Kev hais lus yog ib qho ntawm cov kev pabcuam tseem ceeb uas pab tus neeg cuam tshuam nrog lwm tus neeg. Tus menyuam pib hais lus ntawm 8 lub hlis. Tab sis yuav ua li cas yog tias koj tus menyuam tsis hais lub suab tsim nyog rau ib tug menyuam yaus ib thiab ib xyoos, thiab ib xyoos peb xyoos tseem tsis tau hais lus? Ua ntej, koj yuav tsum tsis txhob piv koj tus menyuam nrog cov phooj ywg - txhua tus menyuam yog tus neeg. Thiab qhov thib ob, nws yog qhov tsim nyog los txheeb xyuas qhov laj thawj ntawm kev nyob ntsiag to.
Muaj ob qho laj thawj rau qhov ncua sij hawm hais lus nyob rau hauv ib tug menyuam yaus: thawj yog qhov tsis muaj qhov muaj txiaj ntsig zoo hauv zej zog rau kev nce qib thiab tsis raug. Qhov thib ob tsis vam khom rau cov neeg laus, tab sis nyob rau hauv kev tsim kho ntawm lub paj hlwb lossis lub hauv paus ntawm lub qhov ncauj ntawm tus menyuam hais lus. Thawj qhov teeb meem, tus menyuam tsis hais lus nyob rau qib uas yuav tsum tau vim nws tsis tau txais kev mloog txaus. Tus menyuam yuav luag tsis hnov, raws li cov neeg laus hais, nws tsis tas yuav ua cov txuj ci uas tsim nyog rau nws lub hnub nyoog. Tab sis kev tshaj dhau kuj tseem tuaj yeem ua rau kev hais lus qeeb. Yog tias txhua tus menyuam lub siab xav tau twv ua ntej, tom qab ntawd nws tsis tas yuav tham. Qhov laj thawj thib ob, uas tsis yog nyob ntawm cov hau kev ntawm upbringing, tuaj yeem tshwm sim txawm tias ua ntej yug tus menyuam, piv txwv li, hypoxia tus me nyuam thaum leej niam cev xeeb tub lossis tus kab mob kis rau lub cev. Cov teeb meem ua tau muaj xws li yug menyuam, muaj mob hnyav, hloov ntshav ntxiv, phais ib tus menyuam tsis tau muaj ib xyoos, teeb meem hnov lus, thiab lwm tus. Thaum twg tus me nyuam thiaj paub tias hais lus qeeb? Yog tias tus me nyuam tsis kam rov hais dua cov lus thiab cov kev qhia tom qab cov neeg laus, tsis teb rau qhov kev thov rov qab hais ib kab lus, tsis ua raws cov lus yooj yim "muab rau kuv lub voos xwmfab", "mus rau chav ua noj", "nqa ib lub menyuam roj hmab." Nws tsis tig mus rau cov laus rau kev pab, tab sis nyiam ua txhua yam ntawm nws tus kheej. Nws tsis sim piav qhia nws qhov kev xav thiab kev xav rau cov neeg laus paub. Thaum muaj kev sib txuas lus, nws tsis paub qhov txawv ntawm tsev neeg thiab tus neeg tsis paub. Nws tuaj yeem siv sijhawm ntau xyoo los ua tus neeg nyob ntsiag to tham. Thiab koj tsis tuaj yeem ua yam tsis muaj kev pab los ntawm tus kws kho hais lus. Tab sis nws muaj qee txoj cai yooj yim uas cov niam txiv ntawm cov menyuam yaus uas ncua sijhawm ntawm kev hais lus yuav tsum ua raws. Daws cov teeb meem koj xav tau kom pib sai li sai tau, tsis muaj ncua. Yog tias koj pib txoj haujlwm kho kom zoo los ntawm ob txog rau tsib xyoos, tom qab ntawd muaj txhua lub sijhawm uas tus menyuam yuav hais lus rau tsev kawm ntawv raws nws lub hnub nyoog. Tom qab 6 lub xyoo, nws yuav nyuaj heev rau tus menyuam los pab. Thiab tsis muaj kev hais lus nyob rau lub hnub nyoog no coj nws teeb meem loj thiab kev nyuaj nyob hauv tsev kawm ntawv. Koj tsis tuaj yeem tsoo tsis yog menyuam yaus thiab pheej thov ntawm nws uas nws tau hais ib lo lus. Siab phem cuam tshuam rau lub xov tooj ntawm tus me nyuam lub siab, thiab vim li ntawd, tus me nyuam dhau los ua neeg nyob tus kheej. Hais qhia lub suab zoo uas koj tus menyuam ua tau zoo. Sim ntau npaum li ua tau ntawm kev sib txuas lus kom rov hais cov lus nws paub tseeb tias yuav hais lub suab li cas. Them ntau rau kev saib xyuas cov khoom siv zoo hauv lub cev yog ntiv tes tus neeg dhia tes taw, ua qauv ntawm av nplaum thiab plasticine, ua si nrog cov hlaws dai, khawm thiab hauv tus tsim qauv. Qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws yog kom nyob ze tus menyuam yam li sai tau. Rau cov chav kawm, xaiv cov xuaj moos thaum tus me nyuam siab tus, thiab niam txiv tsis muaj teeb meem nrawm. Nco ntsoov tias tsis muaj leej twg cuam tshuam, thiab ib puag ncig ua rau tus me nyuam muaj kev nyab xeeb. Yog tias koj tus menyuam tsis hais, tsis txhob ntshai; nrog rau txoj hauv kev, muaj txhua txoj hauv kev uas qhov teebmeem yuav nyob mus ib txhis thaum menyuam yaus.
