Txog thaum nyuam qhuav, koj tus ntxhais yog tus menyuam yaus lom zem uas tsis muaj teeb meem dab tsi. Thiab hnub no koj tau pom nrog ntshai heev uas nws tau so nws tus kheej nrog nws lub tes tsho, thiab nws tau sim kho kom zoo nkauj nws hais lus menyuam yaus nrog qee qhov kev foom … Txawm niam txiv xav tau nws los tsis xav, thiab tsis ntev yuav ntev tom ntej cov menyuam yuav hnov tsis zoo cov lus ntawm ib qho twg (txawm hais tias koj tiv thaiv lawv los ntawm qhov no nrog tag nrho nws lub zog) Thiab tsis muaj ib yam dab tsi tuaj yeem tiv thaiv tus menyuam los ntawm rov hais cov lus uas nws tau hnov - txoj kev foom tsis zoo, txawm tias tsis nkag siab nws lub ntsiab lus.
Niam txiv kev tawm tsam
Sim piav qhia rau tus me nyuam nyob rau lub sij hawm lub tswv yim tias nws yog ntau yam tsis tsim nyog thiab tsis tsim nyog siv cov lus cog lus. Qhia rau koj tus menyuam tias muaj cov lus cawm neeg hauv ntiaj teb, cov lus ntawm kws kho mob uas coj kev thaj yeeb nyab xeeb thiab kev xyiv fab, tab sis kuj tseem muaj cov lus dub, lus phem, tub sab uas ua rau tib neeg thiab ua rau mob siab. Yog tias ib tug neeg tsa tes rau hauv koj lub xub ntiag, piav qhia nws tias tus neeg no yog neeg tsis zoo, tsis coj zoo thiab tsis muaj neeg hwm nws.
Feem ntau cov neeg laus, hnov cov lus phem ntawm cov menyuam yaus daim di ncauj, pib luag, uas ua rau cov menyuam xav rov hais cov lus cem dua, thiab yog li ua rau lwm tus luag. Txawm li cas los xij, nws yuav raug dua kom tsis txhob cuam tshuam tus menyuam: yog tias nws hais ib lo lus uas koj tuaj yeem luag hauv tsev neeg ib puag ncig, hauv kev thauj khoom lossis hauv khw, ces cov tshuaj tiv thaiv ntawm koj feem yuav txawv kiag li.
Feem ntau, cov menyuam yaus tig los rau lawv niam lawv txiv nrog thov los piav lub ntsiab lus ntawm qee cov lus. Hauv cov xwm txheej zoo li no, koj yuav tsum tsis pom qhov chaw uas nws tau hnov nws thiab leej twg hais nws. Ruaj, tab sis nrog kev ua siab zoo, qhia rau tus menyuam tias koj tsis xav hnov cov lus ntawm nws lawm. Feem ntau cov menyuam yaus ua raws li thiab nyob ntawm koj xub ntiag lawv yuav tsis ntshai rov ua phem.
Tsab ntawv me me rau niam thiab txiv
Cov menyuam yaus tau hais lus cem yam tsis nkag siab lawv lub ntsiab lus, thiab yog li ntawd lawv tsis quav ntsej txog qhov twg hais lawv nrov nrov. Kev rau txim, cem, thiab cem cem tus menyuam yog ib qho tsis ntse txhua. Rau nws, cov lus zoo li no yog cov tsiaj ntawv sib xyaw yooj yim, uas txawv me ntsis ntawm txhua lwm lo lus sib xyaw thiab cov lus.
Yog lawm, koj tuaj yeem tos cov lus tawg tau hnov qab los ntawm nws tus kheej, tab sis koj yuav tsum tsis txhob cia siab ntau rau qhov kev ua kom sib luag. Ua tib zoo nrog koj cov lus: cov menyuam yuav tsum tsis txhob txwv tsis pub hais cov lus uas nws niam nws txiv hais. Nyeem ntawv ntxiv rau tus menyuam, nws yuav ua kom zoo ntxiv nws cov lus, qhia nws seb yuav nrhiav hloov li cas rau cov lus thiab cov lus zoo ib yam.
