chav kawm, tsis ua haujlwm tsis ncav sijhawm.
Ib tug neeg uas tau qhaj ntawv ib xyoos yuav tsis raug cawm dim nyob hauv kev sim zaum kawg los ntawm nws tus ntse los yog tus cwj pwm zoo.
Zoo, thiab lub ntsiab tseem ceeb uas tsim nyog nco ntsoov yog tias koj yuav tsis muaj yeej rau leej twg yog tias koj kawm lub ncauj lus thiab siv lub zog rau nws. Koj txoj kev paub yuav thov txhua tus.
