Cov kws npliag siab thiab cov kws kawm niaj hnub no taw tes rau qhov tsis paub meej ntawm kev tsis sib haum xeeb hauv tsev neeg. Nrog kev pabcuam ntawm kev tsis sib haum xeeb, koj tuaj yeem plam cov phooj ywg, rhuav kev sib raug zoo nrog cov neeg txheeb ze. Thiab ntau yam teeb meem tuaj yeem daws tau yog qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb tsis rub tawm, tsis ua ntev ntev, yog tias tib neeg paub tus cwj pwm zoo kom tawm ntawm qhov teeb meem tsis sib haum xeeb.
Tsim nyog
Muaj peev xwm tswj hwm koj lub siab. kev paub ntawm cov txuj ci sib txuas lus tsis sib cav
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob khaus koj txoj kev xav tsis zoo rau ib yam dab tsi lossis ib tus neeg, txog thaum tus cwj pwm no dhau los ua qhov muaj zog txaus ntshai. Zoo dua hais nws tam sim. Piv txwv li: "Kuv tsis nyiam noj qe thaum sawv ntxov." Koj tsis tas yuav noj lawv lub siab ntev ib hnub tom qab hnub, ntau zuj zus kev npau taws thiab voos hauv koj tus kheej. Tsis tas tos txog rau cov kev xav tsis zoo no tau tawg tawm thiab tawg zoo li lava ntawm lub roob hluav taws.
Kauj ruam 2
Tham nrog lwm tus kom ntau ntau yam txog txhua yam. Thiab nws tsis yog txhua qhov tsim nyog tias cov no yuav tsum tsuas yog qhov tseem ceeb, kev sib tham ua lag luam. Hauv ib tsev neeg nws tuaj yeem yog yav tsaus ntuj "kev sib sau ua ke" lossis tsawg kawg hnub noj hmo, ib qho chaw ua ke. Feem ntau peb ntshai ntawm kev ua rau lwm tus npau taws thiab tsis hais thaum sawv ntxov thiab thaum yav tsaus ntuj, peb nyob ntsiag to ob hnub so hauv TV thiab, vim li ntawd, tsis paub yuav tham txog dab tsi thaum so. Yog li ntawd, peb tsuas yog tsis paub ib leeg thiab tsis paub dab tsi xav tau zais tom qab no silence.
Kauj ruam 3
Koj yuav tsum tsis txhob nquag qhia rau tus neeg hlub tias nws tau ua tej yam tsis yog. Siv "Kuv-Cov Lus": "Kuv tau chim siab thiab kho siab yog tias kuv tsis tuaj yeem tham nrog koj ib hnub," "Kuv ua txhaum txhua yam me me thiab kuv tsis tuaj yeem ua ib yam dab tsi txog nws," thiab yog li rau. Hauv qhov no, tus neeg qhia nws txoj kev xav, txwv tsis pub lwm tus tsuas yog tsis paub meej tias koj chim siab los ntawm qee yam. Yog hais tias qhov teeb meem twb tau siav thiab tabtom yuav tawg rau hauv nplaim taws, koj tuaj yeem siv cov lus tawm tsam: zam kev sib txuas lus, kom tsis kom provoking txhua lwm yam mus rau hauv negativity.
Kauj ruam 4
Txhawm rau daws qhov teeb meem tsis sib haum, nws qee zaum tseem ceeb kom koom nrog pawg neeg thib peb, vim hais tias cov neeg tawm tsam hauv qhov teeb meem tsis sib haum xeeb yog kev xav thiab tsis yog ib txwm paub ntsuas nws qhov tshwm sim, lawv lub zog thiab peev xwm. Tus neeg nrog kho kom haum xeeb tuaj yeem ua tau, yog tias tsis sib haum, tom qab ntawd yog tus neeg tuaj yeem hloov cov ntaub ntawv ntawm ib tus neeg sib cav mus rau lwm tus, txiav txim siab kom tsim nyog. Tus kws kho kom haum xeeb tuaj yeem thiab ua rau pom zoo rau txhua tus neeg koom nrog hauv qhov teeb meem nws qhov tsis txaus siab uas tsis zoo, uas tuaj yeem nres nws txoj kev txhim kho. Nco ntsoov tus kws xa xov Pechkin xa xov tooj ntawm Matroskin mus rau Sharik thiab sab nraud.
Kauj ruam 5
Yog tias qhov kev tsis sib haum xeeb twb dhau mus ua ib qho kev mob siab, lub ntsiab tseem ceeb tsis yog cia kev ua phem rau ib leeg. Qhov no yuav tsis muaj txoj hauv kev pab kom tawm ntawm qhov xwm txheej nyuaj, tab sis yuav tsuas yog ua rau nws txoj kev txhim kho txuas ntxiv. Koj tuaj yeem siv cov txheej txheem "Cia peb paub nws." Ib tog neeg ntawm cov kev tsis sib haum xeeb yuav siv txoj kev ywj pheej ntawm kev fij muag rau zaum ntawm lub rooj sib tham thiab nkag siab ncaj qha rau cov laj thawj rau kev sib tsoo ntawd. Qhov sau cov lus tsis txaus siab mus rau tus nrog sib ntaus tseem muaj peev xwm ua tau. Hom kev no tso cai rau tus neeg kom xav txog, ua kom nkag siab thiab sau txhua yam uas nws xav hais.
